Angelica

Rock Hudson

As far as I'm aware to be a police officer you need to be a citizen. If he was interested in being a dispatcher, a green card will suffice...

tea

stars

Wall

Cat on a Hot Tin Roof

fantastic

butch cassidy and the sundance kid

doors

oops i was way too slow !!

straws

Hello yourself ....

The police check you submitted with your K1 visa application is only relevant to anything (offences) that occured ( or not ) in the UK. The FBI check which is run when you apply for AOS, is relevant to anything that has occured here and probably due to the terrorist threat anywhere else.

kim

the bod who interviewed us at the aos ..called it the vanilla card...

stirs

What makes you laugh depends on whether you are a man or a woman.

I speak for men in saying that small things like a promise to get laid would make one smile.

I was looking at the pet peeves and was wondering...what little things make you smile

some of mine in no particular order....

Being in the same continent as my hubbub and seeing him every day !!

Walking through crunchy leaves

Watching the birds at the feeder

Watching the dogs play

Thunderstorms at night

Small kindnesses that people do without thinking

Getting the last parking space

Being warm and cozy inside when it's cold and wet outside

Cuddling

Virgin snow

Starry nights

Bubble baths

Singing in bed with my hubbub

Going to dance classes

Bumping into friends and having a chat

Being able to make plans together.....just being together

That's a few of mine, now over to you

Kim

narrow minded people..... bad manners...tailgaters...shell suits !!...litter louts....racism...hypocrites...brussel sprouts ( now what are they all about ? ) All these adverts for ed, contraception etc that tell you how good they are, then go on to say the side effects may be blood clots, strokes, limbs dropping off or death I guess death is a permanant cure all !!

kim

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It does eventually end up at the local office where your interview is held. Every piece of paper submitted, including your emails to each other etc end up there also. We send about 175 emails alone and some poor soul read all of them !! The bod I saw noticed some of our emails to each other were highlighted, she said they do that if theres anything suspicious or "juicy " Ours were juicy !!

Kim

Bram Stokers Dracula

poses

sweet !!

heath

lanes

I'm sorry you're having a hard time at the mo' I'm a thinker too....there are consequences to everything we do, sometimes they are very obvious, sometimes not so. In theory if you distance yourself from people you cannot be hurt and you can have an element of control. Doesn't quite work like that tho' eh ? So, what are you getting out of this behaviour ? With me it was people who were "hard work " , I just had to win them over Not wanting to go into personal stuff it was learnt behaviour from my childhood, I got to the stage where I saw a pattern and once I realized what was happening I was able to make a concious decision about what to do in a similar situation. I asked myself what I was getting out of that behaviour, other than frustration and angst.......It was familiar....it might not have been pleasant, but it was familiar , and I felt I knew where I stood in a funny kinda way..that was my payoff. I decided my payoff wasn't worth it and was able to change.

I too wonder what it's all about...we all have to find our own way with no compass or map...Maybe whatever road we take, the destinations the same !! Be kind to yourself

kim

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