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Lisa I agree....which is why I had initially thought this site wasn't for me. The strong opinions just really took me by surprise is all. I've got a lot going on in my life right now and probably too sensitive. I was able to stop the thread and I'm happy to stay and get the advice I was hoping for.

I'm a new member as of two days ago and would like to delete my account. Upon first looking at this site....I found very helpful advice and will continue to use it for that; but there are people that come on here that seem to want to cause trouble. I don't need that. I just want to be an observer and not a participator but didn't see where I could delete. Anyone know?

Hello everyone! My name is Dawn my fiance's name is Paul. I'm in the US and he is in the UK. Our ultimate goal is for him to move here. We know I have to file the 129 petition but would love for someone to let us know time-lines etc. We met online almost 4 mths ago and have not met in person; airfare tickets and knowing it would crush us to separate again. I suppose my question is, how much weight is put on meeting in person? Also, can he come here before the process is completed? Should he come on a tourist visa first to meet? Thank you so much for helping.
Dawn