Sorry to hear that, it was a nightmare, i do hope it's just that but i think you should talk face to face, you've been waiting this for long... you don't have to stay there for 90 days if things are unsure, fly back and start again with your own. At least you will try to settle these "journey of love" Good luck, and wish you well. Can i say "have a safe trip?" HAVE FAITH, GOD BLESS YOU!