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hmm does your kids respect or listen her as there mom or stepmom? or did you treat her as your wife?not a servant at home? we really dont know about the whole story tho but your wife cannot say those kind of words if evrything inside the house is fine.

so sad to hear about this Al,in time you will find a woman that will truly love you in return,who knows she is just near on you,you just dont notice it cos you were busy from the woman in russia. take time to hang out with your family and friends. evrything happen for a reason,their is someone who desserve better on you. I feel for you,we were the sep batch and i still remember how we both excited to hear our NOA2. but things will be ok in time. you desserve someone better.

I am happy to announce that we have our NOA2 april 11. atlast. hope all our september batch will get there NOA2 also.. finally after this topic reach to 86 pages its a long wait but its worth,we do have a lot of trials before we get into this moment.

Congratulations to you as well.

I am seriously happy for everyone of my fellow September filers who finally made it through. However, at the same time I cannot help it but to sit here and cry and wonder if it will ever happen for us.

Who else from our original group is still waiting?

I am still here,waiting for the NOA2,i always follow about this topic,and happy some of our batch got approved,but i hope we will be next. this is really frustrating me,i missed my fiance so bad,and he feels the same way too. if only I could go to his place without Visa,i would rather just go visit him and wont be in a hurry waiting for NOA2. and oh,im just out of processing time,6 months is really out of the time frame. so come on VSC staff,show us that you are capable with your job. we want the fair treatment

You guys, this process is driving me crazy. The past couple weeks have really gotten to me. As we have surpassed five months and inched closer to six, it really feels like there is NO end in sight.

When I filed back in October, approvals were coming after about 2-3 months. That didn't seem too long to me. As the months passed, I noticed other filers were being approved in four months! Some even as long as five - five being the absolute MAX. Now, as people's timelines inch closer to six and seven months, I never know when it is going to end. When is it going to be my turn? There are easily still a hundred before me on VJ alone. VSC appears to only be approving 1-2 VJ'ers on any given day - I know that is a small percentage of totals, but at that rate, it will be another two months before I seee any action.

I've called my Senator. The aide has tried contacting VSC. They finally got a response stating that if my case isn't approved by April 5, they will put in an expedition request. But then what? Another thirty days after that?

I called NCSC and put in a service request. When I e-mail customer service to ask about the status of it, they tell me the same thing - wait until April 5. Then you will be REALLY considered outside normal processing time (at six months!) and we can start to think about processing you.

I used to excitedly log on to the USCIS website every day to check my status, multiple times. Now, I rarely go on - it's such a disappointment to see that nothing has changed.

I never, ever thought it would take this long. I thought maybe I would even be a lucky one who got approved in four months! But as the processing times continue to expand and nothing continues to be done about it, my hope is all but gone. I'm depressed, sad. When people ask me when my fiance is coming, all I can do is sigh and say I don't know. All the happiness has been sucked out of my engagement. Isn't engagement supposed to be a happy time? Shopping for china patterns, celebrating this happy time with family and friends. It is not supposed to be a time for sadness, stress, depression, and being thousands of miles apart.

I know many of us are in this same situation. I just had to vent. I am sick of feeling so powerless and hopeless.

Best wishes to all.

I can relate how you feel, ughh i didnt check our status online too like i used before,the excitement is over, the excitement of waiting the NOA2 is over

i just read your post earlier being worried about VSC closed beacuse of the bad weather,and later on you got APPROVED on your NOA2,wow should i also do the same thing?so I can embrace my NOA2 also? hhahahaha

CONGRATULATION :dance: :dance:

NOA1 sep 22 here! my fiancee called them when we hit the 5 month mark and they are saying they are still working for the month of august 21 to 22 filers. too bad untill now they are still having the same answer,still in august 21 filers

ohh yea you'r right..hehe.. yes he called them yesterday and today we got RFE..not know yet whats the RFE about..

guess RFE is request for more evidence. btw on feb 22 my fiancee called them since we hit already the five month mark,and they are saying they are still looking on the august 21 and 22 filers,hmmmmm and i am surprise untill now they still on august 21 filers huh!

What *if* maybe he is not a bad guy and you are imagining things.. like the Fightbook/facebook blocking ...etc. ? Ask him if he loves and wants to marry you. If he says yes, I think you should give him a chance.

hmm maybe after all of those what she wrote on her story,i cant tell that the guy is good enough! what is the reason of blocking and showing the screen of the computer with that lady on pic and hes bf?

guess its imporatant to hear the other side of the story. but anyhow,i dont give my sympathy into that kind of guy!

thank you so much for the advice u made me cry. i love him , he always keep telling me he needs me, he loves me truly, im the one he wants but i guess he still not contented.

dont believe on what he say because he never do.. if he truly mean what he says on you,he would have take you whenever that guy go or travel in any part of philippines. knoor even not blocking you to post on hes site. love yourself girl,set him free so you will be happy. you will regret if you gonna take this too long. end this while its early

omg.. sorry to hear that,it really hurt on your part.. if i were you,i would never have any communication into that guy,he is just a bf of yours and you were not married to him.you still have the chance to find any guy that love you in return. as I am readign on your story,i can tell that guy is really cheating on you and not that so honest on you. i dont see any love from him,how could he do such a lot of lies. please get yourself over him,he dont desserve to be loved by you. I guess he always make you cry because all he did is really hurting on your part.

theres is someone out there that desserve your TLC. hope all what he did on you really open your eyes that this guy is not that honest and not even care your feelings.

I was hoping you two will talk in a good way,you desserve to be happy,please be wise

I think you meant "after." Nonetheless, it is hard to pin-point the exact reasons some cases are as fast as they are. Although I know those USCIS sometimes mix cases up.

oh sorry i meant after. oh its just toomuch in my head wondering what is happening to vsc.

i am also wondering why some who file K1 visa got there NOA2 in just 27 days before they got there NOA1,and when i ask why too fast,they said they dont know why.

I felt sad to think about this,i will be happy hearing some get approved too fast,but sad for those who are waiting too long and some takes 7 motnhs before they got NOA2 and some not getting any luck yet. too bad,I am one of those who are still waiting for the NOA2,but we are waiting patiently.

Noa2 Approved!

awwwe nice to hear that.hope ours will be next congrats and Goodluck!

i saw their timeline and its dated 2009-11-27 when they get there NOA1. so maybe in 5 months they got the NOA2 which is april 2010. i was wondering why took so long before they take an action on where the paper goes why they never got the packet 3.

I would suggest to read some topics regarding about this situation. here is some link that may gave you some idea http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/96596-noa-2-expiration/

Goodluck on your journey

Thanks, maybe I'm thinking too hard about this...

dont think toomuch about that VISA process,first thing to do is to enjoy your company with her,and have the quality time together with your woman before you proceed the next step.

We are already married so I don't think we need an intent to marry document (or do we?), but thanks

oh sorry i thoguht you were under K1 visa

goodluck for your interview.. sorry i cant help more for this time.

YAY!!!! We sent our last packet in, and in less than a month we have our interview date in Dublin April 28th!

So, besides the medical exam, what do we need to do to prepare? Also, with the medical exam, how long in advance should we get it done (does it expire)?

Thank you!!

make sure to bring also your latest Intent to marry letter on your interview once you get than with your medical,you dont have to worry because your interview date is close.and medical result will expire 6 months.

Goodluck and congrats

I just wanted to comment on this part. Love is not a competition. You shouldn't be pointing out what you've done and what she hasn't done. You even say it yourself that, in the end, she's going to make the true sacrifice . So, why make it a competition?

And, as a guy, I really don't expect anything on Valentine's Day. I just want her to be happy with what I give for her.

i will count myself as one of those ladies who got upset on valentines day because of not getting any surprise from our loveones which we expected they would do,i am just upset but i dont fight,and i still talk to him as nothings happen.then later after couple days i got a flower delivery which is really surprising me.

those happening has open a lot on my mind and how he loved me somuch as I did.

after i got the flowers on my hand,i realize its not that important to receive flowers on valentines i know how great to receive something like this from our loveones,specially that they are making an effort to send it to other side of the country,but what really matter is the love and care.those gifts were nothing,compare to the love and care they can give us in evry minute till whole life.

Mr florida should not react a lot about not getting anything on valentines and saying he will took off the visa for her,its really hurt to hear that,infact he knows that his woman did a delivery but the florist got wrong with the info. guess it has the reason why this happen. hope evrthing will be ok and we will be hearing Mr florida about what happen.

step back,you both did somthing wrong that leads your relationship into like this situation.

when you get upset about that valentine flowers never delivered to you and doesnt even greet you or even sending a card,then you saidd you will not continue the visa process,is killing her,and that really hurt her.how could you say it with just getting upset into that,you dont even ask her or talk to her what had happen,you might know,she wanted you to surprise,and she just wait till you get the delivery from florist.

but i just couldnt understand why she cut all the communication from you till facebook,i bet she really mad upset on you. IMO,you need to cool off,dont take pride will win over you,when things gets better try to call her again,or do email,untill you would know what really the reason why shes acting like that,and be ready wi yourself about her explanation. anyway evrything happen for a reason. you have to be prepared whatever happen,yes it hurt,evrybody in a relationship experience with this kind of hurted. but if your ex will tell you that she didnt care for you,then open your eyes,its hard to move on,but you can get over in time.. when the time come that you and her will be ok,then take this situation as a lesson for both of you.

they also saidthe same thing when my fiance called them,and that they are still working from the month of august 22 2010.for me its there way to say in polite way to not bug them for 30 days. but i am hoping youll get NOA2 soon,our timeline is very close...... I would be happy to hear you get your NOA2 next week.

I just want to say that I contacted my senator Friday and I got approved today. Saxby Chambliss you can have my vote anytime!!!

vermont already approved for those who receive their NOA1 dated sept 09 2010

omg,vermont service center really need more staff. and guess they stop checking our papers again because of the snow. hope not....

Hello Everyone,

I joined a while back but never posted an introduction.

I live near Wiley,Texas.

I trying to remain Calm and not pull my hair out as I wait the process.

Good luck one and all

vermont seems catching up there time now,yesterday they were on sep 3 but now they are in sep 7 according to Approximate Processing Dates

I don't think what you wear will have any bearing on whether you get the visa. JMHO. That is, of course, unless you are naked.

hahaha,yeah. but i feel better now that i know skinny jeans were ok,so i will be more comfortable during the interview