Hicham♥Sara

I don't have an answer exactly, but as long as you addressed all of your red flags in your petition, then you did the best that you can do. Hope everything works out. Very handsome couple

Thank you all I appreciate the advice, and I will definitely use it, bottom line is I do have to take the time, I babysit all day, go to school, and take care of my family and I am like I don't even have time to read a novel! But some other advice someone gave me was that I can send in this particular evidence at the NVC stage, which gives me time to do this and still get the petition in! We are so ready to get started. Enough time apart, for real

Thank you all again SO MUCH!

Haha and I have already handed Hicham the Skype duty ( he was a willing volunteer anyways)

I am finding that going through 3 years worth of chat logs to be completely stressful. It is nice to re-read things, and see how we have progressed as a couple, but there is so much, and I just do not have the time or patience really when I am doing so much already. I have a lot of evidence, pictures and such, it's just these chat records that are breaking me, lol. I know I don't even have them all and I am wondering if anyone who has gone through the Moroccan Consulate in Casablanca has ever sent in a petition without chat logs and the problems it may or may not have caused. What are your thoughts on alternative suggestions of showing on-going interaction, like email headers, facebook interaction etc. This would be much easier than scouring pages upon pages upon pages of chat over the course of 3 years. OY VE!

Thanks for any feedback,

Sara

thank you all for your replies! I just emailed Hicham is g325 a and he has the letter of intent that we worked on together ( we used the example from VJ haha ) and he will sign those and send me his passport photos along with that. It does not look like he needs to sign the I129f so I think we are good I really appreciate all the help.

Hi all,

thank you for reading my thread and thanks for any advice Sorry if it is a simple question, but I am wondering if my fiance' has to sign and mail the forms for the K-1 to me or if they can be printed, signed and then e-mailed.

Thank you !

Sara

I am sorry for my earlier post =/ My apologies for not offering any useful advice, I have no business giving any anyways since I am not experienced and just starting out, my emotions got the best of me because I feel like I have to defend Hicham, really for no reason other than the reputation at Casa. This thread was asking for help and I used it to vent my feelings, again I do apologize and God be with everyone on their journey.

Sarasusan

I came across this thread and I am almost at a loss for words. But I think I can dig some up. This situation just does not seem right. Whether this is a troll, a joke, or for real... First of all, with English like that, how are you even able to communicate with your wife? If you can't keep your story straight here on this public forum, surely you could not keep a straight story with the CO. It is very confusing to me, how you can go into an interview like this, when there are people like me, who are feeling so intimidated by the Moroccan Consulate because of craziness like this. Yes, I said it, ANTA MAJNOON. أنت مجنون. I usually don't comment, but wow to think that Hicham has to face a CO who holds much skepticism because of this.. it makes me want to cry =*(

Somehow I just happened to stumble on this thread and I am a little bit curious, because I am learning a 2nd language ( arabic), and as I learn to write it, I also am reading it, and learning to speak I am not sure I understand how one can write in English very well but not be able to talk on the phone or in person on even remotely the same level? To me this is a huge Red Flag for the CO, and your gut is telling you the same since you asked for it. How do you guys work out your future plans? Is she using a translating system to write to you? I really am just confused and wonder how that all works really for any couple with such big language barriers. Just being in Morocco and trying to talk to those around me with my small amount of Arabic was hard enough asking for a glass of water.. I am lucky that Hicham speaks English well and was able to translate things between his family and I. But if he and I had such a language barrier I just don't know how we would genuinely hash out some of the

major topics we discuss as a couple. I am just trying to get a better understanding of this problem and how couples like you deal with that

Sarasusan

Thanks for the replies! I am super flowery mushy gushy and I need to be taken down a notch sometimes! Ok, Well this makes it much easier

Ok! Decision has been made, and we are going to file an I 129F. So I have a few questions

When writing our letters of intent to marry as well as the description of how we have met ( within the last two year) Do we get all sappy and pour our hearts out with our love and why we want to marry and all that jazz? Or, do we keep it simple and business like and say we intend to marry on this day and keep it short? LOL if it's up to me I will write a book with glitter and music as an expression of myself, however I know that I tend to go overboard and this may be too much for the USCIS. Or is there a benefit of showing who we are in this stuff? xD OMG why can't it be so simple LOL

Thanks for any help.

Sara

This is a great story that will encourage many others. Thanks for sharing

Like I said I apologise for being a little jaded. Thank you for not taking complete offence to that I hope that it all worked out for you and I do think even if I am off on the 8 months that you shaved off a lot of time. Anyways, I am glad that you are able to keep your fiance safe, at least there is that peace of mind that she is not stuck in Dubai where she could really get in trouble. Morocco just seems to be a lot more laid back when it comes to their "laws".

Further expedite the visa? I mean, I am not trying to be rude, maybe I am a little jaded , so please forgive me. However, I think you should be grateful for even getting the expedite in the first place. It baffles me how they did not know for themselves that it is legal and ok for her to be in Morocco, but that is on them I guess. You have just however reduced your wait time around 8 months coming out of Morocco on a K1. Sorry the situation is burning a hole in your pocket with hotel costs, I guess it can't hurt to ask for any further expedite but I think that you are VERY BLESSED with the expedition you have gotten. People who are living in conditions of extreme danger are not even getting these kinds of expedites.

Agree 100%. Although, I have thought to myself that IF he can get a job here (see: your point about unemployment near 12%) this would be a fairly decent starting point in America. The beach, warm weather, multicultural in many parts of the state. The buildings and trees certainly have more of the "look" of Morocco than most of the U.S.... but I don't know at the end of the day how much that matters, or if it's all just superficial. I think the fact that it's so spread out down here, a "driving area" as opposed to a "public transit/walking area" would be a negative. IMHO certain larger cities provide more of than neighborhood feel where you can walk down to a nearby cafe and actually recognize some familiar faces more than Florida, which is so spread out.

ok you guys, sorry for being so specific with Florida. I was not thinking about politics and economy, just more atmosphere. It was just an idea, there are other coastal states that might feel more like home with MORE sunshine and less like Iowa City and more like Morocco. I know if I moved from even Virginia Beach to Iowa it would be a very hard transition. I live in Richmond now and I am glad that the ocean is just a two hour drive. Sunshine and nice weatherdoes make a difference. Long winters can be draining.

Hey Sarasusan, what great idea, moving to Ft.Lauderdale FL is marvelous idea. I live in Ft.lauderdale, and my husband got here

a year ago, and he seems pretty adjusted so far! Sunny all year long.....and when rain comes you enjoy it! Great Suggestion!!

hey thanks

I loved Ft Lauderdale when I was there boarding a cruise ship, we spent two nights there and it was nice, driving around it was really neat especially all the cuban restraunts. I have always loved Florida and there are other towns I am sure that will fit the bill, but I definitely think that it has a Morocco feel to it.

Does anybody have any thoughts, suggestions, ideas, anything that might help this situation?? What should I do? What can I do?[/font][/size]

First, I have read this thread a couple times and it really has been on my heart. So, I want you to know I put some thought into this.

Have you ever thought about moving somewhere? Somewhere that might be more like Morocco in the US? More sunshine, warmth, lots of corner stores, a lot of people, somewhere like Fort Lauderdale, Florida. Somewhere where the landscape, ocean , sun and architechture are more like it there. You would have the benefit of the US with the feel of Morocco. Really I know .. moving? But I think it is something good to consider . Hicham and I have talked about moving to Florida too. I love Florida, I love the Caribbean and I love Morocco, I love the houses in FL and the laid back lifestyle just like in Morocco. They even have cafe like places more abundantly in towns like that in Florida.

This is my Idea, God bless

Sarasusan

When people add me, I just accept. You never know who might be interesting. Only about 25% of them end up being these guys. He was deleted straight away after this chat

YOU ARE AN INTERNIZZLE TRIPIZZLE LOL hehehehehe

Are you willing to think outside the box? I am going to give you some advice that will solve all your problems with income. I know you are a woman. I hope you don't think that is a barrier to what I am going to tell you. You mentioned this economy is in the dumper; true in most non skilled occupations. You sound desperate. I understand this. One industry that has always remained strong throughout all economic times is the trucking industry. Men and woman of all walks of life happen to drive big trucks. The pay is good and the work is steady. If you have any better ideas in order to support your loved one and most importantly, passing your AOS interview, I am all ears. Some larger companies will pay for your training and you will pay them back over two years. This might not be for you, but do you want to take the risk of being denied due to lack of income? You are inside a box now. Think outside that box! Food for thought; there are 10 jobs for every driver in the US now. Starting pay is about $35,000 and goes up and up and up with experience.

This is good advice ! My Fiance is in school right now in Morocco training for International/Commercial driver's liscence so that this is an opportunity he can take here in the United States!

It doesn't bother me at all. If it were easier for young Moroccan men to get visitor visas, every Imade, Achraf, and Mohamed would be getting them and overstaying- and that would make things harder at Casablanca than they already are. And I just can't imagine things being any harder than they already are. Not worth it.

Good point.

Sara

Yay I love it ! Noa2!!

I don't know how much clearer I can be. It is not a risk I would ever take, personally, even though I feel for the OP's situation. I'm not really sure why some members feel so confident about doling out damaging advice without any experience with Casablanca, but, at least the correct information is out there.

I think all of us who are dealing with, or are learning about Casa can feel for her. I get this question all the time.. "can't he just come and visit?" Oh if only. But at least the alternative is pretty neat too, visting a country as fascinating as Morocco.

here is the link for the first video. There are 8 I think. Very informative on immigrating from Moroco.

Just out of curiousity, are the rules different or the same for each consulate?

If the rules are different or stricter in any way, would it not be the advise of those that have been through, dealt with, and cried over this particular consulate be the most accurate? Just curious cause maybe I am missing something that discredits the people who have been there and done that with Casa.

Directly to the OP Watch the videos on youtube for the Casablanca consulate, the chief consulate explains exactly in detail what someone needs to get a tourist visa. I am sorry , but it is really hard , even with strong ties. You practically have to be anchored with a tether. She burst my bubbles hardcore on those videos cause she is very blunt and to the point. However , this is the reality of Casa.

Some other advice, maybe you can go on vacation over there with a family member, my uncle ( practically my dad) came to meet Hicham, even if it is one person, it's a nice feeling having someone else see for themselves

God Bless and remember LOVE is patient even if we are not

Sara

I'm sorry for your denial =( Remember everything happens for a reason, and when it comes to true love only trials like this can make you stronger. I have seen this in these cases where there is a denial, it helped the couple work together and get through a rough time and just brought them that much closer. Morocco is beautiful, you can have a small wedding not to huge and remember our dollar goes very far over there. and I agree with squeeky, get a beautiful dress The best is yet to come

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V2sKH8yjVsM&feature=related

exactly~~~ !!!! LOL xD!!!!!