UglyNerdManVJ

Win? Is this about winning? I'm a new immigration lawyer. this isn't winning, it's proving reality. Evidence, following the rules, not commiting perjury etc...

So, what will you do now?

If you dont understand discrimination of men in Vawa and the type of help thats available to them, then i dont know what to tell you mr new lawyer.

I have faced no help, alot of odds and alot of people on here telling me I wont get through or win my appeal, the fact is I won my sppeal, because if everyone followed the rules and I had gotten a fair review of all my evidence then i wouldnt have been denied in the first place. You have to fight to prove your case with your own money, time, patience and finding a good lawyer. If you cant comprehend the naysayers and negativity i have encountered on here and the lack of help as a man i have endured to get to this point, i cant help ya understand then.

But maybe ur one of those ppl on a new account or not. For me it was a real battle I had to work hard documenting my abuse looking for help traveling places to get my ex wifes bc to prove bonafide i had to do alot of things, during my abuse searching for help and being rejected because i waa a man, watching that most men dont get through with vawa and even coming here and having negativity pointed my way. I could have given up but i didnt. I had to do so much to protect myself. I needed help and reilef from all that i have gone through, i needed my abuse to finally be over and for me it was finishing this Vawa case. To me its something i worked for and earned,

I won my appeal. My Lawyer also said "I Won" and you know what, you cant take that fact away from me.

To you it is simple as that, for me it was a battle because of all the discrimination i have come under not being able tgo get help as a man, not only that having people on here telling me i wouldnt get through. I had a real relationship and evidence of such, i had excessive evidence i submitted but it wasnt looked at. so the whole proving reality evidence and me following the rules.. i had to appeal from my decision because the rules put down which is for me to submit all evidence i can and for them to accept it.. some ppl dont really follow. i felt accused of committing perjury by my intial denial when they dont even look at my evidence. Its like a bank account is more proof of a good faith marriage rather than being of a similar cultural backround, visting friends and family, having a family life, video and pictures. yeah uh..

What im gonna do now?

Before i met my ex wife, i was 210 lbs in college with a small waist and a generally good looking guy i worked out alot and school went fine. During the course of my abuse i became less of a man and horrid looking, she was parinoid about other women. i got hit and if i wanted to leave shed threaten to kill herself. i went through real abuse. I really let myself go. I havent had the confidence because of my life with her to recover since, Its affected my relationships with people. Im going to work on my mental health first.

Im going to work on myself and my body and finally i can give it a rest. The type of abuse i had lived through made it so that i held onto alot of evidence which i have in a giant box.

After everythings filed i can throw away that stuff finally!

I love science and medicine and I hope to go to eventually work on being a DO, but in the mean time im just gonna focus on getting better.

Before this case i wanted to enter the military and work towards building a future with my ex wife. I had it mapped out, i had ideas for building our credit and buying somethings and well probably doing something along the lines of buying some sorta store. we are both indian and use that as security so we could move foward on our goals and dreams. but now I gotta find a new path for myself.

I do want to buy a home instead of rent and i want to make myself a man of good standing in my own mind which is to be a doctor or something alone those lines. Hopefully i'll make it. I have someone who loves me, my own problems because of my abuse have made it hard, maybe now i can move forward with my life. I've always found test and studying easy just because of my abuse i couldnt focus anymore. I want to go back to school. I used the money i would have used from my parents to go to school on my ex wife and our life together. Now i can just focus on me and my life. I got alot of good business ideas and i know as long as i work hard at it ill get the things i want.

I've made up my mind and I'm going to be happy. WINNING.

congrats hope you have a gr8 life

Thankyou! i will do my best.

Hey guys i wanted to Update yall.

and i just wanna set some things straight. I had a ton of evidence, alo9t of family stuff including video pics etc. My lawyer told me that he got statements that they cant look at that but the bia will look at it. we had tax returns and bills and things we bought for our residence etc. i had lots of pictures of us, video of us. I have detailed recordings about admission of my abuse and the type of abuse, medical docs, alot of things. they originally denied me on good faith but out of all seriousness even with alot of family based evidence they just wanted a BANK ACCOUNT.

regardless of all the naysayers all which dont have any Vawa Appeals experience. I won. The BIA does look at evidence, the guy who did my case didnt even compregend my abuse he probably looked at some official letters from some of the people and the documentation, if he understood my abuse he wouldnt ask solely for a bank account. thats really why i was denied some guy skimming away not really looking at anything.

regardless ill say it again and it feels good. I WON. where there used to be a Decision and denial theres not this on my EAnumberthingie!

Post Decision Activity

On __________, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I360 PETITION FOR AMERASIAN, WIDOWER, OR SPECIAL IMMIGRANT. Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service at _________

For approved applications/petitions, post-decision activity may include USCIS sending notification of the approved application/petition to the National Visa Center or the Department of State. For denied applications/petitions, post-decision activity may include the processing of an appeal and/or motions to reopen or reconsider and revocations.

i took out the number and the date because i have seen how vicous some members and trolls are on these boards, you can look up appeals online fter desicsions are made and i dont want to be harassed by people on here. having a moderator come in speaks for itself.

I am happy and I want other people to know if you really have a true case with the evidence regardless of all the stigmatism of being a man, you can win in an appeal because hey will actually look at our evidence and its not decided by one guy who is having a bad day just skimming through your case, which is the real impression i got from the Vt Center. Just have the evidence, Have faith and know that it gets better.

Looking back I really think Vawa needs to change and be reformed, people trained to understand the abuse, the center itself should review all evidence given and not be held down by lazyness or not being able to watch video or hear recordings etc. I dont know about every state but in mine there is almost no way for an abused man to get help and the resources are just nonexistent

hey guys i had filed back in 2010 had a denial for good faith with no extra rfe they also mentioned they didnt look at my evidence/ videoof us, proof with family etc. well the person who made the denial was pretty rude and overlooked evidence blatantly. anyways with the pure amount of evidence provided i talked to lawyer we filed an appeal in 2011 he was SHURE i would get a fair look@ all my evidence and all the nonsense i encountered with the VTcis and my wrongful denial.

I filed and appeal and won a little while ago. in 2012 My i 360 is approved.

Whats gonna happen now? whats the process from an approved i360 from an appeal with the BIA? anyone know or have experience? would like straight answers not someones opinion. because i was a real victim and i satisfied all the requirements with evidence in excess.

The long story short i have an approved i360 now my lawyers waiting for some stuff in mail? what will i be filing? im excited.

I just wanted to say i didnt find any of you people helpful or consoling. your advice felt more like helping ppl who actually do vawa fraud.

I was denied in letters they said they did not look at alot of my evidence which was hard evidence. They are supposed to accept all evidence. the person who reviewed my case didnt do his JOB. regardless of what all of you think the center didnt do its job as i provided tons of evidence with family and video and everything. i had hard medical data. bills, mutual address etc. i got denied because i didnt have a bank account, i didnt care about a bank account because i explained i couldnt get one with my lacking of documents and my abusive spouse controlled everything.

In the end you were all wrong. THE BIA looked at my evidence. I was approved. My excessive hard evidence being honest and not trying to decieve anyone payed off.

I won.to all you negative people I have been approved. Good day trolls.

I just wanted to say i didnt find any of you people helpful or consoling. your advice felt more like helping ppl who actually do vawa fraud.

I was denied in letters they said they did not look at alot of my evidence which was hard evidence. They are supposed to accept all evidence. the person who reviewed my case didnt do his JOB. regardless of what all of you think the center didnt do its job as i provided tons of evidence with family and video and everything. i had hard medical data. bills, mutual address etc. i got denied because i didnt have a bank account, i didnt care about a bank account because i explained i couldnt get one with my lacking of documents and my abusive spouse controlled everything. The idea that family, interaction with family pictures with friends happy moments and personal details,video photosm is not a good faith marriage and a bank account is is abysmal to me.

In the end you were all wrong. THE BIA looked at my evidence. I was approved. My excessive hard evidence being honest and not trying to decieve or worryin that i give too much evidence anyone payed off.

Unlike many people in this forum my marriage was real and for love. I loved my ex wife and I didnt care about my paper work, i sought help from abuse and took the steps provided but the system is hard on men and i feel many people who handle vawa dont understand abuse and what is available to victims fully or can really comprehend their evidence. they also lack the ability to watch video and use data or things on flash drives/cds dcds etc. A person could have years of video and happy family moments showing family but get denied from not having a bank account because VT wont look@ evidence. they lack the ability to follow the very guidlines they victims to get with all the evidence they can muster and overlook many things. I guess evidence that they didnt even look at like video and family stuff IS hard enough for GOOD FAITH! because we had a very intertwined family life. we had video together and pictures. they didnt look@ anything they just want a bank account.

MY lawyer said the BIA will give me a fair chance and will actually look at my evidence provided all of it and you know what? HE WAS RIGHT and all of you people were wrong.

I won. thats all i have to say to you people. .

i was looking for people with experience with appealsto share their story but i got a bunch of nonsense and conjecture.

I have won my appeal. I know in my heart ppl at the vt center didnt do their job or look at my evidence. i had too much family stuff video pictures and details of our family life bills and other things. They did not recognize the scope of abuse and the ability to get insurance and bank accounts is up to the abuser not the victim. the person who did my case didnt even ask specifically for a second rfe before denial. i got my one rfe and then a denial. it didnt make sense. it was wrong how i was denied. and my appeal proves this. i say good day to you all. i will move on with my life and be happy now.

I just wanted to say i didnt find any of you people helpful or consoling. your advice felt more like helping ppl who actually do vawa fraud.

I was denied in letters they said they did not look at alot of my evidence which was hard evidence. They are supposed to accept all evidence. the person who reviewed my case didnt do his JOB. regardless of what all of you think the center didnt do its job as i provided tons of evidence with family and video and everything. i had hard medical data. bills, mutual address etc. i got denied because i didnt have a bank account, i didnt care about a bank account because i explained i couldnt get one with my lacking of documents and my abusive spouse controlled everything.

In the end you were all wrong. THE BIA looked at my evidence. I was approved. My excessive hard evidence being honest and not trying to decieve anyone payed off.

I won.to all you negative people I have been approved. Good day trolls.

the advice im reading on here sounds more Con than anything. I will not send some weird party who didnt know us. my family sent affidavits and i believe they would be willing to testify. the people that knew us also as friends and close friends they were all notarized. i have pictures of us but im hearing stuff like that is a red flag too. We created a video cuz we just were in love jesus.. it was to share with friends and family mostly. red flag for that? uh unless someone responds with their experience in appeals i dont think ill respond anymore. None of you have experience with appeals.

I will however if denied my appeal refile. I will send a more detailed writing with more evidence than before. My lawyer had told me it is my right to refile.

I have considered what some of you had said. I do have what little bills i do have of us showing mutual addresses. Ill send what i can. my lawyer said i had 30 days to send in additional stuff following my appeal.

AND I HAVE SENT HARD EVIDENCE. they want more and more and more i feel the guy didnt not even look@ the majority of it and he sent a response injecting an opinion, an opinion i have picked apart and my lawyer can show is erroneous. My lawyer had confidence.

i actually got less from the people on here...

Once again anyone have experience with appeals and why were you denied? did you win ? why or why not.

seeing ppl on this forum namely women get through with just writing and not even half the bills i sent, no real documented abuse and just their marrige certificate.

I have my hospital bills now. i have dental bills where she did pay for me but i could not. i have bills in our adress and her future address, because of my abuse i could not attain my mail. We have assets we obtained. I have sent plenty of evidence

Say what you want. Look around this forum. the amount of evidence i sent them and the amount women send in pales in comparison when i look in general.. I sent ALOT of hard evidence and now im sending more.

anyone can make a video? what... im tired of this i was asking if anyone has won an appeal. did you go through VAWA? other wise im wondering what advice of knowledge could you have.. unless you are one of the uscis ppl who troll here. i am sending them my divorce also and my judgement of my extreme cruelty against my wife. Thanksfully my divorce sent by my wife had requested equitable distribution. though she did not win it she asked.

i now have my hospital bills its shows my insurance carrier. I did not sign myself up for it my wife did. I am sending everything I possibly can.

But i am asking once again Has anyone here On this forum had experience with a VAWA DENIAL APPEAL.

i made an error and i do not know how to edit. I did not refile yet i had already appealed on my laywers advice.

woah ur saying very intimate pics. its only pictures of us with i love yous or us kissing together. How is that a red flag? thats crazy what im hearing... should we be far apart?

i mean my lawyer told me to appeal. sorry my lawyer is the one who said i should appeal and id get a fair trial because he feels the descision made by the response was erroneous.

my lawyer told me to refile he said they did not look at alot of evidence nor did they mention it. it honestly feels the director dude who sent the denial was injecting his opinion i had pictures of us with ppl who sent affidavits in their home also.

she had my bills i didnt not enter for a sham marriage we new eachotehr since 2006, lived together since 2007, married in 2008 divorced in 2010. she has our bills our mutual mail that went to our old apartment she arranged for a neighbor to give it to her and the landlord was unusually mean to me and i couldnt even talk to my neighbors. its because she lied about me to people which i put on tape and snet to them. our marriage was based on love i left because i couldnt tolerate the abuse anymore. even finding help i didnt know what to look for. i called domestic violence hotlines they refferred me all around i got juggled and everywhere didnt help men. one place told me to go to uscis in newark and they gave me the vawa thing in 09 i had no idea what it was for, i just wanted our marriage to get better and i needed help for all my abuse. the place i nthe area which treats people does not take in new patients anymore and it was the only one i could go for free.

they sent an rfe asking for good faith marriage specifically my lawyer told me to get affidavits from friendsd and family and to explain our courtship. like they said i sent a tax filing and utility and recipets of things purchased on my behalf. i was denied on solely bank account property insurance? I asked my wife to file for insurance as i had medical issues and we could pay the premium. it part of my extreme cruelty divorce and abuse. The part about family? are you people crazy we did spend time with outr family i introduced her to everyone she was a part of my life and we were making a future together. i feel because my status became a crutch it just became a nightmare.

I PROVED my batter yyou think i would endure all that for someone i do not love? Jeez. they sent an rfe and i sent what i could and explained that she keepsour mail i even asked her for our bills. we had obtained assets such as equipment computers and other things together. she is denying me that.

i thought good faith was defined as.

Whether the couple have known each other for a reasonably long time;

The frequency of meetings of the couple prior to the marriage;

Whether the couple have lived together in the past or presently live together;

Whether the couple married only after one party became the subject of an investigation, removal, or deportation proceedings by the USCIS. An immigration petition may not be approved for the alien who was married after the commencement of removal, exclusion, or deportation proceeding until the alien has resided outside the U.S. for at least two years, unless the alien spouse can prove the marriage was a good faith marriage and not solely for immigration purposes.

To prove the marriage was entered into in good faith, the following evidence should be presented:

Document showing joint ownership of property;

Whether the couple comes from diverse cultural background or speaks a common language.

hospital bills dont count? the guy wanted to see debts?

A red flag to show our intimacy and closeness as a loving couple? that we were romantic and i love you pictures we took at the mall is a red flag? Jesus i think i need an explanation.. Theres a problem that she attended family events and friends bbqs with me? Jesus... not having those things sounds more like a sham to me.

sorry to hear this. so your wife never petition you? file for AOS or something?

we started but she didnt send in the stuff because she was punshing me for telling my mother about an instance where a firend of hers was threatening my life and she was framing me for things i didnt do and i was afraid to go to the police because she said she would lie about me. i caught this on tape and sent it to uscis. they believed my battery.

i was denied solely of things in my abusers possession and that my abuser would have to do for me. they believe we cohabited.... makes NO sense that she isnt gaining from that. the guy also said i have to evidence to back up my romance? i have video and multiple pictures i sent.

i feel this denial is beyond stupid. i have sent them what bills i could. but now i have access to our medical bills so i will send those. If i could get a bank account i would have some paperwork such as a valid SS from having a greencard. the only legal id i have a passport from trinidad. I have a TIN but i do not think that is valid to open a bank account with. It was dependant on my spouse and i get punished for wanting help.

You already appealed? Thats a tricky one refiling whilest your appeal is pending,bro I dont know about this one someone will need to help me answer this one.I thought you had not appealed yet.You should have sent that 17 pages ,your story plays a big role in the vawa process as you are the person that knows exactly what happend .Why did the lawyer edit it?

he said it was too long and they wont read it. he mentioned this whole thing about that they wont read 17 pages etc and not to overburden them with inforjmation... basically i had about 100 pages and he sent 20. i believe i have 30 days. to submit new information while they recieve the appeal. he said it is my right to refile.

i dont know when i can though he has not answered alot of my questions as of recent. i needed someone to help me with everything because i couldnt see or read straight before. now i can most of the time.

Here is a question for you ,why dont you re-apply than appealing.Appealing USCIS will charge you a fee for that and like I said its rare for them to change there mind from denial to approval unless they had send you NOID before actual denial letter.You would have sent those documents you want to send now.Re-applying is free plus it will give you time to look for those documents becuase they will send you RFE .Think about it ,sometimes lawyers dont know what there doing .I had seen a lawyer before I applied for vawa who told me I had a weak case told me i had no proof of abuse and my case wouldnt be approved,as she wanted police report.My abuse was mentally,control,asolation name it except physical abuse.I filed my own papers and was approved.

i am thinking of doing just that. my lawyer didnt want to overburden them with evidence and cut out tons of stuff i had given. i think he chopped down alot of my stuff i had originally wrote 17 pages into 3.

i will refile myself. how im going to do it I do not know how, but i can gather up all my evidences and resend it organized in a binder. even though i am on a forum when i think of my abuse the letters become jumbled when i look at my evidence my heart beats funny and i get flashbacks. i feel like i cant move when that happens. its gonna be hard but I think i should refile or start refiling anyways.

can i refile while my appeal is going through?

alright i do have hospital bills from the past as we both went she checked me in for emergency. i am going tommotow first thing.

i sent them one tax filing already. all i can do is get those bills. I had good intent getting married and multiple reinforce that. it was our future going to the airforce together. i cna prove she kept my finances from me through emails messages of her refusing to give me etc. i believed as a man my role was to take care of my wife. so i provided the home money for food everything i could. she benefitted from living with me.

but i can get hospital bills hopefully.

Its better to re-apply than to appeal.Its very rare for USCIS to be found that they didnt approval you when you had everything.I have seen people on VAWA forum that where denied instead of appeal they re-applied and were approved.I would recommend re-apply as there chances of being approved than appeal.Whilest you are re-applying work on your evidence,you can call the credits card company to give you statement or you can print them from online as you had joint debts ,since you paid for rent did you put her on the lease you can go ask for a compy of the lease from your former landlord.The uscis wont accepts letters to explain financial( bonafide marraige) from people.They want actual documents from companies.Please consider re-applying.

she wasnt on the lease i was and my mom. she just lived there wit us but i proved she lived there with backround checks and affidavits form other people, i also have some of her posessions still.

Unfortunately the only prove of good-faith marriage is financial. I would say you are waisting your time with everything else. It is easy to get affidavits from friends and picture. True prove is financial intermingling. Unless you obtain at least one of the following they will keep denying it:

1) Joint Apartment lease or mortgage

2) Joint bank account

3) Joint credit card or other debt

4) Mutual beneficiary on each other's life insurance.

5) You being on her health insurance plan

6) Joint car payments or joint car insurance.

You absolute3lyn need at least one of them to show commitment

Unless you at least have ONE of the above there is no way you will be able to prove. I understand that it stinks but unfortunately this is the truth.

i paid for our apartment she lived with me rent free isnt that providing something for her? i have hospital bills and we had charity csre she signed me up but those bills and debts and assets we did aquire are in her posession and she will not share them. i have proof of me asking her. not getting those things are part of my abuse and its defined as abuse by the ppl who did my domestic violence letter even. thats just crazy if what you are saying is true.

im now sending like everything i have about over 70 pages of us talking arguing more evidence. ill print out pictures all over again. im resending my affidavits and pointing it out. im sending my divorce decree and the fact that she triedt o get alimony and equitable dsitribution where as she didnt even file my working papers and I won basically for extreme cruelty. I had proved i been battered and abused and controlled and it makes no sense of all of this hurting if i didnt love my wife.

This descision makes NO sense.

Hi all i was denied my Vawa petition and I have filed for an appeal.

I have a lawyer.

They believe i have been battered. they believed we lived together.

the 7 requirements, i have satisfied all except good faith marriage.

My bills I have shown what i could things purchased for me by my wife. i shown our mutual residence.

I had sent them a email showing my wife refused to give me my bills.

I had shown both me and my wife are from a mutual cultural backround and many affidavits from friends who knew us as a loving couple.

These people include the best man at our wedding who wanted us to be his son's god parents. his wife at the time. photos of us as a couple with my bestman and his wife. photos of my wedding. affidavits from 2 uncles, one aunt. my god sister and cousin confirming she had been at family events and that she was the only girl i really every introduced to my family. In depth affidavits from my mother who came over frequently and paid for us. One from my step mother that she had met michelle as part of my family. Another from a friend who is in the military who supports my abuse that i tried working things out with my wife but she didnt follow through and our intent was to go to the airforce together. Another family friend whom i have known for over a decade i would bring my wife over to their home for holidays and many events wrote and knew about our plans and reaffirmed out intent was to go to the military. another friend reaffirmed i was serious and i went over his house with her for bbqs

My abuse included pyschological controls using my status to put me down she would mock me for not working and being sad yet shes the one who has to file my working papers? They want me to get a bank account with her but without a greencard/social security that is impossible! We do have debts and some things we acquired but I have emails showing she refused to share them with me. I have even recently begged her and i am submitting this..

The guys says friends..... and they do not know??? but i have family. I have submitted photos on a flashdrive, i have submitted multiple comments from us talking together. i have SUBMITTED video of us in bed hugging and kissing! i have VIDEO i sent. I have FAMILY all my affidavits are notarized! Notarized. this guy did not even ponder my evidence he just wanted bank statements property something impossible for me to have as an abused spouse as my spouse controlled that section of our relationship and I have Begged. BEGGED... what am i supposed to do. This director guy has denied me for NONSENSE... i feel he didnt even read ANY of my evidence. that not even counting the affidavits fo my abuse..

My lawyer said we should file and appeal because it makes no sense also to him. So has anyone else had any experiences with stuff like an appeal? I have sent them the original notarized statements by suggestion of my lawyer i have seen ppl tell me to refile but im afraid my evidence will be lost if so even if i have copies theyre not the originals.

This was my denial

Paragraph(7) above requires the self petitioning spouse establish that he or she entered into the qualifying relationship to the citizen of lawful permanent resident in good faith. With your I-360, you initially submitted several utility statements, lease agreement, and photographs, you were advised that this single document was insufficient to establish that you married your spouse in good faith. You were requested to submit additional evidence.

Your response was received in this office on August 22, 2011, and includes your personal statement and affidavits from many friends. However, while your friends speak well of you in their affidavits, they do not possess sufficient knowledge of your relationship with your spouse, and of your good faith intent in entering into marriage with Michelle. Further, in your self affidavit you describe the love and affection you had for your wife; however no evidence was submitted to corroborate this claim or to establish that your intent was to create a life together.

Consequently, you have not submitted documentary evidence showing that you and _______ shared a marital relationship whereby you shared bank accounts, the responsibility for bills, and other requirements associated with marriage. The evidence provided does not demonstrate that you and ______ commingled finances, and that following your marriage, you created accounts and debts, and acquired assets demonstrating long-term commitment to one another.

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It just blows my mind! Our marriage was based on love and i introduced her to the whole of my family she was integrated with my family were from the same island when it comes to ethnic origin and culture just our religions are different. I have video of us and he says all that. Its like hes just injecting his opinion.. These people everyone all explictly knew us as a loving couple and they were part of our lives the ones who gave the affidavits which are notarized. many ppl speak of our intent was to be a joint military couple because we were poor. My wife didnt file for me because she was punishing me for seeking help or telling my mom about my abuse and some crazy things.. i couldnt keep it inside anymore.

So my status not getting health insurance econimic issues are beyond my control their in my abusers hands and they were tools to abuse me with and this guy wants that? all i can do is submit i have begged my ex wife now for them. I have a divorce decree of extreme cruelty also.

Im filing for an appeal. Basically i showed that i was battered. i lived with my spouse. video of us together, pictures of us together with friends. letters from family that shes been at family events. documentation that i have been a batter spouse. i have an extreme cruelty divorce. i gave them tax filings, our lease, showed she lived there. why i love my wife and our courtship they believe everything

They denied me based on that i did not show. "mutual property, insurance, bank accounts"

That is just........ impossible to fathom..We are filing an appeal.. i may even get a letter from my ex-wife stating that we were married in faith... but you know... they believe we loved eachother.. but its just not a good marriage in Faith? What the.. this has to be appeal i was denied unjustly.

Ok i got my decision and im no longer worried. Im quite frankly Offended.

This is my decision basically.

I have a Qualifying Relationship.

im elligable for immigrant classification.

is residing here

has resided here.

has lived with spouse.

has a romantic relationship with my spouse?

has family photos and letters of family with me and my spouse.

has photos of me with friends and spouse.

has video of me with spouse.

Has been battered and they believe me i have given excessive proof in my humble opinion.

I have given my own testimony and they even know why and how i fell in love with my wife?

So why did they deny me? I gave them our tax filings, 7 financial statements of products purchased for me with my Wifes creditcard and receipets my lease shown we had mutual residence but they denied it because this...

"I failed to show mutual bank accounts, property statements, insurance claims........." because thats proof of a good faith marriage? What the hell happend to love? How is it possible for a person with lacking documenttation to get a bank account? all i have is my passport and my tax identification? im just a college student.. and I even explain that not getting health insurance was a problem of our relationship and a need as there was other medical issues in our issues.

This is nuts and I am appealing. I am even going the extra mile to ask my ex wife for a letter. I never lied to her or treated her badly and i talked to her as of recent and she wnats to apologize. I won an extreme cruelty divorce and i have excessive evidence. What else can a man do? This Crazy.

WHAT IN THE WORLD is WRONG with these people who review these? I am outraged and yes I will write about it. Its insane.

How do they expect someone who has proven that he has gone the extra mile and sought help and gotten some help and done everything he can and has moved away form him

hey guys i have been following your forum, i just got a decision but it just says decision i see many of you saying approved etc,. my lawyer hasn't received it yet.

im scared but im wondering if that normal when you check your eac using the uscis site?

Good luck! Thinking positive thoughts for you!

thankyou theyre response scares me alot! my lawyer should be getting the mail today it reads on the site

Decision

On September 14, 2011, we mailed you a denial decision notice for this case I360 PETITION FOR AMERASIAN, WIDOWER, OR SPECIAL IMMIGRANT. The notice explains why the denial decision was made and the options that may be available to you. If you have not received this notice within 15 days of September 14, 2011, please call customer service at 1-800-375-5283 for further assistance.

During this step the formal decision (approved/denied) is written and the decision notice is mailed and/or emailed to the applicant/petitioner. You can use our current processing time to gauge when you can expect to receive a final decision.

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this scares me like so much as its so unclear. im hoping for the best, my hearts pounding and i cant even sleep.

i also had a letter from an additional uncle and a friend who i went to his bbqs with me and my wife as a couple. i had forgotton. I believe i put ALOT of evidence.