papillonlover

Just so I can get a head of the ballgame here...Which forms will be inside the packet that will be brought to the embassy? I can't find a definitve list on here...Also, Marcel is from Nigeria, but currently resides in Cyprus because of school...There aren't any details on that embassy, as far as, extra forms they may require or if they want to see more than one year of my w-2s etc...

Sorry for all the questions, but you guys are much more informative than any govt. site....

I would assume that was the only problem, yes.

That's what we thought at first and then we started thinking maybe we were wrong...thanks for your input..

So if they accept the petition which it seems like it will be going through is this the next step that Marcel will receive his packet for his medical exam and interview etc...? Can he expect forms in there to fill out and then I have to gather a list of stuff to send to him? I have already sent the entire 129f to him that I photocopied. His dad is sending his birth certificate and police report from Nigeria through DHL tomorrow so he will have those. He is also sending Marcel a sworn affadavit of his correct birth date because he just discovered they had put the wrong year on his passport. He never realized it until he went to the police station in Cyprus (where he is finishing up Grad school) and looked at the Police Report. He went back to them and told them they had the wrong year down. Thepoliceman said they used what was on his passport. We are hoping between the affadavit formt he courts and hia birth certificate that it wil be okay.

I'm back with another question...remember, Marcel and I had an RFE on our 129f that I had placed a photocopy instead of the original with my signature from Page 3 ? That was the only request on the form so is it safe to assume they went through the rest of the package and would have stated any other paperwork missing or that was filled out wrong etc...? They dind't get to the 3rd page and reuqested that and thenw ill continue looking at the 129f form right? Just want to ease my mind and Marcel's that this should be approved as that is all they asked for (original page 3)....

Thanks for your help...

If you don't mind me asking, what is P.3?

OK, now I'm assuming your mean page 3 of the I-129F, right? The one with the signature that needs to be the original?

I was thinking I had missed something else!

Good luck with everything!

LOL Yes you are correct. Page 3 of the 129f form where you have your signature. Thanks so much......

Hi Guys,

I checked the status of our 129f petition and it is showing RFE area as colored in. I called the automated system to see if I could get more info. It says that they sent form I-797. So am I understanding correctly that this I-797 form will come saying "Not yet approved, please show us more evidence etc.."? if that is the case, then what is the evidence more often than not? i.e. more pics?, more copies of certain things...At first I thought I-797 always meant an approval notice, but now after reading some threads that is not the case....

Thanks for enlightening me in any way, shape or form....=)

UPDATE ON THIS ORIGINAL POST:

I received the RFE today and I simply didn't realize I placed the photocopy of P.3 in, instead of the original. My, my, my was I relieved. lol Will be sending that off tomorrow in the mail. Now we are getting a bit more excited and not as nervous....the journey continues!

I had that same problem with the cell phone and phonecards, but if you are using yahoo messenger you can print the voice call logs and send those instead to show how often you talk on there, only if you were using the voice call. Also you can print the chat log with name and dates.

Hi,

I forgot we had chatted on FB too which is where we had initially met. I tink I may have the Fb chat on clear history so it never saved anything. I, also, know I had my computer reformatted I think aroudn x-mas, so I am praying I can still find them. Also, how do you pull up your history on either of these chats do you know? I just looked up on messenger and can't find anywhere to try and find our conversations or at least dates and times as you had mentioned. I'm really tinking it isn't this as the problema s another poster had stated as well, but I'm curious to see if I could even pull this info up at all from my computer.

Thanks for your help...

Double check the guide here on the "guides" section. There is a list of what you need. I made the big mistake of reading and trusting what the USCIS website site said. The list that they gave was incomplete! Ironically, I would have done better to ignore the actual government website and to have read the guide here on VJ first, but I didn't, and it cost me an RFE, a month of extra waiting, and a lot more anxiety. So double check your copies of the things that you filed (assuming that you kept copies) with the list under "guides" and you will probably see what is missing. Best wishes.

Thank you for the advice....very good advice.

Ah, okay. Well keep on keeping up with those details. I'm not the expert on those matters, but you should have all that sorted clearly so you're on top of your game. Address where his packet 3 will be sent, etc. It can be troublesome to have different addresses going, but you've probably worked that out... someone with more expertise can help with any questions about his specific location situation. And yeah, Nigeria is a tough spot but many have gone through tougher with success. You just have to be smart and thorough, and it sounds like you are being just that. If there are hitches or delays, just keep putting your head down and dealing with them. Desperation does not help: diligence, patience, and perseverance are what works for this. Good luck. It's all do-able. PM me anytime.

Will do! I'm simply trying to stay ahead of the ballgame without getting consumed/overwhlemed by it all...that's where the one step at a time concept comes into play...lol

Thanks for all your help and I will PM you trust me! lol Later gator...

Thank you! It's amazing once it's all over (or this first part anyway). As they say about the pain of childbirth, you forget how nightmarish it all was quickly. But I think you keep whatever fortitude it taught you.

As for visiting during interview time, you certainly should if you can. You might check in your regional section to see if petitioners are allowed in interview; some consulates allow it. Even if they are not, sometimes it helps that the officer knows the significant other is there (Marcel might bring your passport in with him to indicate that you are around), especially in higher fraud consulates, of which I believe Nigeria is one. Certainly can't hurt. The interview stage is where you'll want to have all your abundant proof of relationship at hand. That's where they make the call. Pay close attention to the experiences of others at Nigerian consulate so you're well-prepared and confident.

And congratulations on getting started!

Thank you so much. I told him that there is probably an automatic orange flag based on where he is from (unfortunately) so we just grin and bear it, and do as they say If they want us to jump through 10 hoops we show them we can jump 20! lol Anyways, we are trying to time it with me going back over to see him. Just to clarify he is not in Nigeria right now. he is currently in Cyprus finishing his Grad work. He just has to do his final project and he will get his Masters. I don't think him going to shcool in a different coutnry will cause a problem of where his interview will be etc.. there is a consulate over there in Nicosia.

Yes you are clearly deranged. Don't worry; it will all be sorted out soon. Just take this process one step at a time, deal with what's in front of you, and try to remain sane. It can be done!

LOL That is why YOU are here..to keep me as sane as possible and not let me "lose it". lol Thanks so much for helping me out and we will take it one step at a time. I will be back with more questions, believe you me!! lol

BTW, CONGRATS on your journey. I was just talking to Marcel about your timeline and he gave a big WOOHOO and said, "That will be us soon!" lol

If you sent proof of meeting within the two years before you filed, like passport stamps etc., it's probably not an issue of not having enough pictures or whatnot. There are plenty of tiny details that can slip by when filling out the forms, and it's usually something paperwork related. The pictures and call history stuff is secondary evidence of meeting, and as long as you sent a couple hand-dated ones, they won't make or break your petition approval. USCIS is looking for the basic requirements to be in order; they are not really in the business of judging whether you have enough pictures etc. Just wait for the RFE, follow its instructions, and send whatever is required. Don't worry too much until you have the facts in hand.

Well, your post just made me feel a whole lot better. I was so desperate for evidence I even put in a copy of a calling card I purchased in Turkey on my way to Cyprus.Also, i threw in a copy of a menu from our favorite pizza joint in Cyprus. Another desperate measure was a copy of this plastic wrapper that contained silverware from an eatery. It had the address of the place on it. lol

I'm thinking to myself, just take it one step at a time. It was confusing to me because of the status update and then the message was about form I-797 which I had never heard of. At first, I thought I missed a form. lol Sigh** this is just the beginning.

*On a sidenote*...When his interview is scheduled (hopefull) am I able to travel to see him so I can be "sround" the day he goes for it? I kow I can't be in the room, but I thought it would help him stay calm with me being there so to speak.

we got an rfe too but it was very minor, my fiance missed to answer one question in the i-129form ...even after checking the form so many times before sending it, yours maybe different so just wait for the hardcopy of the rfe and send it back soon as you have what they need..goodluck...

Thanks so much for responding. I am praying it is minor. My fiance thinks we didn't have enough pictures. I sent 4 or 5, and wrote the dates and i think location on the back since I forgot to set the date on the camera. My other concern is I couldn't show cell phone calls because we actually communicated mostly on messenger to save money and when we were on the phone(not a cell phone) I used an international phonecard which you just keep adding money onto. I did print out a copy of when I added money on every time trying to show that it was a good amount. Now we talk on Skype and I use Rynga to talk to him. it's awful though not knwoing yet what they are going to want and praying it is minor, and then wondering how the heck you missed something. lol

Hi Guys,

I checked the status of our 129f petition and it is showing RFE area as colored in. I called the automated system to see if I could get more info. It says that they sent form I-797. So am I understanding correctly that this I-797 form will come saying "Not yet approved, please show us more evidence etc.."? if that is the case, then what is the evidence more often than not? i.e. more pics?, more copies of certain things...At first I thought I-797 always meant an approval notice, but now after reading some threads that is not the case....

Thanks for enlightening me in any way, shape or form....=)