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They quoted both the Thomas and Arai cases to reinforce that the judge has discretion in weighing the positive and negative factors. They weren't trying to make a direct comparison between those negative factors. Thomas obviously had overwhelming negative factors. The judge apparently determined that the negative factors in your husband's case were enough to outweigh the positive factors, and the BIA apparently agreed with him.
I haven't seen any posts on VJ from anyone else who had submitted a joint motion to reopen. Even if you find someone, their case would have to be nearly identical to yours in order to be able to infer anything from their experience. For example, you couldn't make a direct comparison to someone whose AOS had been denied because they had a single conviction for shoplifting a pack of gum and then managed to successfully get the Service counsel to join their motion to reopen. Is a single conviction for shoplifting a pack of gum a less severe negative factor than five arrests? Is it more? Who knows?
I'm going to prognosticate, and predict that your motion will be denied. Do you have a plan for what you will do next? Have you discussed this possibility with your attorney? Will you file an appeal in a district court? How long are you willing to leave your husband in detention while you try to fight this? How much money are you willing to spend on legal fees?
Where did you get the impression that she's an LPR? If that were the case then there would be no judge's discretion involved. He wouldn't be eligible to adjust status because of the overstay - case closed. In the BIA denial she quoted it said "his United States citizens wife and child". I think she's clearly a USC.
According to the verbiage, she is a LPR- see below for copy and paste from original post.
We have taken into account the respondent’s favorable equities in this
country including his length of residence, family ties (lawful permanent resident wife, their 4-year-old United States citizen child, lawful permanent resident mother and half-brother),
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I just went to the police station in the city I live in and asked for a background check report. It took 10 minutes from
the time i requested till the time the report was in my hands.
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My husband is from Khemisett too! We should start a thread to see who is from khemisett and if they all know each others!!
so cool!! party!!
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Below are the possible questions, not all but it is good to know the answer to all. Hope this helps.
1. Who is the Petitioner?
2. Where did you meet your wife?
3. Do you speak to many woman online?
4. What language does the petitioner speak?
5. How long have you known your wife?
6. Have you been married before? Do you have any children?
7. Has your wife been married before? Does she have any children?
8. What College your wife attended?
9. Which subjects has your WIFE studied?
10. How many times has your wife visited Morocco?
11. How long was each visit?
12. What's your wife full name?
13. Has she used any other names?
14. How many times have you met?
15. When and how did you meet?
16. When was the last time you were together?
17. How long have you known each other?
18. How long were you together the last time?
19. How long were you together any other time(s)?
20. What are the dates of the visits?
21. What have you done when your WIFE came?
22. Where did you go?
23. Where does your WIFE live? Which city and state?
24. What does your WIFE do for a living?
25. Where does your WIFE work?
26. What is your Wife’s phone number?
27. Do you know how long your WIFE has had this job?
28. Did you have a wedding ceremony?
29. Please describe your wedding ceremony.
30. Questions about the pictures; when, where and who.
31. Where will you live?
32. Have you met your Wife’s family?
33. Where does your Wife’s parents live?
34. How do you communicate with your WIFE?
35. How do you keep in touch?
36. What language do you use to communicate with your WIFE?
37. How many times do you and your WIFE talk on the phone each month?
38. Do you want children?
39. What does your family think about your marriage?
40. Do you love your WIFE?
41. What do you love about your WIFE?
42. Does your WIFE own or rent their home?
43. What is the address?
44. How long has your wife lived in Florida?
45. How much does your WIFE earn?
46. Write your Wife’s full name.
47. Have you ever been to the US?
48. Do you have any relatives/friends in the US?
49. Where do they live?
50. When did her mother died?
51. Does your WIFE have any brothers or sisters?
52. What are their names?
53. How old is he?
54. what does he do for a living?
55. where does he live?
56. how come there is no letter of intent on his behalf
57. What are your Wife’s hobbies and interests?
58. What are your hobbies and interests?
59. What do you have in common?
60. Do you know if your WIFE was married before?
61. How many times?
62. When did your WIFE divorce?
63. What is your wife ex husband name?
64. Why did they divorce?
65. Does your wife have any children?
66. What is her name?
67. How old is she?
68. When is her birthday?
69. What grade is she in?
70. What year was she born?
71. What does she call you?
72. Have you spoken to her?
73. How do you get along with your Wife’s child?
74. What is your Wife’s religious background?
75. Does your WIFE speak and understand your language?
76. Why do you want to come to the United States?
77. How old is your WIFE?
78. What is your Wife’s birth date?
79. Where was your WIFE born?
80. Do you speak and understand your Wife’s native language?
81. What do you do for a living?
82. What do you plan to do once you are in the US?
83. Do you plan to work in the US?
84. Do you plan to study in the US?
85. What company does your Wife’s work for and what is their title?
86. What is your Wife’s favorite food?
87. Where did your WIFE work in the past and for how long?
88. What color are your Wife’s eyes?
89. What color is your Wife’s hair?
90. Did you prepare the forms yourself?
91. Have you been in the military?
92. Who is the petitioner?
93. Please tell me more about your WIFE.
94. Do you plan to stay in the U.S. forever?
95. What made you decide to use the internet to find a WIFE?
96. How long has your WIFE been working for Atlantic Broadband?
97. When did you marry?
98. When was your wedding ceremony?
99. Who was there?
100. Was any of her family there?
101. Why weren't they there?
102. What is your religion?
103. Were you talking to a lot of women on the Internet?
104. What do you and your WIFE talk about on the phone?
105. Will you be a good parent to your Wife’s child?
106. Have you ever left Morocco?
107. For how long?
108. Why did you leave?
109. What did your wife love more here in Morocco?
110. Have you ever applied for a US Visa?
111. When did you apply?
112. Who was the petitioner?
113. What happened with the previous relationship?
114. WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU DON’T GET THE VISA?
More tips on the interview below……
1. Speak slow, and answer questions in detail. Stick to the question and don’t veer off the subject. Respond clear, and descriptive. Should not be longer than one minute to answer, but be sure to explain yourself.
2. If you do not know the answer to a question, do not lie. Say, "I don't know the answer to that at this time." or "I don't remember."
3. The answer to many questions will be in the papers that were sent in the petitions. Questions like, "what are your wife's parent's names". They will expect you to know the information given in your petitions. Review everything in your paperwork with your husband before his interview, and do a mock interview to see how the information may be applied.
4. Avoid saying "I think . . .". Women do this a lot. The examiner will expect you to know not be unsure, of your answers. Alwife, avoid adding "umm", "you know" and "ahh" type fillers to your speech.
5. When applicable, don't just state, demonstrate. If the examiner asks a question that can be answered with a document or photograph(s), provide it along with your answer.
For example, if the examiner asks, "What does your family think of your wife?", give them a picture or two with your answer; "They like her very much. Here is a picture of her with my mother at my home."
Or, "How many attended your wedding?" Answer, "(give a number, then say) We have wifeme lovely wedding photos of our guests having fun. Here are a few that I can show you."
6. Give American answers for dates and times. 12/24/07, not 24/12/07.
7. Dress well, but not overdressed.
8. Try to appear calm, well organized, and friendly. Nervousness raises suspicions.
9. Remain focused. If the examiner makes jokes, smile and enjoy, but do not make jokes too.
10. Make proper eye contact when conversing with the examiner, and try to control your own facial expressions assure that your face remains pleasant and cordial.
11. Be audible (means speak up) your examiner doesn't have to ask you to repeat your answers.
12. Organize your papers in a way that will allow you to retrieve them easily and quickly. Examiners appreciate order and someone who doesn't waste their time.
13. When the interview is over, always ask for the results. "What should I now tell my wife about my visa status after our interview?" Before you leave, have them explain any papers they give to you and/or any procedures they will be taking to complete your case. Try to get the examiner's name for future reference, if needed. Write it down. Remember to verify the phone number so they can contact you to pick up the VISA.!@! hurray@@!!!
14. Arrive early to the consulate, but always be prepared to wait for a time past your scheduled interview appointment time. Be careful of thieves around the consulate if you have to carry cash. Bring ID; you cannot enter without it.
CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY TO ANYTHING!
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Your attitude shows that you are a wonderful wife.there is no culture shock in Love. A heart filled with Love and guided by self remorse will never let you down.i wish you the best.
All that immigrate to another country experience some culture shock, some more
severe than others, new way of life, specially if you are a mena man going to have your western wife support you in every
aspect of your life existence while you settle down and get used to the hustle and bustle of life here in America.
What does love have to do with it?
Experiencing culture shock and depression has nothing to do with one another...it's like comparing apples to oranges.
Love is one thing.....going thru the separation of your family circle, working, just doing basic everyday things that they don’t
have to do in their countries is overwhelming for them.
Even ppl that come from the UK experience culture shock here and UK is a progressive country!
Anyways that was my two cents! Words stated here are only opinions!
Now, I do agree with your attitudes expresses the wonderful wife that you are Menaforlife! Wishing you great things in your life!
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STUPID!
My SO says that ppl down here in south florida will fight for no reason at all, and even to the point of killing someone
for no reason at all......therefore that is his word for population down here in south florida, cant say americans, bc the majority
were not even born here!
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I might have an opportunity to be our HR assistant at work. Im tossing and turning in my mind about it bcz I hate change but its so tempting and its completely different than what I've spent 11 yrs of Walmart doing (which is all up front and management) It would be every Sat 8-5, every Sunday off which I would love, and I pick my other day off, then 2 days 8-5 and 2 days 12-9. Same pay, same level but a completely different thing and a new change within work. Anyone worked HR before??? Adam thinks I'd be crazy if I dont take it, but Im so having a hard time in my mind.
I am in HR- I would jump at the opportunity bc it opens up so much more options in your career pathing future. HR is really a
great field to go into - there is an HR dept in every workplace, which opens career roads to take in the near or distant
future. I say "GO FOR IT"! Listen to your husband...dont give up this opportunity!
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I completely understand what you are going through. Please contact me anytime. I thought betrayal was the worst thing I could ever get over and I was so angry at myself for being so stupid. You are stronger than any betrayal from him or anyone else. You didn't ask for this and your loving heart is something to be thankful for and seen as a gift. It hurts so much when the person we want to see our inner beauty is so flippant about its depth and gift to him.
I don't know him. I don't understand him. I don't understand my own husband after 5 years. What I do know is how much I wanted him to be the person I made himself out to be in my mind. It feels like the world comes crashing down once the reality of who he is comes to light.
It says nothing about you but says everything about him. He is the troubled person who could not face being a man, husband and a father. He is the one to be ashamed, not you. Do not ever think twice that it was just you and you weren't good enough and that he will find the perfect wife and live happily ever after. What he gave you, he will give to her. How he made you feel, he will make her feel. Either way, he has NOTHING to offer anyone. I am willing to bet he will always keep looking for something to make him happy and he will never find it. He will be miserable because he has no concept that he had happiness in his hands with you and his daughter and he threw it all away through selfishness. He will never find happiness. Any woman he might attract will have his same values: immature, non-commital, insecure, selfish, flippant, etc. You know first hand what he brings to a relationship and that is what any girl in his future will get as well.
It hurts and hurts and hurts but please try to pay attention even to the smallest feelings that you have now that he is gone. You may very well begin to notice how free you feel. How much more time you have to start thinking about things that you can do for yourself that you haven't in a long time. You don't have to answer to anyone. You don't have to wonder when he's coming home, who he's been with, wonder who is calling him or who he is texting or the next moment he will get mad because of something you did that wasn't to his likeing or be put down for any reason. Start to notice the feel in the air when you are in your home. Start to see all the little things that begin to show up that make you feel better not matter how small.
It will get easier. I understand and I hope that you feel comfortable enough contacting me if you need anything.
((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))
A beautiful post indeed!! Good job!
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First, I have read this thread a couple times and it really has been on my heart. So, I want you to know I put some thought into this.
Have you ever thought about moving somewhere? Somewhere that might be more like Morocco in the US? More sunshine, warmth, lots of corner stores, a lot of people, somewhere like Fort Lauderdale, Florida. Somewhere where the landscape, ocean , sun and architechture are more like it there. You would have the benefit of the US with the feel of Morocco. Really I know .. moving? But I think it is something good to consider . Hicham and I have talked about moving to Florida too. I love Florida, I love the Caribbean and I love Morocco, I love the houses in FL and the laid back lifestyle just like in Morocco. They even have cafe like places more abundantly in towns like that in Florida.
This is my Idea, God bless
Sarasusan
Hey Sarasusan, what great idea, moving to Ft.Lauderdale FL is marvelous idea. I live in Ft.lauderdale, and my husband got here
a year ago, and he seems pretty adjusted so far! Sunny all year long.....and when rain comes you enjoy it! Great Suggestion!!
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HI, I am an HR administrator- and this info is what I use for parameters in the 401k plan. I only copied the beneficiary
info, but you can access the link. It is an IRS website. You just need identifying information for the beneficiary, not a Social.
Beneficiary Designation Form
Description: The beneficiary form designates who will receive benefits if the participant dies before receiving all of his/her benefits. If the participant is married or was married after becoming a participant, there are special rules regarding the benefits that must be paid to the participant’s spouse. If the participant fails to complete this form and dies, the plan will pay benefits as described in the plan document. This may not be in accordance with the participant’s wishes.
What It Should Contain: The beneficiary designation form should contain sufficient information for the participant to successfully name a beneficiary. The form might include:
information identifying the participant (such as name, plan identification number or employee number); the participant’s spouse (such as name, address); and the beneficiary or beneficiaries (such as name, address, relationship to the participant); and
a line for the participant to sign and date as well as a line for the spouse to sign and date if the spouse is designated by the plan to be the participant’s beneficiary and the participant would like to choose someone else to be the beneficiary.
Timing: Employees should receive a beneficiary designation form when they become a plan participant. Generally, the participant may change the beneficiary by completing a new beneficiary designation form.
Who Is Responsible For Sending It: The administrator of the plan.
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HI "loveinPeru"- I sent you a PM with my letter of intent. Hope it is helpful.
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I'm sorry for your denial =( Remember everything happens for a reason, and when it comes to true love only trials like this can make you stronger. I have seen this in these cases where there is a denial, it helped the couple work together and get through a rough time and just brought them that much closer. Morocco is beautiful, you can have a small wedding not to huge and remember our dollar goes very far over there. and I agree with squeeky, get a beautiful dress
The best is yet to come You and your Fiance are so cute! The pics are great, and you guys look great together. Thanks for sharing the pics with all of us.!
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I was also so scared to send the passport! But I got the passport back with the consular card in two weeks.! But , I can identify
with the fear of sending passport for the same reason "Yass" stated.
Hope you got an answer from the VJ that I recommended?
Good luck!
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Is this your NOA1 or NOA2?
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Hey, all!
Abdelhay just had his interview yesterday and I just wrote a description of his experience. I thought I added it to my timeline, but I'm not sure how to do that now! The review can be found in the Moroccan portal under "Consulate Reviews" though. Let me know if you guys have any additional questions! Good luck to everyone!!
Jessica
Jessica, great detail to your story on the experience in the Moroccan Consulate. I wanted to answer your questions you asked regarding front loading.
I did front load our application with the same information your SO took the day of the interview. So all the evidence was at the consulate before the interview was set for my husband. That is what front loading means, send all the evidence and financial documents with the original application.
Congrats again! Wish they would call him soon, and you could reunite with your love one.!
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HI , check your PM, i sent you a list of items that I sent with the file. I did front load the file.
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Not always the case. My husband was interrogated like a terror suspect by two CO's, but he handled his business, and in the end, he got his visa.
I started a thread like this last year, the "Hoping not to be denied in Casablanca thread". It went on for 47 pages, there was endless speculation on how to handle this consulate, and what could only be described as psychoanalysis of the CO's there. People posting in it still got denied. I've come to the conclusion that there is no rhyme or reason to this consulate- and most of the time, they have made up their mind before the interview starts. You've gotta go in there tight and well prepared, or you're screwed. That's it.
Background on my case:
Met in 2008
Visited for one month in Feb 2009
Had a child in Nov 2009
Filed K1 Jan 2010
Visited for six months Feb-Aug 2010
Interview June 2010
POE Aug 2010
Age difference: I'm one year older
Sarah....que cutie is your girl. Dressed in moroccan outfit ...down to the shoes...so adorable...totally off topic. Couldnt help it!! We have seen her grow here in VJ. She sure has grown...time fliesssss!
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Thank you for the information. I just checked the site. I have the form he has to fill out for the renewal. I was just curious about his birth certificate? We have a arabic copy and a certified english translation too? I noticed they wanted something no older than 3 months. Did you have a problem with that. I am hoping to travel to Morocco in the end of May. I wanted to purchase our tickets but I'm nervous we won't get his passport back in time. What do you think? He hasn't registered yet with the embassy. Should I send the forms together? Is there a fee for the consular card? Sorry for so many questions. Just going crazy over here I want everything to work out smoothly lol
Have a good day and thanks for the response
Regarding Birth Certificate: We had his family send him updated birth certificates that are within the 3 month range.
Ask his family in Morocco to get a new birth certificate, and send it chrono post. Do not risk it with sending an out dated birth
certificate. They might send all the renewal back to you. Also, no translation needed. You are sending it to the moroccan consulate
in which they deal with arabic documents, and all the personnel can read arabic. I did not do a transalation.
I do not suggest you purchase the tickets just yet. Although it only took two weeks for my husband passport to come back , it differs with case by case. Some VJer waited 4 months for her passport. YOu have to send the original passport, please dont forget that
step.
There is no cost for the consular card. They automatically send you this card with the renewal passport. I never registered my
husband with the embassy. Dont worry about that, once you send his passport renewal which has his VISA inside, they will register
him, and hence produce the consular card.
They only accept United States Postal Mail. REMEMBER to include a priority mail pre paid envelope.
Please , I was the same situation as you...I was really lost, but all went well. NP if you have other questions, I would love to
help.
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Our experience was very good with the Moroccan consulate. My husband was questioned for an hour, and given the visa immediately.
Upon the end of his interview, he was told to pick up his visa the next day. I read somewhere here in VJ that the consulate
already has predetermination before the interview ...who will get approved and who will be denied.
I have also realized from the pattern of stories, if you are not treated good in the consulate, you were getting denied, and
if you were spoken to in a respectful manner, you will be issued the visa.
Background on my case:
Met in 2006
Visited 10 times to be with my husband
Married 2009
Interview Jan 2010
POE-Feb 2010
Age difference: Only two years apart
Front loaded my case with a folder of 4 inches thick.
Wish this does not start a fireworks as Ms.Amera has stated, I know it can go south fast.
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Here is the website to have the list of documents needed for a passport. I sent my husband passport first week of Feb and it was
sent back in two weeks later. You must send in a USPS return envelope addressed to yourself. A consular card will be issued when
the passport is returned.
http://www.moroccanconsulate.com/pass.cfm
you must send in the actual passport.
Birth Certificate
Copy of the Moroccan identification
Two passport photos
Check or money order for $100.00
That is all I sent in, very important, you must send a priority envelope inside the USPS original envelope addressed to you.
Hope that was helpful. Let me know if you have any questions.
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Congratulations!! Yeah!@@ so happy for you!!
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hahahhaaha....never cease to amaze me!!!
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Ok gang....whose winning!! Who is on Charlie Sheen.???
Sofiyya 5
Wife of Mahmoud 5
Can we stand the tie breaker??
sorry that this topic i created ....
has created such animosity amongst
us!
That goes back to the saying..."PPl will forget what you said...but dont forget how you made them feel" !!
Mental Illness
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T- Sorry you had to go through all this in your life, and still I have not seen a negative post from you...I admire you overcoming
the facts of life, and the decision taken by the adult care taker when you were young. I feel much Peace from your words, and
although I do not know you personally, I am proud of you for not using the past to dictate your future.