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So you new you didn't want to be with him, or marry him, but yet you allowed him to come to the US on a K1? You are as much to blame as he is. Sorry.

This has nothing at all to do with revenge, no, he moved out of my home 1 week before 90 day permit because I had told him I did not want to marry him (before he even came). Also, he managed to hack my private emails, emailed all my friends on FB, yahoo, everywhere and told them I treated him bad (which I never did and had no reason to treat anyone like that). Was not looking for him, had no reason but on my FB I saw someone close to him had looked into my profile and it was probably someone related to him so I peaked into it and saw what I was NOT looking for, his wife and baby. There is obviously a reason he talked bad about me and it was because he wants to prove to his immigration lawyer that it was me the reason we didn't get married by treating him bad because that is exactly what his wife said, well not the lawyer but her. She has no clue about my life only what he has fed people which is nothing but all lies. He will want to prove he is the victim here and that I am looking for revenge, no nothing like that. I certainly want to do what is right and that is not letting anyone stay in this country illegally, although it is not my job, it is the immigration services but I am a responsible citizen of my country and want to do the right thing if it not too late. Please do not think I am a person that seeks revenge, no, no reason too, because he had a plan all along, that's the reason he came anyway, though didn't want to marry him. According to what his wife left on my FB was that their lawyer had already filed for his legal status, and if that is the case, well, be it, I was only looking for suggestions, advices and or opinions.

I have a question! I filed for k-1 visa fiance, he got to united states, however I decided i did not want to marry him, although he knew before he came. His family and he were aware that I had changed my mind, although i or we went through the process. Never pretended to hurt him, he decided, or thought I would change my mind and that I had cold feet. Well long story short, not the case. Found out he had married a 2nd time, which he did not report when I filed. I reported his 1st marriage to american woman but did divorce (legal), although difficult in Morocco but he managed to get it. Then he married another american woman. She came to U.S., was going to file but unfortunately never had the chance because she passed away but he NEVER did report this 2nd marriage. She was way older than him, just like I am. Anyhow, he left my house 2 weeks before he needed to go back. A friend helped him and now he is married, has a baby and they have a lawyer to fix his status. How in the world is this possible? He lied to immigration both in morocco and here in the states. Would he be able to get legality in the united states? He left his luggage, clothes, document and it was here I found out. Do i send document where? He even got as far as menacing me by saying that women like me get hung because I did not want to marry him.What can I do, do I send these papers to Vermont?, where?

VJers, it is sad that I will be forced to change my Ph number I have had for years & years in order not to be contacted by this bad person. I just learned through him that he is here and there, lying and lying of his whereabouts. He is using his own name, Abdelkader Karimi, where some universities have students with the same name. Last night he texted saying he was in the international college of Madison, therefore he is really capable of identity theft (madisoncollege.edu) saying for me to call and ask for this name, therefore I also need to alert authorities. One last thing is that he said in his country they hang women upside down and this could happen to me if I go to Morocco, therefore that is threat as far as I am concerned. I am afraid he will send virus to my computers because he is somewhat knowledgeable in technology. From what I have heard, is he is in Michigan but obviously has denied it as well as the help he got from his Moroccan friend here in Texas. Monday seems to long to wait but Sunday will be his last day he will be here legally.

_{Thank you for advice, I have already made contact and was told to make appointment, again, thank you in advance for your support as well as help.}

Thanks, but I do have to say I was not the best person at all. No one in my situation should have to tolerate indignity when he was specifically told to respect my home. Yes, I myself am not an angel but I've already re-deemed myself by allowing myself to forgive myself and him as well. First because as mentioned previously, I am no angel and no one is, but when it comes to issues that really are bothersome, disrespectful and address them and not done, then problems arise. I know he is from another culture but so am I and I never disrespected him, his family or his house when in Morocco...He even accused me of putting some wax thing on him to play witchery, OMG, that is so funny but more so ridiculous. I am a catholic woman and to begin with I am a non-believer but this is obviously what he thinks I am, so go figure... Again, thank you all for your support.

Thank you for your responses...

So do I need to do anything on my behalf, on my side after his permission expires? If not I will just let it go. As far as "friend" whom I stopped talking to a long, long time ago, I am not a vindictive person, god will take care of it all. These people probably believed everything he ever told them and heaven knows what. I honestly hoped this was the man that would love me eternally but obviously that was not the case and as far as fraud, I want to think in my heart it was never that. Yes, I had cold feet and hesitated very much and now I know why, god gave me guidance. I focus on the things that are important to me like my kids and my studies (hopefully someday a doctorate) and that is what really matters. Thank you so much for your help with your responses...

This is in reference to an old post which stated fiancé and I had been having problem, to make a long story short, I had decided not to get married after all. Forum followers posted all kinds of posts and I thank you all for that. However, fiancé and I had eventually made up and went to get marriage license but another argument stemmed up and due to this incident, he decided to just leave without his belongs. He only took his labtop and what he had on. His visa will expire this coming Sunday, July 6th and the reason I am posting this is because his Moroccan friend and wife bought him a ticket to go to Michigan knowing fully well his permission is about to expire. Now this is through hear say on FB and I would not doubt it at all since his Moroccan friend's wife (so I heard) will get him an American lady to marry my fiancé so he can stay legally here in the country. Again, this is hear say and I have no doubt and if this is his choice, then it was never love. On the other hand, I called customs but they were of no help although they did give me a number to call in San Antonio, Tx. Is there anything that the law says because of what these friends of fiancé did. Aren't they or will they not harbor help to aid an illegal person? Please advise....

Ok, quote my bad, but I certainly understand I cannot ship him back and I did not mean it that way, he is worthy of my respects. Hopefully we can resolve this Thank you all for your support and responses....

First off, I am not shipping him off and have total respect for these type of issues, more so to this man who is and has been an awesome, hardworking person. I did not buy ticket for him, he did this on his own and he himself said that" the same way he came is the same way he would go back." As far as me not knowing if things would work out, well who knew due to the fact that I have been single for over 18 years...and it was addressed. We did talk about this item, the fact that being alone for so long was going to be quite difficult to accustom being with someone, let alone marrying! Anyhow, I do not have credit cards and we are working on getting him the ticket. I believe I never said I wanted to ship him back, although I do know he needs to go back because it is the right thing to do and do have his full cooperation, unlike many other people that have done just that, stay in the country illegally. Hopefully we can find other revenues. Thank you all for your responses...

I need advice and by all means please consider my situation. Fiance was approved and finally here. It will be almost 1 month but I have thought about this marriage and even before he arrived, months prior I had addressed that I had changed my mind. I know and realize that some people are anxiously waiting for their approval but things happen in a person's life and it is better to do the right thing before it's too late. Rather, late as far as marriage is concerned. I had been waiting for almost 6 years and well, unfortunately I feel this will not work at all. Since I sponsored him I realize it is my full responsibility however, the situation as far as financially is impossible for me to send him back. In other words, I have to pay for his ticket and do not have the resources as of now. He only has 2 more months and needs to go back because I would not want to burden this country with another illegal person, and my full respects. What else can I do to send him back, of course I do have his full cooperation with this issue...Please do not reply if you will be judgemental. My feelings have change, just happened

Thanks to all who in some way or another helped me with the process. We were kinda nervous since this was my 2nd petition. First one was under Administrative and eventually expired.... Thank God it was approved...

For those of you with K1 process, my fiance's interview was October of 2013. He was approved but it took 5 months for his visa to be finally issued. It was totally useless to be calling consulate since either they never answered or was always being transferred to another non-working extension. Upon requesting Texas senators to help, only 1 responded but only to get same information I would get via email. I constantly was checking website for updates and it would say it was being processed and processed it was. But to those of you with this same type of issue, have patience. I finally got an answer from DOS who stated they would inquire further and so I am guessing this helped, so hooorrrayyyy, finally issued. I guess the next hurdle is yet to come and that is his adjustment to a totally different culture. Hopefully and I pray that all will be good, GOD WILLING AMN...

Do you have any opinions or know anything of the sort?

I mean no disrespect, I was confused since I really never understood Eid or Ramadan and I will eventually have time to learn and learn really well (hopefully it will be mutual as well for him), know it will... My concern as of now is yes, it is DOS that I called and so is this where I call and put a service request? Also,thank you Destiny64 for clarifying that as well. One last question, what is the standard AP? My concern is if they will eventually give him a 2nd interview and if they do then he will have to go through another medical examination since it will expire soon but again, as mentioned earlier, he was approved, took his passport and it has been little over 4 months.

Once again, I am asking for your input into our case. Fiance was approved 10/10.13, took his passport, was told to go back in 2 days. Long story short, was called to wait because of Ramadan. This was only to realize that it was administrative processing, which I think means more verification of documentation. Anyhow, it will be 4 months and still nothing. I am getting so nervous about all of this because it is useless to call. I did call service center because they did send him an e-mail saying case was not in Morocco. Therefore, what they told me when I called was that they would email me and will hopefully find out was is going on. Please let me know if this has ever happened and if it did, is there a solution?

It certainly will help your case if you or your petitioner sends one.

You will persevere, trust in God, have faith. He works miracles, believe me, easier said than done when you hear the word "cancer," but pray... Also, hopefully the process will be easy for you. I do not know the facts but if your fiance can travel to the U.S. that seems to be a very good thing. I wish you the best of luck and will pray for your health. Good Luck and God Bless...

Congratulations

I guess AP does last more than 3 months because I am under the same situation but K1, not married. It will be 3 months January 10th, so there is still hope ...He needs to be issued the visa since interview was approved...

No to the question of supporting fiance. He works in Morocco but support, well once he gets here we need to follow protocol as required so he can start looking for work...

Hopefully yes, God willing, thanks

Hopefully, yes, god willing, thanks!

Absolutely, staying positive is the way of survival with these type of situations, and thank you for your encouragement. I have called DOS and again, an automated answering system that says either inquire after 60 days or simply wait because processing may take longer. Also, they say that same information can be found online and that is where I check daily. Thanks for your response!

Thanks for response and hope....

THanks for responses but contacting congressman will not help, they just use whatever is in the website as has been the case previously. Also, yes, they have been holding his passport all this time and this is what I seem not to understand. Yes, I have read where AP can take 60 or more days and as told to fiance (morocco) when HE called, to wait at least 90 days but what IF it is not issued, then what? I am so worried that this visa will not come true for as. This is the 2nd time I file, 1st time we were put on AR and so the 2nd time was approved, or was it? I am so hesitant in being positive, this is holding up so many plans since his interview was approved for VISA and it is so sad that these people do not seem to understand they hold people's happiness in their jobs. Now, I am thankful that they do the type of processing that they do, it is their job but sometimes they take it to the extreme and again, do not get me wrong, they take it to the extreme and rightfully so but again, it is holding our plans to marry and start our lives together as a couple as we have been for years...