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ravenbow

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  1. Yes the more ammo the better..but, I never snail mailed anything to my fiance and we did just fine..in fact when she went to the interview last week..they didnt even look at the evidence she brought with her. Our focus was completing all the required documents and making sure everything was ready. When I sent the application I included about 6 photos of us and copies of my tickets and boarding passes and not that much more evidence, thinking she would bring more when she had her interview, and it turns out she didnt need any of it. But the more evidence you have the better for sure because you never know what is going to happen in the interview. Good luck

  2. Its interesting that you mention this..I have seen this myself and am suprised at how some have come here to America and surely changed..I dont of course know what these people were like before they moved here, but I certainly didnt like the way they acted towards me when I approached them. I am sure that they were the exception to the rule, I hope so anyway because i am marrying a filipino :) and i would hate to see my fiance act like this..

  3. The petioner will have to send a copy of his birth certificate when he files the application..He/she will also have to have a copy of divorce decree, and things like that..the beneficiary will have to have a birth cert also, and one for each child if they have any..but they dont need to be sent with the original application the petitioner sends to the uscis, you will need those at the interview..the instructions are all in the uscis website..good luck to you..

  4. Hello..congrats on getting your Rn here in the states. I am not filipino, but i am a Rn, and i would agree with the previous post, in the fact that you should be just fine in a long term care setting. It is much slower pace, and not as intensive nursing as say a hospital acute care. I would agree also, that you should continue to search for something outside of the long term care enviroment if you want to advance your career and have a more fast paced challenging career. I appreciate the nurses who work in long term care, and I know they are good at what they do, and some really enjoy it, and maybe you will also, but as far as advancement, your best bet would be working in a hospital or continuing your schooling. Good luck to you, and dont worry about talking to authority figures. I cant speak for everyone, but for most of my work experience, employers are good at orientation as far as making sure you know the job before you are on your own. I think you will be just fine.

  5. when did you file the k1? because didnt you send in the copy of the annulment with the application? I am in the same situation as you, and i sent my fiance's annulment papers with the application..She received 3 copies from the courts, and i am not sure on this, but she waited a couple months after the annulment was done and got a cenomar from the NSO office there that shows that she is free to marry. I think the annulment decree that was given to her from the courts is all she needs, and it should be at the NSO that she is free to marry with a cenomar. If you filed before Oct when she got her annulment, then you filed too early. Good luck

  6. you dont need the letter..in fact if you wait about a week you can call and schedule the interview without receiving the packet. I know this for a fact because i just did it a couple weeks ago. And when i called and scheduled her interview the man at the embassy said that it was approved about a few days before i called, so i could have done it earlier, but i would wait a week. Good luck

  7. my thoughts to you is contact the board of nursing in the state that you are living in..They should be able to tell you what you have to do..you should be able to go to their website for contact information..best of luck

  8. hmm i simpathize with you..i know ours took a little longer than i expected..i called the nvc and at first was told that it was under review, but then i called the next day and was told that it was sent to manila..so i would call the nvc if i were you..i was on hold though for like an hour, so b prepared..good luck..

  9. sorry to hear your not feeling well..my thoughts to you is to get your sore throat checked out though..I am a nurse and my thoughts to you is get a strep test..not to scare you or anything but if left untreated, it could get very serious..i know you may not have insurance and it would be a little bit of a burden to you, but its worth getting looked at..I hope you feel better, and enjoy your new life..but please go to a clinic and have them treat you..good luck..

  10. it sounds a little strange that you want to send her to phil to have the child to save money..of course it is possible, are you going with her? if not, wouldnt you want to be there for the birth? it is expensive just for the airfare to the philippines and back for the 3 of you..and how long is she planning on staying? because it would be difficult to travel back to america with a infant..anyway it wouldnt be that hard, but it would be easier if the child is born in the us..no paperwork to fill out at all..

  11. ok..this is from a guys point of view. I would definately be suspicious about this. Its not that strange to have a girl best friend, but to have planned trips of a week with her?? That is a week the two of you could be vacationing together or enjoying each other. If this is truly just a friend, then he should consider your feelings about this, because i am sure he wouldnt want you to go off for a week with another guy, even if you are "just friends". I applaud you for being secure with your relationship, but i would definantely get this straightened out before you are married, trust is a must, but this seems a little extreme to me.

  12. if you already applied for the k1 then i would just wait out the remainder of time because if everything goes well she will be here in a few months anyway. It is very doubtful she will be able to get a tourist visa to come here unless she makes either a lot of money or she has ties to a business or something that would keep her interest there. The average time for the approval is currently 5 months, and you are 2 1/2 there already, so just be patient.

    I know its hard, I am in the same boat as you, and I am trying my best as well. if there is a delay that is when I would visit her again, thats what i did..and you can go from there. I wish you luck, and just hang in there

  13. I am curious to know what your conversations were like before she moved here. Obviously something was amiss or there wasnt clear communication between the two of you. You should sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with this girl and come to an understanding of what her and your intentions and expectations are. A newlywed couple dont just live in seperate houses, and they dont have seperate lives. What was the situation when you went to visit her in Phil? I dont have all the details, but it seems from your post that she doesn't have any interest or intentions of being with you as a wife, and if that is the case, you need to act before you get married and she becomes your responsibility financially and she can take half of what you have. I wish you luck and sorry to hear about your situation, but better to find out now before its too late. I would be more concerned about the emotional stress rather than the leagal issues, if your intentions to bring her here were valid, then you dont have to worry about fraud. But she may have to worry about that.

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