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  1. Mga kapatid kong pinay dyan,help naman.. kailangan ko ng honest na advice or kahit suggestion lang...wala kasi akong mapagsabihan ng problema ko..here's the situaution.

    Taong 2008 ikinasal kami ng aking american fiancee sa Manila, Aug of 2009 nakarating ako dito sa Texas at buntis agad..

    3 lalaki magkakapatid ang asawa ko at yung isa nasa Ohio at ang isa nasa Texas. Bago kami ikasal ng asawa ko ang alam ko lang na utang nya ay $7,000. Nung September namatay ang tatay nya at nagkagastos kami ng $5,000,lahat ng gastos ay sa amin ni penny or nickel walang naitulong ang dalawang kapatid so total loan now is $12,000, nagbayad kami ng mga filing fee at lawyers fee ng $5,000 so total now is $17,000. Buntis ako at walang trabaho para makatulong sa asawa ko, plus kailangan namin mag ipon para sa delivery ng baby kasi di covered 100% ng insurance ang delivery ko,meron kami deductible and co-pay. Ang problema everytime meron kailangan ang MIL ko kami ang tinatawagan at kami ang nag papadala ng pera, nasasaktan ako kasi naaawa ako sa asawa ko at the same time di ko alam how long namin kakargohin ang biyenan ko, ang nakakainis pa di kasi sya tumitigil sa cigarette at inum!!! Feeling ko unfair para sa akin ito, dahil sa Pinas naman ay maganda ang buhay ko, 8 mos na ako dito pero ni minsan di ako bumili ng luho ko or mga mahal na bagay para sa sarili ko, nagtitipid ako kasi isip ko yun lang matutulong ko habang la pa akong work. Anu ba dapat na attitude ko,tanggapin ko na lang na habang buhay pa ang biyenan ko ay kargo namin? What about yan $17,000 na loan na yan, $5,000 lang ang ginastos para sa akin dyan, which im willing to pay off pag meron na akong work, yung remaining $10,000 kailangan ko ba sya tulungan bayaran?feeling napaka unfair para sa akin

    Help naman, bigyan nyo naman ng liwanag ang utak ko. salamat

    Hi, sa isang side naiintindihan kita kasi kahit ako rin nasa kalagayan mo, hindi lng ung tungkol sa pera eh, ung naiisip mo kasi hirap ng pgtatrabaho ng asawa mo, hindi mo rin maiiwasan un, nakakastress ung money matters, pero huwag mo muna isipin yan. Cguro dadating ung time marerealize din ng asawa mo yan. Hayaan mo lng muna, pag me anak na kayo, tapos mahirap na ang life, sguro mg aask din ung asawa mo help from his brothers. Sa atin parang mas magaan ang buhay dun, hindi kailangan kumayod ng grabe para masustain ung pangangailangan, pero dito kailangan OT ng OT para mgkaroon ng extra. Pag dumating ung time na me work ka na, save ka din para sa sarili mo. God bless....

  2. to ship thru fedex is not 100% safe.(just to correct my statement above). I had a terrible experience with Fedex. Nawala ung laman ng package, itinuro ng fedex ang customs... to think dapat binabantayan nila ung shipment habang chinecheck ng customs kasi accountability nila un.

    hindi mo na po kailangan umuwi muna ng Pilipinas at bumalik dito para makapagpadala ng balikbayan box, tawag lng po natin yan sa package ung "balikbayan".

  3. to ship thru fedex is not safe po 100%. I had a terrible experience with Fedex. Nawala ung laman ng package, itinuro ng fedex ang customs... to think dapat binabantayan nila ung shipment habang chinecheck ng customs kasi accountability nila un.

    hindi mo na po kailangan umuwi muna ng Pilipinas at bumalik dito para makapagpadala ng balikbayan box, tawag lng po natin yan sa package ung "balikbayan".

  4. Hi, if you are a Catholic, it may make you feel better if you go to a church or shrine, like in Baclaran, or in Quiapo. If you are not, then just keep praying. I just want to share with you my story.

    My medical and interview went fine and smooth with a lot of prayers. But at nearly 2 am on the day I was going to the airport (Paranaque City area) I was robbed, the robber took my handbag, including all my documents (Passport and Visa Packet). I don't know what feeling you would feel if you were on my situation, but at the police station I knelt and cried to Mother Mary and Our Lord to help me because I really did not know what to do. My fiance was very very upset. At 2:45 am, at same day, the robbers were trapped, but some escaped, by the police (Makati City Area) leaving all the things they robbed. I got all my things back. My flight was supposed to be October 30, but because of the incident, my fiance had my flight rescheduled last November 5, 2009. I was in the news, but I still have trauma from the incident that I don't even want to read it again till now.

    Cheer Up!!! Miracles happen all the time, just keep praying. My chances of recovering my stolen things and documents were very very very slim. I totally lost hope of getting back my things and documents, but God works in ways we never could imagine. :)

    I just had my interview this morning for K1 visa. My most awaited one. I had mine at 8:00 Am at window 29. The guy was a good looking one, but behind that gorgeous face was a horrible character. I know that their job is to scrutinize people, but wasn't expecting him to call me a liar where in fact I said all truth and nothing but the truth. I just don't understand what went wrong. Docs were all good and complete.. Questions were answered honestly. What more should I say? And when my name was called at the counter 37, the pinoy guy told me my case is for further review. They didnt say if i am denied or approve. Im so nervous that I wanna die now. Like my whole world and dream to be with my fiance all vanished. But my loved ones said, you said all truth and we don't know yet what will be their decision about it. But I don't want to hold on anymore. My dreams were all shattered and felt so humiliated.

    I just want to know if this case really happens? I am now praying hard..really hard.. that somehow God will listen to me and hoping it'll be approved. Or will I ever have another interview? I don't like another humiliation from a consul.

    Is there anybody here who has the same case? Or experienced same thing? Why do they need further review? Where all i said were true and honest. :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying: :crying:

  5. The show attracts viewers by showing half naked women. :whistle: . I'd rather watch Seinfeld all over again, and again and again.

    Willie has a bunch of hot models on the show right now

    Some nice Eye Candy..............

    Yes they sure did attract me. The half naked girls are really beautiful... WOWOWEE!!!!!!

    Ok. Enjoy the show.

  6. I hope she will have a safe flight. God bless.

    Ask your fiancee to call the embassy about the error.

    Grace got her visa today at 2pm today BUT my sur name is wrong on her visa.

    I don't know where it is on her visa but she says my sur name is worng. Will this not allow her to come into the country? i mean if my name is wrong on the passport from what i am gathering will that stop her?

    She is thinking she has to go back to embasy to see fi they can change it so there might be a delay again errrrrr they can't spell my name right

    She is going to the manila tonight and will go to embasy on wed. Then off to the clas to get her stamp. i hope she can get here on thursday or friday.

  7. Ask your fiancee to call the embassy about the error.

    Grace got her visa today at 2pm today BUT my sur name is wrong on her visa.

    I don't know where it is on her visa but she says my sur name is worng. Will this not allow her to come into the country? i mean if my name is wrong on the passport from what i am gathering will that stop her?

    She is thinking she has to go back to embasy to see fi they can change it so there might be a delay again errrrrr they can't spell my name right

  8. When I was interviewed after the seminar, I was asked for our pics together (my fiance and I ), I did not bring any documents when I went to the seminar but my visa packet and my passport, I told the interviewer that I did not know I was supposed to bring. It would be better to bring some pics together, divorce papers (my friend was asked). And if they asked for something your fiancee doesn't have, just give a valid reason.

    i told my fiancee to take all her papers with her just in case they also wanted a photo of us together. they wanted my divorse papers , i sent the orginals but told her i needed them back so they made copies, if you do medical before cfo they will take her passport , thats why you get copies, and birth certifacates, you should have a few cuz everybody wants one, supprized the damn taxi drivers didnt want one too :wacko:

    When I was interviewed after the seminar, I was asked for our pics together (my fiance and I ), I did not bring any documents when I went to the seminar but my visa packet and my passport, I told the interviewer that I did not know I was supposed to bring. It would be better to bring some pics together, divorce papers (my friend was asked). And if they asked for something your fiancee doesn't have, just give a valid reason.

    I'm totally confused about what my fiance should bring to the CFO because I keep hearing different things. I know she needs her passport but does she actually need a photo copy of it?

    Also, does she need to bring evidence of our relationship to the CFO? I read this on one source. I also understand she needs a copy of my passport and also something that state's my singleness.

  9. At POE, I was asked by the immigration officer to take the yellow envelope out of the plastic envelope or packet. :)

    hi everyone..great news here :dance: ..I finally got my visa today but i am worried coz my passport/visa is inside the sealed plastic together with the yellow folder...Why in the world was it placed inside when its already written there not to be opened :bonk: ...Did the USEM staff forget where it should be placed?? :no: I thought that as soon as I open the Air21 plastic, I can get my passport right away...Since its needed to take that out of the plastic, I carefully opened the plastic seal until I reached the passport inside and took it out and resealed and never opened nor touched the yellow envelop although from what I can see its my Form 156 and other papers...

    So guys, do u think I'm ok and the US Immigration Officer wont scold me?? Common sense will tell, how can I make use of the passport for CFo sticker, etc. if its inside the plastic .... :yes:

    thanks and pls. let me know if u have same situation here... :unsure:

    god bless

    daisy

  10. your story brought tear to my eyes. God bless. Strong faith to God keeps us alive and kicking. :)

    I just wanna share that this Christmas is my happy , sad and memorable one ... Memorable? it`s because , this month of December 2009, brings a lot of sadness and happiness with me. This month where also the month we remember my dad`s death anniversary; and the first time I will no longer see my mom, and its the first time I totally loss my parents that I can call my own. I am still in the process of recovering from my mom`s loss, since my mom passed away last May. I missed the every Christmas and New Year we celebrate the season as family. It`s the year that my sister and I moved to 2 different countries. It`s the year that my sister and my brother in-law separated and will file for annulment soon because they`re not getting along well. It`s the Christmas, that my brother`s marriage is shaky and his problem makes my problem too .But in a long run, all this longingness, worries and sadness from my family were still a blessings it makes me more prayerful and rely in God`s providence and it makes me more family oriented . Somehow, this experienced makes me tough to face the rigors of life

    After all I have gone through I still thanked God because He gave me a loving husband who`s always with me everytime I feel sad, and who`s always with me in my times of grief, who have been my guide, my clown everytime I feel sad, my partner , my bestfriend and my love. I loss one important person in my life but He prepared one person(my husband)who will take away my sorrows...In everything I still count all my blessings this Christmas...

  11. Hi,

    You may check CFO's website, http://cfo.gov.ph/index.php?option=com_con...18&Itemid=5

    It is stated on this page who are required to attend and who are exempted. I hope it helps. Goodluck to your journey and God bless.

    does IR2 (minor child) still needs CFO ?... things to prepare for minor child medical preparation? tips.. as well for previous petitioner who had immigrant petition for minor what they normally asked (documents and questionares) thanks :thumbs:

    :star: praying everything will go smoothly NVC received the last part of paperworks for sophia mae's IR2,, next stop hopefully medical and interview date..and soon will be with us.. complete family :innocent: :innocent:

  12. hi,

    Hindi na po itinuloy ng ate ko ung pgprocess kaya hindi ko alam kung gaano katagal. Sana sandali lng ung sayo. God bless :)

    hello...

    thanks ..yes incorrect gender is the biggest problem...the private attorney asked me 20,000.. and 500 pesos monthly hearing...ilang months natapos ang proseso sa ate mo?about my lastname i went to local civil registrar last week ..there are some papaers hindi ko na attach sa pag kuha sa NSO..pina xerox nila yun..tapos ako nlang mag pasa sa NSO tacloban...

    Hi,

    Your biggest problem is the incorrect gender, you have to go to your Local Civil Registrar where you were born and ask what to do, it is not easy to get the incorrect gender corrected. My ate has the same error sa BC nia, kailangan ng lawyer tapos wait pa decision ng judge, hindi rin sia nakakuha ng passport. Ung fiscal na nilapitan namin asked for 10,000.00 pesos para sa processing.

    Yung annotation na dinala mo sa NSO, you have to follow up every now and then kung nasa data base na nila. Me problema din ung BC ko dati, pero madalas ako mgfollow up if nasa data base na nila, if possible kunin mo ung name na pinasahan mo ng annotation para doon ka rin mg follow up sa kanya.

    God bless.

    Good days to all of u here...i need help and suggestions regarding of my problem of my birth certificate

    my parents were not married and the time i am born i used my mother's surname but when i entered schooling i already used my father's surname, my credentials in school and all the ID's i have are all with my fathers family name...............because my father file for Certificate of Acknowledgement last year 2006 stating that me is his daughter..i am a illigitimate child stating my birth certificate..i went already the municipal registrar with my father last year 2006 my father file for certificate of Acknowledgement..it is state there of my new record the remarks "The surname of the child is hereby changed from "Tambis" to "Regodo".But when i got NSO again last year 2008 it doesn't change my lastname still state there of my mother surname...what should i do?please i need help....

    And i found other problem of my live birth is the gender it is written male in my NSO..that gender written a male it need correction that i am a female..i can't get passport..

    And how long it wil take for both problem of my surname and gender to process?and how much it cost?

  13. I think it would be better if your cousin and her fiance will wait till she gets 20 y/o. :unsure:

    hi!

    I just want to ask this question not for me but for my cousin. Her fiance send their papers to VSC last October 2009. And they are just waiting for the NOA2. Does anyone knows here that my cousin's paper will be approve soon eventhough she's still 17? but she will be turning 18 next year...any advice??

    thank you...

  14. Hi,

    Your biggest problem is the incorrect gender, you have to go to your Local Civil Registrar where you were born and ask what to do, it is not easy to get the incorrect gender corrected. My ate has the same error sa BC nia, kailangan ng lawyer tapos wait pa decision ng judge, hindi rin sia nakakuha ng passport. Ung fiscal na nilapitan namin asked for 10,000.00 pesos para sa processing.

    Yung annotation na dinala mo sa NSO, you have to follow up every now and then kung nasa data base na nila. Me problema din ung BC ko dati, pero madalas ako mgfollow up if nasa data base na nila, if possible kunin mo ung name na pinasahan mo ng annotation para doon ka rin mg follow up sa kanya.

    God bless.

    Good days to all of u here...i need help and suggestions regarding of my problem of my birth certificate

    my parents were not married and the time i am born i used my mother's surname but when i entered schooling i already used my father's surname, my credentials in school and all the ID's i have are all with my fathers family name...............because my father file for Certificate of Acknowledgement last year 2006 stating that me is his daughter..i am a illigitimate child stating my birth certificate..i went already the municipal registrar with my father last year 2006 my father file for certificate of Acknowledgement..it is state there of my new record the remarks "The surname of the child is hereby changed from "Tambis" to "Regodo".But when i got NSO again last year 2008 it doesn't change my lastname still state there of my mother surname...what should i do?please i need help....

    And i found other problem of my live birth is the gender it is written male in my NSO..that gender written a male it need correction that i am a female..i can't get passport..

    And how long it wil take for both problem of my surname and gender to process?and how much it cost?

  15. Hi,

    Dapat habang maaga ayusin na ng friend mo yung BC nia, kasi ung mistake sa gender ay mahirap ayusin at medyo mahal din. Yung ate ko has the same problem with her, our town fiscal asked for 10,000.00 para mafix ung error na un. If Im not mistaken it has to go through judicial proceedings.

    thank you guys for the very helpful information..

    You really good and i do appreciate it so so much

    GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!

  16. I am from a country that has no embassy or consulate in philipines.

    There is Ghana Consulate in the Philippines http://www.ghanaconsulatephilippines.com/f...orderby=updated

    http://www.ghanaconsulatephilippines.com/2...late-in-rp.html

    My filipin fiance want me to marry her in her country. I do not know how to overcome the CENOMA requirement since my country has no ambassy there. Is there anyway I can marry my fiance in Filipin whithout the certificate of no marriage? Please help!

  17. There is no other requirement but her passport with visa.

    Hi, I didn`t know exactly where to post this. I`m new here trying to find some info concerning my fiancee changing planes on her way here to USA. She`s from the Phils, if she changes planes in Tokyo or Hong Kong will she need a visa for there or will a passport be ok? Any pinay`s changed planes at either place coming here lately? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
  18. Yes. I agree. :thumbs:

    This is another case that lowers the dignity of filipinas and the whole philippines as well.

    It is indeed very very saddening to hear stories about these...because of this kind of news and scams, some foreigners, if not all, already have a perception that filipinos are capable of messing around, fooling people, cheater, money maker, name it!

    On the other hand.....I firmly believe that despite the bad deeds that some of our fellowmen commited, there are still filipino people who are hardworking, trustworthy and honest. Take for example, Efren Penaflorida who won the CNN's Hero of the Year.

    My last words for the foreign nationals...please don't be blinded or perceive that most of the filipinos are bad...I would also like to thank foreigners out there who believe in the wife, that treated Filipinos as equal men, and not as a third world inferior country.

    To my fellow filipinos who are reading this, let's make Philippines a better country by starting with ourselves, being good to humankind. If we all have good heart and set aside pride and selfishness we can make Philippines a better country, its not too late to start.

    Okay, that's all for now...and hey..with the words I typed above, am not running for candidacy on the coming elections.hahahaha!

    There are scammer all over the world.

    If you looking for girl scammers who try to get all the money they can out of a man by lying, you need to look to Eastern Europe and Russia. It is a Cottage Industry over there. And also look a Nigeria, they have more scammers than any country I can think of....

  19. hi,

    try mo email yung Bureau of Immigration natin http://www.immigration.gov.ph/ kung pwede ka report sa kanila ng ganitong case para mapabilang siya sa watch list.

    hi!... i have some questions that is still unanswered until now. I had an ex foriegn bf until now i need some advice. My ex contracted me of his stds without telling me first he had it. I only knew after we did sex. But what happen was i still love him coz i unconditionally love him and thought he also love me truely coz he i think was very good in pretending. Everytime he visit me i got bad discharged, until i visited ob and found out i got some stds. I knew of course he was old enough that he knew what stds he had but it was devastating that i didnt have any idea he had lots of virus. I was suffering now of his selfishness coz stds can put a scar its not an ordinary disease. We broke up, he was on and off of his decision . he is not consistent of his words, he proposed me for marriage but it was not formal just verbal no ring. What i thought was he was clean guy coz he was always talking he is health conscious he wanted healthy lifestyle when we were still chatting, so i thought he was that clean. I can say he is selfish coz he didnt even wear condom coz he said he doesnt like it, knowing the fact that if a person had stds must observe safe sex and must tell the person honestly he had it, but what happened was after the fisrt sex he just told me he had std. Until i knew from him he was engaged before me and cancelled the k1 with that girl. So what i knew was the were over. But i found out that thier relationship was just complicated so they're not yet over. i found it coz i saw the girls profile.He filed the k1 for the girl after a month he contacted me and began chat. Thier relationship that time maybe was they only had misunderstanding or maybe a big quarrel but its not yet over. I do not know whats the real story of it coz i didnt hear the girls side he only told me what happened, that now i was thinking he just used me to cover up his pain from the previous girl. While we were on our relationship he talked negative about the girl and i also aggree coz i dont knw whats the truth and he seems real in talking about it and coz i also trust him so i believe him.

    I asked him if the previous girl knew he had stds, he said no. so i asked him why he also didnt tell me in advance he had stds, he said he thought i will not get it, what a selfish act. But i still accept it, untill i felt he was changing a little, and he said the girl talked to him wanted to return back to him, so i asked him if he will go back to that girl he said no coz he felt the girl will just use him for entry to states. But i still felt the change so i asked him if he really love me coz i am serious and truely love him and seriously looking for marriage , he said love takes time , i was shocked coz i thought he really love me coz we already had many experiences and we were already many months in relationship. I asked him if he was looking for only gf or partner in life, he said he wanna marry.

    he even told me i will give him a baby he had many plans in marriage, until he had changes. i asked him again if he wanna go back to his ex, he said he is not ready for marriage, i told him he just let me hope and why he can take it pretending he loves me if not. When he visited me there i really felt instinctly he changed and theres something he was hiding that his acts speaks loud. he always got online morning and evening he said he was talking to his family, so it was ok for me, then when i was at work, i called him at hotel he didnt answer my call , until i cant stop the instinct feeling he had other girl. I didnt asked him about it coz i wanted him to tell me, but what happened was he was trying to be ok and good to me, but his actions can not be hide, no matter how he tried to hide it i felt he has someone and found some evidence. he said his phone was not working but when i was closed to him it vibrates, so it was just only in silent mode, many i cant wrote here. He didnt tell me about his plans to me, but when he goes back to his place he just tell me he is not ready for marriage. i told him why he didnt talked to me in person why when he was already away, and i told him because he cheated he had other girl, he said no he was angry. Maybe he did as if ok and didnt tell me the truth when he was here so that i will still stay in hotel, and when i was not around he is talking with other girls. Gonna hard to accept, i was blind that time coz i trust and believe him.But i had instinct feeling he had. And it was confirmed he had a girl coz he deleted me on his account and i saw the girls message seems they had contact. so i message the girl if she was his gf, she didnt answer. what i did was i emailed the girl coz i was the one who felt the guilt that she might also get the stds coz i was thinking he will maybe not tell it to the girl. But they were mad, until i knew from my ex they were over, he didnt tell whats the reason.

    He said there were many things to consider in marriage, i told him why when we just chatted he said he wanna marry and even give him a baby, he even proposed me, he had many plans, so i told him he just let me hope, he just used me as cover up of his pain. he simply said sorry. I told him how dare he did this to me, after all of those things, i got his stds and i even accept it , i was even good and nice to him, he was even my priority, and i gave all my love to him coz i thought he was real.

    When we broke up i was so depressed, he told me he will not marry coz of stds , he said it was a lifetime martyrdom. he was my second bf, it gonna hard to accept all of this facts,coz for me it was not worthy coz i i am not a girl from sidewalk. and he was even my second bf , i was carried away of the nice plans and coz i wanted to get marry and he showed he seems real.

    i talked to someone about my ex and said i was just used by him. he had no conscience really, now my questions is can i report him so that he can no longer go to our place coz i was thinking he can transmit his stds again , coz i knew his behavior, he is not honest he will not inform in advance a girl about his stds. My point is i dont want others will experience what i got, I had a very bad health issue now because of him, stds. i can feel how hard and devastating to get that stds and the guy will leave you. is it right to do it, and how to do it? where cn i report it. i do not want to have trouble also but what i want is he can no longer visit here in PI. I knew he is looking for pinay, so he will still search again.

    second, is it right if i will email or meet the ex girl before me coz i want her to checked her health issue, she might also get it and just dnt know it was already stds, my concern is as it is still early to have medication or visit ob. They said and as what i learned that hpv virus is one of the cause of cervical cancer. In my part, i have no choice but to accept what will be my next health problem with this stds, i felt pain on my abdomen now. Is it right to tell the girl before me? the girls family was now a friend of this guy, they didnt know about this guys business. what they know he is very nice and good. What will be my approached to the girl if ever i will go for it?. I guess they were talking again now coz he added again the girl to his account. And possibly they can go again coz the girl wanted the guy and according to the guy the girl wanted to go out of country and i think the guy loves the girl coz for me he will not talk again or add the girl if he had no feelings anymore. what i want is i just wanted to save the girl from stds.

    looking forward for your advice. Thanks

  20. Hi,

    If ako din ang nasa kalagayan mo hindi ko rin alam kung ano gagawin ko pero just keep praying. God wont put you in a situation na hindi mo kaya. I know a friend's friend who has STD but still she found a foreigner husband, who accepted her kahit meron sia nun. God's grace is abundant. Just keep praying. God bless.

    im so sorry to hear your story sa tingin ko this guy didnt really care about you his intention is manghawa if he told you that he have STD would you have sex with him ba? i believe theres a cure with STD remember Kris Aquino dba? this is a lesson learned for you next time mag ingat

    Thanks for the reply, If only i knew he had it while we were still chatting, i never allowed it to happen. I got a virus from him and virus stds had no cure, it will stay on your body for the rest of your life. I even told him how can i marry other guy with my situation, i can not do transmitting it to other, i cant take ruining life of other people. i told him he really ruins my life, and he said sorry if he did wrong. he said he is looking for his happiness. too late to regret, i already had it. and the worst thing was its not only 1 std, i got 3 and i do not know what elses . when we broke up i was deppressed trying to contact him to get some comfort coz i was very sick that time with the std he tansmitted , but what he just said was he cant help me, he will not go on with relationship if std was the reason.

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