Dau Que

Green/TRAN,
Judging from your grammar and vocabularies, combined with your using profanity and anger expression today (I want to remind everyone here in his previous post about his marriage, he got into trouble with the police about gun issue. Search for that post. I'm too lazy to dig it up), I would say your wife is a perfect fit for you.
Noi nao up vun nay (ask your wife. She'll translate that for you)
And good luck finding another wife in Tra Vinh. Apparently, you have NOT learnt your lesson............yet.
PS> In case you haven't figured out on your own yet, when you have to come to an online forum for consultation what to do with your marriage, may be you're not mature/ready to be married. You are a perfect example why certain people although are of legal age, yet should not be allowed to get married.

Good luck explaining that to the C/O. The way I see it, it's the end of the previous cycle (that is she's got what she wants, the GC, and he's got what he wants, the $$$) and now it's time to repeat the cycle all over again, except he's smart enough to choose a new route (CR1).

..................and I should care if that happens? You should be concerned about your own Biz, bringing your family to the States. At least "try" to be successful at that first, BEFORE acting like you know lots of things. The GREAT Jerome, who knows lots and lots of tricks and maneuvers, yet in AR.

So you were seeing someone while BEING married! and she (the new one) wouldn't mind?
I'll be the neutral outsider and bring you the truth/reality: she's using you to bring her son to the US for a better education while he's still young. Classic love story #1 right there in the book: middle age lady with a teenager wanna immigrate to the States.
You've made a marital mistake recently. Don't attempt to rush things and make another one again. You do have your own children to support.

Edit to add: don't argue your love story with us. Do it with the CO. They're the one who make decision. I hope your arguing skill will supersede their skepticism. Lots of folks tried before you, unfortunately, they've failed. Words won't bring success with this particular Consulate. Your case has THREE red flags, previous attempt for Visa (and failed), previous marriage (involving marriage Visa, a double whammy), and insufficient income (huge red flag for marriage fraud)

Put yourself in CO's position, and try really hard to convince yourself whether it's believable for a country with extremely high fraudulent marriage rate and someone pays only 1 trip before making the commitment. Sure, lots of folks in here will tell you "Oh it's OK to make one trip since it's never official a requirement".
Can they help you now when you're the one getting the blue?
I hope many others are reading this and will not try to gamble their love like this case.