Fabian&Regi

What you talking about?
OP got married and she decided to move where her spouse is....unfortunately prof like docs, lawyers cannot move easily coz each country has diff standards, rules and regulations.
Its not like IT prof or Engg for whom all the standards are pretty much common.
There is no reason to critize the OP, if sameone with same age in IT was moving you would not have made this comment.