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  1. All I would say right now is how good you were/are at understanding other peoples problems and what a source of frustration it was to the likes of ___ and I that we only wanted you to see what was happening with your own life. I guess I have known you for around 15 years and always saw you as a bright young thing, full of life and energy, wanting to love and be loved. You would smile now, I hope, but I used to agree on one thing and that was if I was 15 or so years younger I would want you as my partner. Seeing you in later years slowly changing to someone with the weight of the world on your beautiful shoulders saddened me. So like you would do for others, I would try to give some insight into how your relationship with ____ was actually suffocating that joyous person that you truly are. On a personal note I still find you a very attractive person and you just have to believe that of yourself and the world will come to you. Believe me its never to late to go on to something/someone new. I briefly said in an email to you that I was finding certain things very difficult over here and I feel even more inclined to share that with you now, but it would be far easier if we could chat. Both Skype and YIM are free to download and use. Of course you would need a microphone to talk. So I hope you are having the day off to make for an enjoyable long weekend in which case have fun and take care. You are always in my thoughts love ___ XX

    u have every reason to be mad, but at the end it is ur decision, i think you should talk to him about it .but mostly listen to ur heart and u will know what to do..

    but do not stay with someone who doesn t treat u the way you should be treated, that s my advice...good luck hun

  2. will i need to bring my fiance (the us citizen) police record at the interview or just mine?

    and do i need to bring more passport picture of him at the interview?

    here is the list i have so far of things to bring:

    copies of petition forms:

    Evidence of support – Form I-134 Affidavit of Support

    newer letter of intent from both of us

    Evidence of valid relationship with the petitioner

    both original birth certificate

    medical/vaccination

    noa 1 and 2

    my passport and id

    Chronopost envelope

    appointment letter

    my police record

    passport pictures( im not sure how many i need so i guess ill bring like 4?)

    none of us have kids or previous marriage, can someone tell me if i forgot anything...

    we didn t get our noa 2 yet but i wanna make sure im ready when it comes

    thanks

  3. minimule: How DARE you presume to make blanket statements you obviously know nothing about? I don't take much of the silliness here personally, but you really struck a nerve with this inane remark. Walk a mile in someone's shoes before making sweeping generalizations like that.

    lol well have a chill pill then, it might help...

    the tread title was about trying to stop that woman from going back to the us, then the child was mentioned...i will never back down as far as a kid needing his/her mother, i dont care if you like it or not...im not saying she s right , i don t know her, but as imperfect as she might be, trying to take her kid away from her is an horrible act, and i sure hope he fails...being a bad wife doesn t make u a bad mother.

  4. well it s a girl thing, so men just can t understand it, and it hurts their lil self esteem, not only they have to worry about other men, but now they aso have to worry about women, and then they look at their lil pee ee every morning and cry in silence... :crying:

    so to make themself feel better,they get their best insults ready...yayyyyy

  5. And not much love on the part of the "gentleman" who seeks to forbid the mother of his child entrance to the US. Fortunately he can't do it. There are reasons why this woman left his azz.

    Any attempt to remove the child from the mother's custody dangerously flies along the line of international kidnapping. Sick.

    used is used. quite possibly the wife is just a scammer who had the child to nail the lid on the coffin she had shoved her "husband" into.

    speaking as a man who won physical custody of 3 school aged children in a divorce with a policewoman/mother, i would tell this guy to pull out all of the stops. get the "mother" back into the states, tell her you'll take care of the baby for awhile so she can vacation, and then change the locks. the scammer may be too smart to let go of the kid, but if she does, 3 months is "provisional custody" in the eyes of the law.

    WHATEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

    now something is odd in ur story to begin with, im sure there is plenty u forgot to mention about that gentleman,BUT it is very easy to move someone from their countries, marry them and if something goes wrong try to do whatever it takes to ban them from the us...that shows what type of person we re dealing with...

    as far as the kid, WHY WOULD ANYONE EVER WANNA TAKE A KID AWAY FROM HIS/HER MOTHER? pshhhhh

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