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So my husband and I talked about everything earlier. He confessed everything that happened the last few months he had an affair with one of his best friends and he said he has been cheating on me 5 to 10 times and apparently she is pregnant.
I've been going through a lot the last few weeks and it is not that I feel totally burned out and heart broken it is also that I'm worried about the divorce now.
Our immigration interview is gonna be on June 18th. I want the divorce before that though. I just got my work permit and I almost don't have any money to afford a divorce, can I still work until we get divorced? If we file for divorce in like 2 weeks how long would it take us to actually get to the day of the divorce?
I was planning to leave the country by June 2nd (would be 16 days before my actual immigration interview). What do I need to do to be able to come back on a tourist or student visa in a year or so... like what kind of things other than getting the divorce would I have to take care of, to not be in trouble to come back to the states.
Once we're divorced say we would get divorced by May 21st.... would I have to leave the country right away or would I be allowed to stay until June 2nd and leave then....
I still have some more questions.... please help me
If anyone could help you could also send me a message and I could give you my phone number... I just don't know anything about the laws in the states and I never thought I would get a divorce, so :-( please help me
Welcome to Florida! I reside here and you can get a no fault divorce as quick as 3 months where you don't need a lawyer and costs couple hundred dollars as state fees.
Since you want to leave the country there are no complications. You'll file for a no fault divorce at your local court, ask them for a waiver of appearance ( you don't need to attend the hearing), and inform the CIS about your situation. That way you can leave right away after filing, and the CIS will do the needful about your case. There should be no problems coming back on other visas. Have a friend to attend to your mail from the CIS and the local court. You need to get the official divorce decree and the CIS letter stating the fact that you and your EX have withdrawn from the AOS and your file is closed. You can work and stay there till the CIS tells you that your AOS is terminated and any work permit given is revoked.
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Let's say that lady has entered the US via K1 visa. She entered the US on August 2007, so it's 18 months since the day she got here until today. But during that 18 months, she's bêen spending more than 5 months in Vietnam already ( April 1st 2008- July 1 2008 , and Feb 27th , 2009 until now) and continuing to stay in Vietnam for a very long time.
Her situation:
She has a temp grêen card, which will expire in Dec 2009
She has a 1 year old kid with the petitioner, who is a US citizen and got a US passport, currently living with her in Vietnam.
The husband has bêen asking her to come back to the US for several times but she made up reasons to decline, therefore the husband thinks that she just waits for the right time to come back here for the 10 years grêen card.
As you can sêe, this is not a love based marriage on the lady's part, so the husband doesn't want her to come back to the US anymore. Is there anyway to stop her from coming back ? Can he divorce her without her presence in the US ? Can he take full custody of the kid and bring the kid to the US ?
Thank you
Hi :
She has a kid with the petitioner and has the temp. green card already --- There is no way she will be stopped. They both can divorce each other separately here in the US.
He can get full custody of the kid on US soil with US family law, but has less chances bringing the kid to the US from abroad.
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I filed for my 751 waiver in oct 2007.It transfered from Texas to CSA in oct 2007.Fingerprints were in Nov 2007.I had not heard anything since, no ,"touches", no emails, nothing.I survived on I551 stamp on my passport.
Finally today, after many months of waiting, I got my Green card.I had already submitted my N400 as I recently became eligible for citizenship based on 5 yrs of PR.
To all the people with 751 waivers out there, don't loose hope.You ll get your card.I couldn't find much info online on waivers, I guess coz very few people file them .
Thank you Jesus!!
congrats machozi, that wait was long. waivers have very varied time line anywhere from 3 months to 3 years ( one case 3 years and still pending).
Anyways when did your conditional green card expire?
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Hi everybody.. my husband and i will be separating pretty soon, because he wants to be with his mom, we are now in CA, and his mom is in HI.. i am in my conditional residency here in US upto Sept. 2010.. what would i do? i don't wanna come with him going back to HI because me and his mom cannot go along to each other.. my husband is a mama's boy, he is very dependent to his mom.. i just came here with good faith for our marriage not for anything else.. i sacrificed everything i have in my home, like my very good job in a government just to come here to marry him.. i didn't know that he is a big mama's boy that cannot do anything without his mom.. i am worried maybe he will neglect his obligation and responsiblity to me as his wife and for my residency status.. what is the best thing to do? he did not listen to anybody's advice except to his mom.. please help me.. he has no permanent job since i came here.. he cannot stay in one job in a long period of time.. he always quits after a month having a job.. we don't even have any documents that would prove that we are joint like bills, insurance, etc.. we open a bank account but he refused to deposit his paycheck in our accounts, instead he deposited his paycheck in his account joint with mom.. is this would be fair for me? is this right? please i need help! thank u! Sorry this happened to you. Drop mommas boy like a hot potato. Divorce him ASAP and file for a waiver. Collect lot of evidence. If his mom can give him more than you he should marry her.
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I would do all three. I don't think the AR-11 will change your address on your case file. I would do the online AR-11.
Call the 800# and give them the change of address.
Mail a note with a copy of the AR-11 with the confirmation number to the address where you mailed your packet.
This way you will not leave any stone unturned. At least in my opinion.
Good luck and don't forget to change your address with the USPS.
Yes, after a lot of confusion, many people with pending applications are doing all the three to be safe. Personally I did the online AR11 and was o.k. The address change website indicates that you either go for the online form OR do both call and mail them for an effective address change.
thanks guys.
PS. A little addition. A friend of mine had to get his OPT card from the CIS, CIS ignored the USPS address change and the OPT card was sent back to them. It seems they will not forward CIS mail to the new address if the AR11 is not done.
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Hi.
Whats the best way for a non USC with a pending application to change their address?
1. Mailing in the AR11 2. Calling CIS 3. Online AR11
I thought the online AR11 always works, there have been people using all the three in fear.
All experiences and advice welcome.
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Thank you for all of your comments. We are trying to help her fighting toward this situation.
After talking to my wife, the lady told her additional information:
1. Since she left the United States, the husband continued assuring her that the 10-year green card would be there in the mail. She still believed him because there was no indication that the marriage termination would occur.
2. Poh signed the 1040 paper in order to allow her husband to file the joint tax return this year, before she left. That would be one of the deceptions.
3. He informed her via email that it was useless for her to come back to the United States because he would not allow her entry into their apartment.
4. We felt that the husband would later file the divorce without allowing the wife to be presented for a fighting chance.
5. The husband said that he would mail and send all of the belongings back to Cambodia. He continues to depress her situation by instilling more fears and intimidation toward her, if she comes back to the States.
6. He also sent an email that this is not related to any other women. I think he might try to cover his rear on the issues.
7. Poh told my wife that she was desperate and right now, will definitely come back to the States and file for the divorce. She said that her mistake was -> she had not waited long enough for the NOA to arrive before she left the country. She put all the trusts to her husband.
8. We told her that she should come back to the States for a fighting chance. She is concerned that the divorce might be granted long after she could file for her own I-751. Her time is limited.
Based on your opinion, these are questions:
I. what do you think why the husband continues refusing her to come back to the States? Or it is because he would be in trouble as well because he lied that the I-751 had been sent through the mail and felt guilty? So, he would like to get rid of her.
II. Since she might not be allowed to enter her husband's apartment in San Antonio, Texas, she thought about change her flight plan to stay with some of her friends in other States to save the money. If there is a local USCIS over there, can she make an appointment via Infopass find out whether USCIS received her petition? Or she has to go to San Antonio to find out regarding the status of her petition? (This is to ensure that the husband was lying.) I told her that she might be able to contact the attorney over there to find out of what to do.
Thank you for your time and comments. We hope that we could be able to help this poor soul who got loss in these circumstances. Take care.
I. That could be anyone's guess. LOL
II. If she moves the file will be transferred to a diff. local office, there maybe a delay but moves are perfectly OK.
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I would like to assist one of my Cambodian friends who has some major problems regarding the two years CR1. We have just heard about her story last night. We decided to write on this board, whether we could find any solutions for her, in an addition for her to visit the attorney's office. (If the attorney's visit is useless, please provide your comments as well.)
My friend Poh, is currently visiting her family in Cambodia. Her green card will be expiring in early June, 2009.
A few months ago, she signed the form to remove the conditional status, I-751 while she lived in Missouri – sometimes in February. When she moved to Texas, a few weeks later, she flew back to Cambodia due to her mother’s sudden illness in order to take care of her in the hospital. Her husband indicated that the package had been mailed to the appropriate office.
She received an AR11 from her husband while staying in Cambodia. She signed and sent the form back to Texas. Her husband indicated that he would send the AR11 form to the DHS. She continues asking her husband regarding the NOA.
Before leaving Texas, she planned in having her husband and his daughter visited her in Cambodia in June for vacation and travel back to the States together. Hopefully, she will receive either the approval letter or the request for interview letter. She has a good faith that her husband will take care of all the tasks for her while she is taking care of her family.
Last week, she called the DHS office regarding her case. Since she did not have the receipt number, she could not talk to any live individual. She contacted her husband and asked whether he had received the NOA regarding I-751. He said that he still did not receive it yet.
A few nights ago, she received an email from her husband stating that he would like to terminate the relationship and will not follow-up anything regarding the I-751 with DHS. He also said that if she comes back to the States, likelihood, she will have to go back to Cambodia because the green card will be expired. She will not be eligible to live over here. (She still has several of her possessions and belongings over here.) She was in shock and crying non stop. She reviewed overall situations and felt that her husband might not even send the I-751 petition to the DHS as he previously stated at all. This is because her husband could not even provide any tracking evident regarding the case. He said that he had just dropped the package into the regular mail, without having making any photocopies. Her husband only said that he spent over $500 for the fees, nothing much had been provided in details.
Afterward, she talked to my wife and my wife relayed me the message. We believe that the husband lied to her in the filing of I-751. The email that the husband sent was an evident to support that claim.
We recommended her to come back to the States as soon as possible before the green card expires. I said that by staying over there she would lose her fighting chance. I said that she should be able to contact the lawyer and present all of this information.
The questions that I have:
1. Husband did not file for any divorce and made a surprise termination, would this be considered as a deception and can be prosecuted? He used the situations toward his advantages because he realized that his wife’s green card is expiring. (He did not file the divorce but waited like a cold-blood killer.)
2. What will be the wife’s fighting chance? She believes in good faith that the husband acted honestly by sending all of the I-751 required paperwork to the DHS. That’s why she left for Cambodia and faithfully waited for him to come to visit and go back together, after receiving an NOA.
3. I believe that coming back to the States at this moment, she will have a better fighting chance because her green card is not expiring yet. However, her husband stated that if was useless for her to come over here because she would have to go back in June, after her green card has been expired. Do you think it will be a wasteful trip for her?
4. I do not know her husband’s motive. If there would be a divorce, he should be filing long time ago. I felt that this is a cold-blood execution practice. By lying that the paperwork had been sent and continues to procrastinate to make her believe that everything is still a OK, I believe that was like a criminal activity of deception. She told me that she would not go to Cambodia, if the situation had been turning out like this. Did the husband’s conduct be considered any types of deception and could be prosecuted in the court of law?
5. Even though the husband’s email stated that he did not involve with another woman, we believe that he was performing a “CYA” act, just in case his email will be used in the court of law. I had never heard that the husband would like to divorce his wife by sending out an email, just in time before her conditional green card is expiring. He expects that she would not be able to do anything in a short period of time. Would you provide some comments on this one?
I do appreciate all of your expertise inputs. I will assist her by assembling them together. We encourage her to go back and brave herself in any situations. There will be severe headaches but she will have a great fighting chance with the justice system available to her. We even think about prosecuting the husband of the act of deception as well.
Thank you for sharing your comments and I do apologize if this message is too long. I would like to provide as much details as possible. My wife in Thailand will visit Panom Penth and her next week. Hopefully, we will have some great inputs from the great people from this board. Thank you again.
1.No.
2.Chances. 100% if there is strong good faith evidence.
3.No.
4.No.
5.The email will not effect immigration.
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I tried calling 1-800 number to make an infopass appointment, and when I entered my receipt number, they gave me an automated answer that "this receipt number cannot be found at this time". First I thought I entered the wrong number, and tried again, but the same thing happened. I wasn't able to get to talk to a real person, and this is so frustrating. Any thoughts or suggestions?
The reciept number from NOA normally doesn't work. You can try it online to make sure that result is the same, but i think it will be. What you need is the reciept number on your biometrics appointment letter - that is the trackable one (and yes, it is different from NOA number). Don't ask me why it's done that way - it makes no more sense than half of other things CIS (or Federal government as a whole for that matter) is doing...
Right On red neck nova. The bar code number on the biometrics letter is the right number. Follow no other number on other notices.
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You can still cause her major problems when she tries to remove conditions. She'll have to file for a waiver. If you divorce her you'll probably make it easier for her to remove conditions.
You're caught between a "rock and a hard place"!
Amazing people marry not knowing each other that well. Looks like she wanted the GC and you wanted some poontang!
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your right haole. She could also file for divorce by herself. Once she has a decree its all wrapped up. I have not seen a waiver denied on this board. I maybe wrong.
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Hello,
A freind refered me to this sight. He said all my immigration questions can be answered here. Here goes:
My wife and I were married in Bogota Colombia over 2 years ago. She had her interview in the summer of 2008 and has enterd the country and has gotten her CR1 visa and green card. After having only been her 5 months she and her daughter has left and went to live many hours away from here. I am going to Bogota and will be filing for divorce. In the past 5 months I have called for the police to come here. She has done some terrible things to me. I really cant live with this women nor do I feel safe. Here are my questions
1.) Do I need to report this to USCIS? That we are divorcing.
2.) What are my continueing obligations under the Affidavit of Support towards her and my step daughter?
3.) How can I or my American attorney know and be present at her hearing to have conditions removed?
4.) What are my options?
Please help.
BB
1. Reporting is completely up to you. She will not be deported if you report. Everything comes to the surface if you dont report when she files for removal of conditions. She will be by herself at that stage.
2. refer the poster lucyrich. It has the best information.
3. You or your attorney have no say in her removal of conditions. Thats between her and the CIS when she files for a waiver. That said she can remove her conditions without trouble.
4. options- Her conditional green card is approved, you have no options. You can complaint as much as you want but without strong evidence she can remove conditions by herself. It will be tough for her but with a right lawyer and money there is no chance for a deportation. CIS will see an example of "he said she said". They need documentary evidence not baseless accusations.
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i have pending devorce do i need to wait 90 days to file for my papers thanks jarl
pending divorce means you cant filed a joint application. File waiver as soon as you get your decree.
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Is it even possible for CBP officers to just (expeditedly) remove a LPR? I thought as a LPR everyone had the right to a hearing before an immigration judge?
I also have a hard time believing that an angry spouse can just call the immigration officials and manage to have somebody's GreenCard confiscated. There has to be more to the story than that!
Its not clear what path the OP's case will take. But yes, I have heard that CIS along with the CBP and the ICE can revoke a green card on the basis of fraud or other violations. It all depends on what evidence from the USC they have. There should be something more than just a vitriolic complaint. Everyone gets a chance front of the IJ, after which it goes to a higher level BIA I guess. Every time the file reaches a higher level of court it gets expensive. Sometimes it just buys the OP time, sometimes not.
Also its luck. If the minor rant by an angry divorced USC targets the petitioner from an "evil" country in the CIS watchlist, and you have an overzealous IO. You could be heading to problems. The next thing you will know that there is a boiler plate removal notice in your mailbox. Or sometimes a rant like that may just be ignored. CIS receives many letters of complaint by unhappy spouses.
Such overzealous IO's have to handled with skill by an overzealous immigration lawyer. These issues are not DIY.
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Love how every conversation turns into one degrading women and talking about prostitutes Anyways, the truth of the matter is, Khushi8 isn't telling the whole story and I think the wife basically figured it was a convenienve marriage, suspected him, and went to see what he's up to - found what she suspected and then took action here. I know some women can be evil but d@amn...no idiot wants to waste 1 year on the visa process and so much money only to kick them out cause they felt like it.
khusi8 - if it is all totally her fault, you should try to figure out what p@ssed her off so bad. If you did nothing, she shouldn't be angry, if you did, she has the right to not want you around, but if you really did no crime here, then you will be judged accordingly, you will not get deported and you will be able to stay.
If you exploited your wife, then unfortunately it is only right that you leave because a marriage visa is just that - no marriage, then no visa. Just remember - if you were honest, you won't get unfair treatment.
Tam
Its not for us to judge about whose fault it is. It could be a revengeful USC that is complaining after a perfect good faith marriage that ended in divorce, it could be the alien spouse who had fraudulent intent right at the start. The CIS needs hardcore evidence to approve or deny the petition. Not just rants and raves. If the CIS denies, the alien has a second chance in front of the judge. It can go on and on right till the highest court.
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I am just speculating based on common scenerio I have seen multiple times (at least among indian marriages).
how dare you speak from direct experience? how dare you report what you know from observation? that kind of behaviour will get you banned around here if people get offended by your retelling of the truth...
Stop your shots justashooter, you shoot good but not on target.
How do you want people to speak? Its better to speak from direct experience than indirect. And report what we know from observation than a dream.
And its not offending. Its the truth. Every country has some sort of profile where something good comes out of it. The Indians have arranged marriages, the Filipinos have mail order brides. And most of these marriages turn out wonderful, a few turn bad. That's with any group . Someone earlier said Chinese are associated with porn stars and prostitutes. That is just a few again. Most of the Chinese I have known are engineers and scientists. They have great spouses and wonderful family lives.
Just a few bad examples in a group doesn't make it bad.
"Filipinos have mail order brides?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe, maybe not...but either way, it's a good feeling that american men doesn't care to spend dollarsssss just to get a very good wife. hhhmmm i guess they can't find one in their neighborhood and have to travel at the other half of the world to find their happiness...
Mail order brides, arranged marriages ....etc...or whatever schemes are in place. As long as they make great loving families together. Besides its a Win Win situation for all.
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" If abuse is emotional, there is always the door you can walk out through. Simple as that."
True, but I can tell from your posting that you have never experienced psycological and emotional abuse. It's far worse then the physical one.
I give you an example of what can happen from my own experience: my USC husband and his parents threatened me with deportation in case I don't comply unconditionally with their demands, yealed, insulted and humiliated me as much and often as they could ....and one evening, one my best friends (an american woman) seeing that I am very depressed, tired and sad about the situation at my home, said: why don't you stay here, in my house tonight so you can get some rest and good night sleep. And so I did. I didn't shut down my phone, so if anyone would be looking for me, I can be reached over the phone.
Next day I got a call from the police, the detective said that my husband filed a missing report on me, the police was looking for me.
They found me all right, 2 rings later ... The abuser was playing the "victim" part.
He made the situation looked as if I was the bad person who abandoned the family... and he was the nice, concerned husband.....
So, the bottom line is this: before you leave the household, make sure that you know your rights. Document everything, otherwise, you might look like the bad person.
Abandonment is ground for divorce (in some states).
Emotional abuse doesn't heal as easy as the phisical one - ask any doctor and will confirm. Also, it's hard to prove so, use the help of a phisician/psychologist.
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Hey, don't get me wrong - i'm in no way defending the husband there. He clearly is an irresponsible and immature dickhead. However, all things stated above still don't qualify as abuse. Bad marriage - yes, unfair treatment -yes, but domestic abuse...hm...i doubt it. At least not with the evidence you got. I wish you luck with the case!
A lot of abuse and cruelty is sometimes not seen, its done on an emotional and physiologically platform during the marriage over the years.
Something that will be of help to understand it correctly:
http://www.humanrightsattorney.com/sub/abu...D0D216E1F55EED3
Ok then Mr redneck
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My confusion is that I may not have enough documentation to prove the abuse other than the following.
I just need a confirmation or some acknowledgement that this can be enough documentation.
1. pic of the notice they put on the door that she is not welcomed
2. police call log me requesting a domestic escort
3. I am trying to find a psychologiest to evaluate her conditions ( I am not sure if this will be helpful and not sure if I will get a favorable report)
4. affidavits from my sis, me and my wife
I am looking for some other pointers/suggestions regarding what else I should do to make my case strong.
I don't see any extreme cruelty in your write-up. I just see a guy who threw his wife out for whatever reason that was between them.
Rika and alimar have given you some excellent pointers. I agree that cruelty and VAWA may need more evidence. It will definitely qualify for a good faith waiver. An experienced lawyer will give you an exact evaluation. Maybe you can apply in one or more categories, or claim one withdraw it and file another. There are many strategies.
Finally justashooter---- Stop your "I just see..I dont see" BS.
We don't care about what you see and what you don't. Please comment on how you can help the posters sister. If you cant see certain things I would recommend lasik surgery, its cheaper in China 
Every time you comment its sure like a comedy central.
Well, he is right. There is no cruelty there. They kicked her out of the house due to whatever happened between them and posted a note that she is no longer welcome. I don't see anything illegal about it - it's his parents house, not her or his. Unless there is evidence of physical abuse, forget about it. It's a free country - anyone can call police and complain but it doesn't make it true. While domestic violence is a serious crime, it also requires a serious evidence. There isn't any here.
Not trying to be mean - just giving advice.
I cant disagree with you more. The OP is from India, and typically where the husband and his parents abuse the wife for dowry. The women are submissive and treat their husbands with respect no matter how abusive they are. Divorce, separation, calling the police is seen as a mark of disrespect and shame. The USC spouse was financially weak, stayed with his parents, and was greedy for dowry. The unreasonable dowry demands were not met, the abuse started, and the arranged marriage went downhill. A perfect stereotype of an Indian arranged marriage involving a greedy, lazy, loser, USC without a house, and a submissive, culturally strong Indian lady who could not meet his unreasonable demands.
Sure we don't see any cruelty in what the OP has posted. We have to look beyond normal and read between the lines. Also we have to know more about different traditions worldwide not just the mundane or banal "free" American tradition that we so used to.
We have to hear more from the OP about the causes of the breakup and abuse. The above maybe speculation but again classic Indian Dowry Abuse.
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My confusion is that I may not have enough documentation to prove the abuse other than the following.
I just need a confirmation or some acknowledgement that this can be enough documentation.
1. pic of the notice they put on the door that she is not welcomed
2. police call log me requesting a domestic escort
3. I am trying to find a psychologiest to evaluate her conditions ( I am not sure if this will be helpful and not sure if I will get a favorable report)
4. affidavits from my sis, me and my wife
I am looking for some other pointers/suggestions regarding what else I should do to make my case strong.
I don't see any extreme cruelty in your write-up. I just see a guy who threw his wife out for whatever reason that was between them.
Rika and alimar have given you some excellent pointers. I agree that cruelty and VAWA may need more evidence. It will definitely qualify for a good faith waiver. An experienced lawyer will give you an exact evaluation. Maybe you can apply in one or more categories, or claim one withdraw it and file another. There are many strategies.
Finally justashooter---- Stop your "I just see..I dont see" BS.
We don't care about what you see and what you don't. Please comment on how you can help the posters sister. If you cant see certain things I would recommend lasik surgery, its cheaper in China Every time you comment its sure like a comedy central.
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thanks for the link.
if you dont mind me asking.....
Have you worked with them before? or do you have anyone that you know got help from them successfully?
check ur private messages
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My confusion is that I may not have enough documentation to prove the abuse other than the following.
I just need a confirmation or some acknowledgement that this can be enough documentation.
1. pic of the notice they put on the door that she is not welcomed
2. police call log me requesting a domestic escort
3. I am trying to find a psychologiest to evaluate her conditions ( I am not sure if this will be helpful and not sure if I will get a favorable report)
4. affidavits from my sis, me and my wife
I am looking for some other pointers/suggestions regarding what else I should do to make my case strong.
There is your solution
http://www.humanrightsattorney.com/sub/con...1916AF921904905
You can do it yourself too, but if your not confident, you have the money, and you want to increase the prob. of success. The above link is helpful.
I think that its the VAWA option or the cruelty option that you dont need a divorce decree. But I am not sure which one. Would like to hear other poster comment.
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I got my approval notice today
congrats
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Sarcasm, my friend. That being said, some of the best prostitutes in the world are Chinese.
Keep telling what you see. It's all that stands between us, and them.
i'm confused. is it prostitutes that stand "...between us, and them." or is it sarcasm that stands "..between us, and them." with them being the prostitutes?
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I am just speculating based on common scenerio I have seen multiple times (at least among indian marriages).
how dare you speak from direct experience? how dare you report what you know from observation? that kind of behaviour will get you banned around here if people get offended by your retelling of the truth...
Stop your shots justashooter, you shoot good but not on target.
How do you want people to speak? Its better to speak from direct experience than indirect. And report what we know from observation than a dream.
And its not offending. Its the truth. Every country has some sort of profile where something good comes out of it. The Indians have arranged marriages, the Filipinos have mail order brides. And most of these marriages turn out wonderful, a few turn bad. That's with any group . Someone earlier said Chinese are associated with porn stars and prostitutes. That is just a few again. Most of the Chinese I have known are engineers and scientists. They have great spouses and wonderful family lives.
Just a few bad examples in a group doesn't make it bad.
I'm getting a divorce before the first immigration interview!!!!
in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits
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Hold your horses OKIE2
. puskbrk is a member of repute and knows more about immigration protocol than you and me. The OP has clearly stated that she wants to return home with no problems in the future, and in no way sees the US as her permanent residence. In addition, she mentioned that she would like to come here again with an non immigrant status.
well said bobby!