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  1. Mrs.Saiff,

    I am sort of new here, and in answer to your question, it is hard to say if it influences the embassy positively or not if you go to the interview. I went to my husband's interview in Islamabad and the lady behind the glass told me to go sit down , that I was not allowed to stand with him at the window. That was after I had been told by another worker that it was ok for me to be present. I will say, even though we were one of the first ones in, we were the last to be called, don't know why. But for his sake I am glad I was there, as he was very nervous. If I had to do it over, I would go again.

    Thanks for replying Pluan , So what is ur case status now like u said u were with ur husband for his interview is he in AP now for how long then?Yeah evryone is saying even if i go with him for his interview wont b any good .Since i have no say at that time .So im re thinking what to do .

  2. Hey! I am also at the Islamabad embassy girls don't forget me! I'm waiting for the interview and going too! So, what can we do to try to get a shorter AP time? Is having the papers in check a way to prevent it or is that just going to happen no matter what we do?

    Mahitab

    Well Hey kool Mehtab v r all in same timeline ,lol .Well getting to ur question , unfortunately there isnt anything u can do to avoid Ap , they put almost all males through AP and worst part is there is no time limit like how long will it take :( So please pray for all of us who r sponcering there hubbies to get here soon as possible and make AP process wuick n fast Ameen.Best of luck

  3. Hi mary,Well i wished i knew the answer y or what happend .Cuz whenever v called n asked them bout case there answer was always "Case pending" and wait for our call ".They never called but v kept calling so without any valid reason they just put almost all Males in AP :( But once ur in u shouldnt b in AP again thats what i heard.Best wishes and please pray for us that v go thorugh this hard time easily i mean all of us at visa journey r going through heart aches:( Best wishes to all.

  4. Mrs Siaff

    For me...Calling or emailing the Embassy has proven to be a complete waste of time. Not once have they given me any useful information in an email and I have not been able to speak with anyone at the Embassy on the phone. I can't see how it would be a bad thing if you went to your hubby's interview with him.

    Hi browneyedgirl

    We are so excited :star: This is Waheed's second field investigation and it went very well. We are waiting to see what happens next. :thumbs:

    peace

    ~kris

    Thank u Kris for replying aswell yeah i agree with u emaling or calling embassy is just not worth it .Well im kinda hestatting to go n b there for his interview what if like they always do ask for sum MORE documents frm here USA n if im there how will i provide more like they just look for sum stupid stuff to delay as much as they can hope they dont .And Inshalaha Kris ur waiting time will b over soon too.Best wishes .

  5. I dont know. Its up to the embassy unfortunately. You know better than me they do as they please. Hopefully if he gets AP again it wont be long. I dont know how you have ever gotten though to talk to the embassy, i havent ever been able to get through, my fiance got through one time and the they told him he had the wrong section and hung up on him.

    Oh i know u can never get a hold of them through fone so what my hubby does if now he has question he just goes to the embasssy n sumone always helps answer question they r nice if u go there since now they have set up hours where u can go n they can answer ur question in embassy .Thats how he got his passport back he went n asked them for it with in 5 minutes they gave him saying ur case will b cancelled the previous case which was already seemed like dead case v didnt care as long as he got his passport back which we will b needing it soon now .So im thinking i should get a letter written frm congressman here saying they need to expedite case since they already had put him in AP b4 so .

  6. Congrats on the approval! (:

    looks like our hubbies will be going through the same embassy (: and i plan on attending his interview with him just because i want to be there for support. in the mean while, i'm staying in the states to get all the paperwork together so everything will be ready when his interview is near. i hope this helped!

    take care and good luck with everything![/font]

    Thx for replying sis .wow so ur hubby will also go through Islamabad embassy nice mayb our hubbys might get same date n we'll b bale t c each other there ,lol would b nice .So yeah i think i should also b with my hubby but just confused how they start asking for more stuff i will provide all paper work u know how the embassy ppl r just wana create mess by asking for tons more paper work .But hope evrything goes okaay .Thank u .Best wishes

  7. [quote name='browneyedgirl

    Hopefully he will get his visa soon. I know the wait is hard, i havent waited as long as you and its really hard for me too. We are on Ap for the last 6 months . Hopefully, it will be over soon. Inshallah. Best wishes to you too.

    Yeah hope n pray he does soon.I dont know if u know what i went through i'll make long story short .After being engaged i filed for fiance visa thinking like evryone said he'd b here within 6 months v waited 6 months didnt here anything v got married after waiitng for 6 months being enagged . he had his interview taken place that time they said congrats n will call u n let u know till this day v hadnt got any call from them n they had put him in AP for past 4 yrs .So i had to make sum descisons so i re flied the case in summer 2008 as spouse so my concern and big question is r they still gona put him in AP security check after they already did b4 ?? since i heard once they do they dont put u in AP but then again they r so strict n mean u can expect anything but i wont take it if they do that again:( im frusterated

  8. Count me in guys i am also january approval got my approva letter on jan 6th .But my question is soon we should all b getting our spouses interview dates like in few months inshallah will u guys b travelling so u can b with ur spouses date of there interview is it good idea or waite and c ? Since i know for sure all males go through AP which is couple of months or even year being in security check n im sponcering my hubby so i wana b with him till he gets here or should i wait?? so confuse need all of ur replies what will u all b doing traveling or waiting ? Plz reply ladies who r sponcering there hubbys or fiance since for ladies being sponceerd is easy interview n thats it they get there visa within week but guys go through AP :((( so im waiting anxiulsy for my hubbys arrival .So guys please let me know since v all have same time line soon v will here bout interview dates too im planing ahead since cant take any chances been waiting for past 4 yrs now :(
  9. [quote name='browneyedgirl' date='Jan 18 2009, 08:19 PM' post='2568420'

    Mrs Saiff,

    You can attend if you like, its not required but can have a good influence on your case. Good Luck to you.

    Thank u for replying back Brown eyed yeah i know they dont let u b part of it but atleast if im there since i can enter embassy having us passport being citzen they'll let me in n hope they dont question on too much of our relationship since v been married since 2005 n waited for my hubby to get his visa so i re filed the case summer of 2008 so hoping this time he does gets his visa soon n dont wana take any risks .even if im with him they shouldnt have any objection y im with him or beside him since they can say anything so mean i swear im shatterd cant even make any decsion since its almost 4 yrs now being apart .Thanks sis for replying best wishes n best of luck .

  10. :whistle::whistle: Fianlly i got sum good news but still long way to go , i got approval letter of my i129 n 131 soon it'll b sent to nvc thank God for sum improvement in my case but now i have question to ask everyone should i b there with my hubby in time of his interview or what since embassy ppl r so weird if u r there they say y r u here n if ur not present they ask where is ur spouse????????????? Need good advice :blush:
  11. Our Update.......

    My husband finally made it home, Alhumdulilah!!!!! :D:dancing:

    Wow many congrats to both of u .so lucky u guys so yr 2008 was good for u guys and please dont 4get us in ur Duaas please remember us in ur Duaas im suffering from this sponcership case past 4 yrs n hoping yr 2009 is lucky for us im waiting for my hubby since yr 2005 thats when v got married so please u know how it is since u went though it u r lucky u didnt had ot wait much compare to 4 yrs its alot .Anyways wish u guys happy life toghther .and may Allah reunite all the couples who r in long distance relationship .

  12. Hi Mamalou, hang in there , im also wating for my hubby since 2005 yes its gona b 4 yrs now in 2009 still no clue how long v have to wait , so we r all sufeering from long distance relationship its very hard i just hope these immigration ppl understand what v r going through but i guess they dont thats y look at us i am also living very tough life always in tears .But lets have our faith strong and hopefully v will c happy days soon .Best of luck just sharing with u my own story your not alone .
  13. It Is Sad and Saddest Part is the Embassy ppl have told me they dont care bout our Relationship n they dont even care bout our heartaches .They r Very cruel mean etc............Im sorry but i am also in pain since the yr 2005 and its gona b 2009 real soon so far no luck , v r all in tears .So May Allah help us re-unite with our Spouses soon.Cuz its not easy living without spouses .So yeah v all have to stay strong since u r not alone v r all going through one or anoter sorts of problem .Its Sad , and im living in tears evryday strugling n waiting for good news but so far no luck:( :crying:
  14. Congratulations to all who r getting some improvemnst in sponcership Case and many congratualtions to Zaids for getting visa after 6 years , y did it take so long u wana share? Since im also waiting for my hubbys past 3 yrs , n hoping he gets here soon sp please , give us sum good luck prayers or shower sum belssings on us too , need to hear some good news past 3 years i been in tears. n im desperate for hearing good news from our side case:(
  15. Thx very much for YOur reply..

    actaully i m waiting for my vis more than three years and now i m furstrated thats why i need fasterway.... i now I130 easier but in paksitan its not faster.... and now iunderstabd ur answer thx very mnuch again,,,

    and actually my embassy need all my original documnets throgh approved courier service..

    Hi sis , well seeeing ur message i think u r married n u filed both fiance n as apouse n got approved for both so if i were u i would stick with k130 spouse case since i been stuck with i129F fiance case i filed they never give u visa then i been also waiting past three yrs now i refiled k130 for my hubby so my advice will b stay with ur k3 case .Best of luck

  16. More and more people are reporting their wives on AP on this thread which is beginning to get to me!

    We spent a year and a half on my husband's background check at the USCIS level (even though he is a US citizen) and from the looks of it, they'll be throwing me into that black hole too after the interview. I spent the better part of my life in the middle east and I am pretty sure that's reason enough for them to delay my AP forever.

    Is there any woman out there who was done with her AP within a few months? Or was lucky enough never to go to that hole?

    Mrs Saiff ,

    you need to tell me what is going on with your case , please tell me briefly so i can give u some good suggestion regarding to your case , if u have filed for one case and your husband is gone through one interview , why would u guys file for another case , the result is going to be same until u dont slove case no 1 , u filed , so please tell me briefly about your case ,

    explain , case , category is it CR1 , IR1 , K3 , K1 which one

    what is the out come of interview ?

    what is indeed written of the paper he got after his interview ?

    so please explain briefly so that i can guide you , if you cant explain here , email me on

    passionzhere@yahoo.com ,,,

    i will feel happy to help u as much as i can ,

    coz i can understand how stressful it is ?

    with best regards

    chaingang

    Thank u so much chaingang bhai i emailed u i hope u received my email , And i wana thank u from the bottom of my heart cuz my hubby got his passport back v followed ur advice he went to the embasyy got his passport n his birth certificate back , i have more question what will he need now when they call him for his interview soon inshalah k130, since i relfiled as spouse n they told him they will close his old case which was already dead case for past 3 yrs by giving back his passport v dont care since my biggest worry was getting his passport back b4 his interview so today he got it back thank u so much .for all ur support duaas n advice thank u again .

  17. Guys i have more question can anyone help me my hubby told me that from his last interview they kept his original documents like his birth certificate n character certificate now he doesnt have originals with him But with his new interview he will need them so im so confused dont know what we should do , things r getting more complicated , and all this mess is driving me crazy i mean v provided them evrything it should b all clear v wont even have to go though this again but unfortunately we r .Stressed out need help.
  18. Why 1000? they charged me 600 ! :huh:

    Finally dropped our 3.5 at the American Express yesterday. They charged us 1000... I was expecting to pay more!

    Mrs. Saif, we've never been able to get through phone lines when it comes to the embassy. However, they've responded to us within 3-4 days when we sent emails at "pakivquery@state.gov". Just make sure you write your case number down in the subject. Good luck, you should hear from them soon, inshAllah.

    MRs.saif . listen carefully , they wont give u passport on phone even you request , tell your husband to go to us embassy and tell to security officers standing outside that i need my passport , with in 5 minutes he will get his passport , this is the easiest way you can get your passport ......... remember that

    how many cases are pending here any one can please tell me

    my case is in ap from the last 20 months now

    thanks in advance

    chaingang

    Thank u for replying Chaingang i hope the security guy helps my hubby thats our only hope now i tried emailing tried calling nothing worked , i emailed the "pakivquer@tsate.gov for the whole month of sept for 30 days evry day i would send like 10 emailes for like 30 days but they never replied or contatced my hubby i added his case # n also his cell # so they can call him but nope no luck so i hope this works by going to us embassy but since security is too tight they might not even aloow ppl there without passport since his passport is stuck there . Though i will tell my hubby to do that

    mrs.saif they do give passport with out any problem so dont worry about that tell him to be out side embassy before 12:30 pm , inshllah with out any problem he will get his passport and the process of his visa application will also be going on , so dont worry about that and best of luck my wishes, prayers are with you , and i can surely understand from where you are coming from,

    your brother

    chaingang

    Thank u Chaingang Bhai ,Inshalah on monday my hubby will go n find out May Allah help us all Ameen , since i been waiting for my hubby past 3 yrs they havnt given him visa now we re appiled the case so May Allah help us re unite this time .So he needs his passport b4 his interview again .So inshalah let c what happens on monday i hope its that easy n simple since its usualy evrything they make it complicated there i swear .Anyways how long u been wiating n where u at , is ur wife sponcering u or u sponcering her? I also wana know how much is finger prints fee now?It was hundred sumthing b4 so now is it same plus is there any other fee they ask when u go for interview?

  19. Why 1000? they charged me 600 ! :huh:

    Finally dropped our 3.5 at the American Express yesterday. They charged us 1000... I was expecting to pay more!

    Mrs. Saif, we've never been able to get through phone lines when it comes to the embassy. However, they've responded to us within 3-4 days when we sent emails at "pakivquery@state.gov". Just make sure you write your case number down in the subject. Good luck, you should hear from them soon, inshAllah.

    MRs.saif . listen carefully , they wont give u passport on phone even you request , tell your husband to go to us embassy and tell to security officers standing outside that i need my passport , with in 5 minutes he will get his passport , this is the easiest way you can get your passport ......... remember that

    how many cases are pending here any one can please tell me

    my case is in ap from the last 20 months now

    thanks in advance

    chaingang

    Thank u for replying Chaingang i hope the security guy helps my hubby thats our only hope now i tried emailing tried calling nothing worked , i emailed the "pakivquer@tsate.gov for the whole month of sept for 30 days evry day i would send like 10 emailes for like 30 days but they never replied or contatced my hubby i added his case # n also his cell # so they can call him but nope no luck so i hope this works by going to us embassy but since security is too tight they might not even aloow ppl there without passport since his passport is stuck there . Though i will tell my hubby to do that

  20. islamabd embassy

    call from monday to friday 12:30 Pm to 3:30 Pm

    Phone: (+92-51) 208-2700

    press 1

    press 2

    press 1 again and press 1 u will get to talk with operator in 5 min

    Zaidkhan

    and then u will wake up.. it appears..that now connecting to an operator has become a dream! the # is constantly busy:@

    Agreed with Revived , i tried calling us embassy in islamabad last night i stayed up all night but never got trhough kept saying conneting with operator , n operators never answerd either put line busy again or they picked up n hung up i used so many fone cards then i started calling directly still no luck i was so mad , nothing is going right.Need sum emailing adress which really work i mean i need sum answers either through live operator or email with emails to they never reply i tired calling they never answer :(((((((((((((((((((((((( :crying:

  21. Hello Mrs. Saiff.

    Try calling the embassy in ISL and ask them how his passport could be returned. If they can't help on the phone, it may be worth just going to the embassy. I think there is about 1 hour or 45 minutes sloted for applicants to ask question at the embassy. U.S citizens can go to the embassy for inquries as well, more time is available for them. Check out state department's website and ISL embassy page to get the timing.

    Hope this helps!

    Thanks for replying nicely thanks since im very upset cuz of the whole situation nothing seems to b going in right direction im here in USa right now cant go to the Islamabad embassy since i know they let American citzen in , So i tired calling the Islamabad embassy last night they dont have any Live operator all in machines n i used so many of my fone cards went wasted plus the time diffrence May Allah help, im very frausterated at the moment Plus the # i tried which is 51-208-2700 sumthing like that dont even have like right option like they say for english press one i did n still kept saying for english oress one n for whole good hour wated my fone card , i just wish i could talk to live operator .I still wish if there was sum accurate site since i sent emails they never reply

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