Lonely heart

Congratulations Ali.. start looking for the flights :-)

Lonely.. yayyy Congratz... when is your husband coming?

Congratulations Ali.. start looking for the flights :-)

Lonely.. yayyy Congratz... when is your husband coming?

Thank you Waiting4approval Well he hasnt goten his ticket yet monday probably he will go and check out the prices and airlines since i want him to come from Chicago so let see i'll let u guys know

Thank you all

I submitted my passoprt at AMEX yesterday and they said I will receive call within week. Lets see what happens in final step of visa journey.

Congrats ALi555 yeah it sure is final step in visa journey .Good luck

And hey guys my hubby got his visa in hand today so happy now cant wait to meet him Good luck to all who r still in waiting .

L179: Congrats...

Ramadan Mubarak to all

Hubby booked his seat for Sep 26 I m gonna taunt him for the rest of my life for not being here early

Omark:I go to Lehman.....I have being to QC a couple of times for workshops...

ATK_721, Congrats i mean now u know when ur hubby is atleast coming n u have something to look fwd too , im still waiting till AMEX calls my hubby then he will book his flight so hey u should b celebrating yaar .Let see when my hubby gets calls from AMEX hoping any day soon then i will start my count down hope it start soon

shwwwweeeeeetttt!!

:whistle: :dance: Yeah baby

Thanks Omark, i will try the website and see what they have in store for me :)And Omark thats good to know ur not moma's boy ,lol ur wife is lucky ,lol And omark "DHobie "walee baat , well wait till u get to USA, pakistan walee royaltee yehaan nahee milnaay lughi who know u might have to play dhobhi wala rule here in ur home ,lol jk.Since when u come to USa u have to do everything by ur self , from wahsing clothes to wahsing ur dishes , cleaning everything plus no shame in that our ISLam teaches us "APna kaam khudie keroou" so better start getting ur self used to of doing things :)And hey waiting4approval wow thats good news they told u its in final review we both r in same waiting period now , cuz i also called DOS today since i myself didnt believe my ears when they told me on monday that visa has been issued guess what the operator told me today she said i dont know why they told u the visa is issued its not i was almost gona faint i said she said its been just sent today then she said well yeah its been sent but not issued yet since the embassy will call u when they issue visa so i said atleast its cleard from AP she said yes then i was much relieved but then i said is it in its final review she said yes so i duno when my hubby will b receiving call since he called AMEX they told him they havent recived his passport from embassy yet but i told my hubby keep calling

em since he missed call from embassy ppl called him he wasnt home at that time and missed the call But im okaay since im much relieved as long as its done with AP thats the worst part AP part that is .

Hmmm...valuecity usually has some good deals, if you have that in your state.

Or else, don't forget, thanksgiving is coming up in 3ish months.....rather than rushing you will definately get some good deals if you can wait till then!

Oh yeah thats what my sis said try Value city and also Gardner white they have the best furniture, no i dont think i can wait till thanksgiviing since i wana move out ASAP, i mean i luv my parents and siblings but i would luv them more when im away from them living with my man ,lol thats my wish to live in my own home with my hubby So yeah INSHALAH this weekend im planing to look for furniture also Ikea has nice kicthen tables they have everything person can look and wish for their prices r good aswell .Thanks !

Ooops, sorry lonelyheart, did not mean to point any fingers and nothing directed towards you.

Gym is definately a great idea, and like i said I have been thinking about that as well

i was just throwing in another idea after yours!

and congrats on your new house....i feel the pain of no washing machine!!

Aww thank u , no i just thought to explain what really i been through , and yeah apartments oh God those washing machines r filthy i mean Thank god i never have any expreince living in an apartment but heard from my frnds that u have to wait to get ur turn and i was like i would never live in appartment ever and Thank God Allah had heard my wish and gave me house Thank u for wishing n congratualting me now im just thinking of buying nice furniture since b4 i was planing to put it on rent cuz didnt know when my hubby will get here and thank God i dont have to put it for rent since i really didnt want too since i got new carpets done new appplainces everything is new since the house is re model in yr 2006 too its all modern up to date so i didnt want anyone ruining it so again Alah has helped and answerd my prayers Wish u all the best .

WOW!!! I can't beleive these hubby's!!! The wives are waiting anxiously for their husbands and they want to spend Ramazan with their mothers! I thought Ramazan was about worship and remembering Allah....not about spending it with 'whoever'.

Prayer of blessing out to you guys....on that note.

As far as calling DOS goes, there is no reason to wait to call them. Ofcourse they have given us a minimum/maximum time limit but on the other hand, you are a USC and do have rights to inquire about what is going on. The only sad part about calling them is a negative response which only depresses/saddens you. But at least your mind is at rest that you HAVE tried! One of the reps told me I can call everyday if i wish. So why not? I am not committing a crime? So be it! Just a polite question from my side and close ended response from them. SSS! (short simple & sweet)

Gym is a great idea guys...and with me gaining weight definately I plan that as well, however HELLO!!! Ramazan is around the corner...and we all need blessings from no1 but Allah, so utilize this time in namaz and duas. Seek His help. We all have 11 months of the year to work out but for those of you who can't find answers and need strength and patience now is the time. Ask and HE shall give!

GOD BLESS!

Yeah L179 totally agree with u Ramdan is month of blessing and and asking for forgiveness .But when i mentioned gym that was back in feb since after new year started i was more in stress when yrs pass that was scaring me the most so i needed alternate way which was only hitting gyms not clubs ,lol so it did helped to release some stress and yeah weight aswell.Now INSHALAAH my intention is also to pray and Thank Allah for his blessings he has showered upon us these 4 yrs i achieved alot i recently purchased my own home so im just waiting for my hubby so we can move to our own home since i never wana live in apartment i just cant use washing machines which everyone else has to use and other issues i have with apartments but since i had been working full time for past 4 yrs i had enough savings to go ahead and buy my own home so im very greatful for al the good things which also had happend during waiting time .Allhumdullilah Allah is great since i was hurt by not being with hubby but Allah has been greatful with me in other ways that im fully stable now and when he gets here we r good to live on our own which is big Blessing .

Yo join the club.....my hubby too want to spend Ramadhan n Eid with his mommy n family whats going on with these paki guys,mama boys.......

Lets take votes on that...

For all the hubbys here what do u think? Would u prefer eid n ramadhan with ur mom n family (like always)or with ur wife n her family(for the first time ever atleast in my case)?

i would have flown next hour if poosible i am missing my janu so much well she is coming here in december and i cant wait till then i miss her dantt

OHH wow...do u mind talking to my hubby

Lol Atk_721 , sorry no offense but i feel better hearing im not alone b4 i thought only my hubby was being weird by saying he is gona spend Ramadan with his mommy since his rest of the family lives in uk and his mommy is in uk at the moment so now he wants her to come back and they can have blast together ,lol i was so ticked off when he said he will wait for her to come and then spend Ramadan with her so i was like first i waited cuz of embassy wont give visa now i have to wait for his mommys approval , so im dealing with 2 weird embassy one is real one which made me wait 4 yrs now its mother in law embassy , and AGREE 100% paki guys r mommys boys well most of em r .But i talked to my own family my siblings they said enjoy the time being alone finally u r less stressfull since i know its over so thats what i did went to the hair salon got my hair done so im gona pamper myself since i wasted 4 yrs in tears so now its time to enjoy my freedom,lol :dance: :dance:

oh woww you were told 3 months max but I was told 2 years max.. I just blanked out and the CO said "don't worry it won;t take THAT long" guess what even 1 month and 3 days has been long enough for me!! I called DOS twice today- still pending, still pending is all I hear!

and please tell me how are you waiting to call DOS??? I tell myself everyday taht I won't bug them today but as soon as I get a spare minute at work, I dial the number.. It's just so automatic :-(

its possible if you believe it is!

Not helping much :-(

Aww hang in there Waitingforapproval, u dont wana annoy them too much i just started calling them just once a week and ur right whenever i also used to hear case is still under porcess i use to get even more stressed out so i would advice u too stay away from phone or if u dont have the # memorized then keep the # away from u i hope that helps , im still waiting for the AMEX to call my hubby but after that too i will have to wait for him another month he said he wants to spend his last ramdan b4 coming here with his mommy so im still waiting for my hubby even though i thought like he used to say he will catch next flight but hey i guess my waiting time isnt ending anytime soon so now what i do to kill spare time is i have joined gym right after work i go to work out keeps me busy and when i get home im super exhausted that i dont even have any energy to stress about anything ,lol hope that helps u guys , its been 6 months i have joined gym really helps when im stressed the most i have good work out for like 2 hours :)All the best to all of u guys who r still waiting even me ,lol but atleast i know now i dont have to worry about these embassy ppl realy did gave me heartache .Now im just gona enjoy month of Ramadan INSHALAAH all of u r still in my prayers and i will continue with to post u guys this thread is very helpful.

Thank u so much for wishing me and congratulating me ,Thank u All , Zeha14,Omark,L179,Waitingforapproval, Thank u all wish u all the best and everyone on this thread and special thanks to Ali555 for making this thread has been very helpful thats how i knew how long guys r being kept in AP , thank u all .And yes u r all in my prayers and this thread has been very lucky for all of us who r receiving good news so INshalaah who r still waiting for their spouses ur time is coming soon inshalaah .

Congrats Atk_721 for ur hubby gettting his visa when is he coming?All the best .Question i have for Atk_721 how long did ur hubby had to wait after knowing that visa was being issued and for him to get visa in his hand , plus did he had his passport submitted now or time of his interview???

Congrats LOnely heart....so ur not lonely anymore Yes I think they issue visa before they even call for passport.

I called today and the lady said visa was issued on Aug 3rd but they requested his passport on the 6th.

Yeah thank u so much ATK_721 , yeah thats right i wont b lonely heart i been lonely too long ,lol.and they already have his passport since his interview so im hoping they call him when they stamp visa hope its done like she said 5 to 6 days .Thanks and wish u all the best .

Alhamdulilah! Lonely heart that is greattttt newsss, nobody hears our hearts but Allah (swt)... I'm really glad to hear this, I've been reading your posts and feeling the pain you convey in them. May Allah (swt) continue blessing you insha'Allah

Thank u Hopeful786 for feeling my pain , for past 4 yrs i've been eating living breathing stress and full of tears so finally Allah has heard our prayers .Still i get the what ifs i mean i asked the lady so many times until my hubby gets his passport thats when i will have real celebrations INSHALAAH wish u all the best if it can happen to me meaning getting good news inshalaah all of u will hear good news soon wont have to wait how long we had to i hope and always pray that this doesnt happen to anyone what we went through .All the best to all of u who r waiting for their spouses may Allah re unite all the spouses together soon Ameen.

Alhamdulillah visa in hand today!!!!!!!!!!!

:dance: Wow sis many congrats to u :dance: .Wish u all the best .And may Allah have mercy on all of us and re unite all of the spouses who r awating for their spouses and I hope i live to c that day .

OKay THANK YOU for that information atk_721. And yes lonely heart i will definately pray for you and everyone else who are under AP. insha' ALLAH your prayers will be heard and will have visas in hand soon.

THANK YOU AND GOOD LUCK!!!

HAVE FAITH AND KEEP PRAYING!!!

Thank u , and i hope we all share some good news soon aswell .Best of luck

My Fiance's interview was on April 13, 2009. It has been 3 and a half months since he has been in AP, I think he was one of the lucky ones after all. Although I heard ISL embassy is up and running and are clearing people who are under AP. Insha' ALLAH you will all get your visas in hand soon. Yes i was inquiring about DOS and had no idea about him getting the visa although I prayed day and night. One thing though, what is POE? Does my Fiaance have to go through that process? I have never heard of POE? Will he be able to get a ticket immediately and come to the US?

PLEASE HELP!!! THANK YOU AND I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU.....

Wow many congrats to u waiting4myheart , im also getting some hope now since my hubbys interview was also in April i hope we also get call soon from embassy .Thank u for sharing good news and plz dont 4get to pray for all of us who r still waiting for their spouse to get over from AP .But so happy for u atleast u dont have to worry about AP anymore u r very luck and pour some luck on rest of us plz ,lol thanks .

Proud Pakistani's and all will be well for us!

Just a little patience will help

Agreed very well said. Proud Pakistani we r