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    How do YOU cope?

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

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    I know the hurt I feel is intensified because my wife just went back to Ukraine and the wound is still fresh from losing her by my side until this process is finished. Was feeling kind of ok today, then just going to the local grocery store (where we used to shop) this avalanche of pain and emotions just crushed me. :(

    Then I think of the others here at VJ, who have been waiting for months and months ... and my heart sincerely goes out to you. To go through this kind of pain for so long has to effect you emotionally, physically and mentally.

    I know that some of the pain might ease up a little as time goes by and 'regular' life, going to work, etc. goes on ...

    But I was just wondering what advice or tips can some VJ members offer who had a long wait or are still going through the process ... How did/do you cope without being with your most precious one?

    Peace,

    I wont lie to you. This process is tough sledding.

    Do you know your wife's language? I'm learning the language of my wife now and we are working on translating some short stories together. If God will that we should have children they will be bi-lingual. Also I truly wish someday to have a conversation with my wife's Mother, Father and family without the need of a translator.

    Also,

    I don't see the harm in planning to go there to my wife's country to live if at the end of the day, may God forbid it, we exhaust all possible avenues for her to come here. In my case I would apply to teach English in her country which is about the only job open for Americans in her country. So in the meanwhile I make preparations and will soon enroll in some English teaching courses here in the States. I would much rather bring my wife here as the economic conditions in her country are very hard and we would be very poor there. Also, for me to go there would be a one way trip since God only knows how I would ever raise the money for a plane ticket home.

    I continue to study the visa process and legal codes. In short, time is on my side. Its something I seem to have plenty of now so I better take advantage of it. Working lots of overtime also. We need the money.

    Look at it this way,

    Every day that passes is a day that you are closer (not farther away) to being united with your other half. :dance:

    So don't give up even if your a$$ falls off.

    Music that pulls you through

    in Waivers (I-601 and I-212) and Administrative Processes (221g)

    Posted · Edited by Sabr

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    well, thats the embed code but it doesent work.....

    U.S. denies Israel's Requests

    in Middle East and North Africa

    Posted

    I honestly think we don't have to worry about the US and the Middle East in the upcoming months. Its Russia that will be raising eyebrows. That's just my opinion of course.

    Scary! That Sara Palin says the US should be willing to go to war with Russia over Georgia!?

    Do we really wish to begin hooking and jabbing with Russia?????? :wacko:

    U.S. denies Israel's Requests

    in Middle East and North Africa

    Posted

    I wonder if it is because Bush doesn't have to cater to them now that he is at the end of his political career. Just a thought.

    Good observation........

    Notice its always at the end of a term that any US president will attempt to adress in a meaningful way any sort of "peace process" between the Zionists and Palestinians?

    AIPAC now may be quite busy preparing to wrap themselves around the necks of the next administration....whomever it may be.

    FINALLY APPROVED!

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    omg I couldn't believe it when i saw it alhamdullilah after all of these months sitting around VSC then only a few days in CSC and we get approved. Got the email at 8:45 PM EST . To every other transferred person from VSC to CSC just hang in there a few more days and you will be approved too inshallah. Now I just don't know how to update that spreadsheet...

    Im happy 4 you. Congratulations. al-hamdulallah hir rabilammen

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