Bluehill

I feel your pain. It happened to me too. After spending more than $15K to bring her to the States and put her through nursing school so she can earn decent paycheck, she run away with another man. As to whether you should attend his AOS interview, is up to you. But, before you go to the interview with him, please, know that he is not going to change.

I feel your pain because I have been there before. You have been giving good advice. Send both a letter and an email to Embassy to let them know that you want to cancel your petition. Also write to USCIS to withdraw your petition.

Patient2010 said well ("It is better you know now than later when maybe he was here. I believe in the Maya Angelou saying "when someone shows you who they are...believe them")In my case, my wife made it all the way here in U.S. only to leave me after I have adjusted her status and after getting a CNA certificate in only 10 months with my money. It was a waist of time and a lot of money. Stay strong.

Yes, she is working in a nursing home. I called that nursing home and spoke to her. She had made it clear that God has answered her prayers that is why she is here not because of me.

Talking about marriage fraud? I am living proof that it happens now than ever. I am a victim of visa/marriage fraud. You can read about my misery I just posted on this forum: NOW I CAN GO CRY MYSELF A RIVER. It is a matter of luck. I was unlucky and to naive.

It has been over a year since my last visit here on visajourney. Things have been very disappointing and heartbreaking. I met my spouse thru family members in 2007 in Ghana. After two visits to Ghana I filed for K-1 visa for her to join me because she was so vibrant, kind, full of life,....you know what I mean. It's been a very long and painful process. She arrived in April 09. The following day after her arrival, that vibrant, joyful, kind woman I fell in love with was no more. She was not talking at all and just want to be left alone. I proceded to marry her anyway in the hope that it will get better. I also put her to nursing school so that she can have a job. My expenses on her since 08/07 to date is over $15,000 just to bring her here, file for AOS and school tuition and so on.

She disapeared the day she got her first job. I have no idea where she is. I feel very very hurt but I know it will come back to hurt her also.

CONGRATULATIONS GOD BLESS

Congratulations

I am so happy for you

good luck

Although I-134 is not legally binding or enforced, as your mom (like any other mother), will feel bad by thinking that she let you down if you and your SO do need financial help later and she or your father can't help. Did the Consulate tell you that you need a sponsor or do you think you need one because of the guidelines? Anyway, it doesn't make much sense to reshedule because I-134 is not the only document that determines the visa approval. Let your fiancee go to the interview as schedule with what she got.

Good Luck

I know how sweet it is

CONGRATS

Well, I am very very happy to inform my fellow VJers that after 15 months my fiancee picked up her visa yesterday. I wish any VJ member who is still waiting for a visa all the best. Frustration and questions like why, how and when were my daily life. I am still asking myself if the COs in Ghana really think that all spousal and fiance visa applications are fraud. I do not see why a flawless, genuine and simple k1 visa application like mine will take them 15 months to approve.

I have finally found a way to post something for the first time. Hi you all! I just read one member 's posting about CO requesting more evidence of relationship. It sounds familiar. My fiancee was told on her first interview in November that the consulate is short on staff (it doesn't sound American to me). On her second interview they want more letter mails and pictures of us together, although we have provided a ton of IMs, 2 letter mails, 5 pictures of us together and family members, emails, phone calls,..etc. But the CO wants more photos and letter mails. As you all know it takes weeks sometimes months for a snail mail to be received if ever. So I have decided to be with her at her third interview. It is frustrating to sit and wait not knowing what they will come up with next time.

Hi All,

I am trying to find out what you all did to prove evidence of relationship.

The embassy in Dakar is now asking my husband (through an email to me) to come to an interview (that they set) and bring proof of relationship.

"Please be advised that the consular officer has scheduled Mr. xxxxx for another interview on March 25 at 2:00 PM. Please have him bring all evidence of your relationship to the petitioner ( photos, letters, correspondence---)

Best regards,

Eligibility Review Unit. (MS) "

He brought photo's of us together, greeting cards, a bank card I gave for him to withdraw money on, and a few letters.

All this was given (and not returned) to them on the first interview in November.

I was then told by my husband that everything was fine, but that we needed a better I-864.

Now that we have that taken care of (I got a cosponsor who is his 1st cousin living here in the U.S.), they now want MORE proof of relationship.

This is crazy because that part of the interview was already covered and we were led to believe that it was only the cosponsor that was needed.

I email them on a regular basis to get info.

The last time I called, I heard them say in the background "is that the american?" This was heard when they were passing the phone to the CO.

I plan on going to the interview this time with my husband, but does anyone know how we may "document a relationship" when we don't even live together??

By the way, it is expensive for my husband to go online everyday and when we try to send letters.....it either comes in a month or not at all.

I foolishly sent my husband some money (their currency) once and another time a ring. Though they were not worth very much, they never got to him.

Any suggestions?

P.S. I travel to see my husband every 3 to 4 months, so my passport is FULL of stamps from his country, so what about using this as evidence also?

It sounds familiar. My fiancee was told on her first interview in November that the consulate is short on staff (it doesn't sound American to me). On her second interview they want more letter mails and pictures of us together, although we have provided a ton of IMs, 2 letter mails, 5 pictures of us together and family members, emails, phone calls,..etc. But the CO wants more photos and letter mails. As you all know it takes weeks sometimes months for a snail mail to be received if ever. So I have decided to be with her at her third interview. It is frustrating.