Hello,
I want to know which evidence to include in our I-130.
Context:
- We met back in high school around 2012 in the Dominican Republic
- We started talking again around 2017 (I was already in the US at the time)
- We dated long distance from 2018 until 2024 (we still have chats from 2020 to 2024 as well as gift receipts from both of us).
- In 2024, we decided this was not working out due to the distance. She later started another relationship and I also went my way.
- In March 2025, she applied for a B2 tourist visa. At that time, we were not dating.
- Around June 2025, her relationship ended and around July 2025 we reconnected.
- In September 2025, she decided to visit for 1.5 weeks. This was our first time seeing each other again in person since 2012. We engaged that same month. She returned to the DR.
- April 2026 we married in the US and she returned shortly after.
Me: US citizen
Her: Dominican citizen
Open questions:
1. Do we need joint finances at this point? I am planning on including her as a beneficiary of my life insurance and 401k. Should we open a bank account?
2. She is worried about the breakup and reconnection. She is suggesting we scrap all the info prior to 2025 and start from there (meaning way less evidence). My point of view is that life changes and excluding all previous evidence will hurt the case more.
3. In her US visa application she put her previous non legal partner as common-law partner. In the Dominican Republic, common-law is not a legal status. Her concern is that USCIS might scrutinize that and ask why she visited me. In my opinion, I don't think that will get scrutinize. They might ask to clarify the common-law status and we can clarify that it is not a legal status and provide evidence.
Thanks in advance!