eros_EX_Plumber

Just when I thought it was finally over and starting to forget.....

I receive an email stating that my I-129F is now being forwarded from the Manila US Embassy to the STATE Department...???

Actually, i forgot maybe being lazy did not send a cancellation letter....which I am typing now. :bonk:

Just wondering if anyone else who did not cancel the Petition after the Beneficiary "Failed" the interview has similar experience?

I just wondering why this Petition did not terminate itself since the Beneficiary is "NOT ELIGIBLE" for fiance visa....

and what is the point of sending it to the STATE department

Bureaucracy at his best....

As usual......

This forum has the "BEST" Telenovelas, Dramas .... reading it, beats even the best episode of the Discovery Channel..... :devil:

Sure - you can ask. lets see - personal experience, in a prior life, and then my network of friends not on VJ, then

specifically a group of ex-husbands of PI-women who discovered this 'game', and then SOME of the 'stories' here on VJ.

I've been 'wired in' to this game since 2003.

Very Good and informative answers..... :thumbs:

and some games start long before Marriage.....

Also need to take into account of "the ILLUSION of better life in another country" which most time does not materialize exactly as "some" have been dreaming of it....

Only to come to the realization that LIFE is hard, no matter what country you live in...

:rofl: :rofl:

Great post....

you should do this more often....Thank GOD there is still people left with a sense of HUMOR in this world..... :devil:

Posted 29 February 2010 - 01:47 PM

Please help, I have a few problems.

I filed way later then planned. I bought my fiance's airline tickets for may 15 (they are non refundable), is that enough time to get the K1 visa? Oh, I should be good sent packet in last week already!

A question about the G325A, should her extented time in prison have been listed here? I am affraid this may hold things up.

Well, I am sure that the I -130 was filled out correctly!

After all we did get our NOA 1 and check was cashed really fast !

Our evidence of relationship, that's solid. We first met during a drug bust in Manila, this is well documented including goverment pictures of us.

We are both still married to others, that shouldn't be a problem. Once we get our interview, Manila will be able to see it's true Love!

My main concern is that I signed my full name on all documents like my passport.

Got you ! this is an old post I did in 2008.

Zen's hubby, Dennis

P.S. Zen is yelling at me not to re-post this

I am pleasantly surprised how clean all answers have been on this topic....

WOW.... this forum has really changed over the years

Congratz

oh and sorry i forgot to ask ...did you infer my age? ahha

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Yes, I am sorry...from your writing does not look like child writing....

but i got a good laugh

Cheers.....

My Fiance (Dinah) an OFW, went for her interview at the Amercian Consulate (Kuwait) all went well, except they have not recieved the OFFICIAL CENOMAR from NSO. We went to the e-census website when her aplication was aproved last month, however, it takes 6-8 weeks by registered mail.

Long story short after a few hours of the interview process she was given the reject form by the consualte simply saying we will contact you as soon as we receive the documents from NSO.

My question, it, do they only require Filipinas to have documents sent directly to the consualte? It

seems like an aplicant from any other country with a notarized anullment document and court papers would not require a direct communication from NSO to the consulate.

I am not crying too hard as we feel blessed, I29F 2nd NOA 90 days no RFOs.

The reason she remained in Kuwait during this process is we figured a small emassy in a small country would be less of a hassle than the one in Manila.

Dinah and Dave

Normally,

the Beneficiary (your fiance) will bring that document "from the NSO printed security paper" (due to the high number of FALSIFIED documents) with her at interview time at the embassy......but since she is living in a different country as OFW it may slight different.

When you requested the document from the e-census website, did you all asked to be deliver to embassy or the present living address?

My case was slight different then yours, with a "SAD ending"...

since i was never told the truth until after the embassy interview.

the "CENOMAR" actually showed that she was previously married but she never applied for ANNULMENT ( the long and drawn process that is expensive by any country standard)...needless to say, our relationship ended there because the TRUST was gone.

Best Wishes.....

My aunt petioned for my mom (and thus her kids) years ago, she´s a Us citizen, and after many years the process has started its final run. For the last two years i was an F1 student in a college in the usa and recently ive come back home; while i was there i married randomly ( yes, stupidly and non sensically for no specifical reason, i guess i was drunk, young and dumb) anyway, nothing happened it wasnt a real marriage, proof of that is that i got it annuled.

So now im back home and since this process (my aunts petition) has started im covered aswell. Now, you guys must know that the requirements for the children of the aplicant (my mom) to be included are to be under.. 24 i think (or 22 ) and UNMARRIED. My question is,,, am i still gonna be included if i show my annulment certificate? as i see it the annulment itself shows that an american court declared that marriage to be voidable and not real so it should make me unmarried. Does anybody know a case like this one?

id appreciate anyone's comments and experience, thank you vj'ers.

There are only 2 countries in the all WORLD where there is "NO DIVORCE"....one is the PHILIPNIESS and then other is MALTA, both of them ISLAND countries...there ANNULMENT is required....a long and drawn process lasting years...

Every other country in the world there are DIVORCE Decree Certificate by the court....

You should be fine as long you have the actual divorce certficate and if you fit the "age requirement of unmarried child"...

I think you may have more problem fitting the age requirement...then anything else

Best wishes...

Occasionally, I am reminded how to love my neighbors.......

This is my favorite one....Enjoy !!!!

send me a pm maybe i can help in translating it to u

Why you want to do that.....hahahahah

Now you are ruining all the fun.....ahahahahah

Inquiring minds want to know what was said..... :rofl: ...JUST JOKING....Please !!!!!

uhmmmm hehehe so now...

she is married ha...? why not file annulment maybe its not too late....

You must be JOKING !!!!!!!!!!! :bonk: :bonk:

Not in my lifetime she would ever come here on my dime.......

unfortunately in my religion there is "NO FORGIVENESS"...just an EYE for EYE and a tooth for a tooth :innocent:

She made her bed of LIES....she can sleep in THAT too..... :whistle:

a Warning to all the ladies that Think about lying their way out of it......LIES have short lives and usually POP UP their ugly head when you least except them....

relationships are based on trust not lies....or at least that is what most of us think.... :devil:

https://www.ecensus.com.ph/Secure/frmIndex.asp

I wish I had knew about this link at the start of our relations......."HOW MANY HEARTACHES" & money would have been saved !!!!!

Live and LEARN :bonk: :bonk:

Bitterness much??

Before my words get twisted around once again.....

it was meant to HIM.....that "HE does not appreciated what he got"

just wanted a chance to clarify my meaning.....before the TWIST....lol

:devil: :devil:

It must be a "TN" invasion.........lately !!!!!!!!!

:thumbs: :thumbs:

Bitterness much??

Nay.......

Bitterness get us nowhere......

:innocent: :innocent: :innocent:

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Life really sucks ........

Some people try so hard to get their loved ones re-united......and some lucky ones that have it.... do not even appreciate what they got

go figure this screwed up world......

Back home, 70 degree F was already cold for me. When I arrived here in TN last November, the 1st week was very cold for me but I've adjusted fast. Your soon to be wife will be fine.

HAHAHAHA...

wait for Thursday night when the temperature will go down to 9 F. or less....

it will make look last winter look was a heat wave in TN...

Eros, it appears that you weren't a good plumber after all. Because if you were, you should have been able to locate on which part of the pipe the G-spot was! Ciao!

:rofl: :rofl:

Juan,

that is the reason I am an EX-plumber at the moment....LMAO

My guess is that i have keep on trying.....

few more trips to the "PINAY world" and I should be able to find it after all....could not be that difficult now since I know the way....

Ciao....

obviously more research is needed!

Agree 100%....more research is needed on my part.....

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8439000.stm

The G-spot 'doesn't appear to exist', say researchers

What a waste....I spent all my life looking (feel) for it....now they tell me this !!!!!!!!!!!!!

and I even went 8.000 miles for research purposes.....LOL

Cleaning up my OLD emails.....i found this, I think it still hold true... :devil:

MARRIAGE

I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her first name was Always.

I haven't spoken to my wife for 18 months.

I don't like to interrupt her. Marriage is a 3-ring circus: Engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffering.

The last fight was my fault. My wife asked, "What's on the TV?" I said, "Dust!"

In the beginning, God created earth and rested. Then God created man and rested. Then God created woman. Since then, neither God nor man has rested.

Why do men die before their wives? They want to.

What is the difference between a dog and a fox? About 5 drinks.

A beggar walked up to a well dressed woman shopping on Rodeo Drive and said "I haven't eaten anything in four days." She looked at him and said, "God, I wish I had your will power."

Do you know the punishment for bigamy? Two mothers-in-law.

Young Son: Is it true, Dad, I heard that in some parts of Africa a man doesn't know his wife until he marries her?

Dad: That happens in every country, son.

A man inserted an 'ad' in the classified: "Wife Wanted". Next day he received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have mine."

The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once.

First guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"

Second guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive."

How do most men define marriage? An expensive way to get laundry done for free.

Hello all,

I have been lurking for a while and just started posting again. I have some questions for y'all;

"when you realized that what you thought you had, you did not have, how did you over come those feelings of

bitterness, personal embarrassment, anger, distraught, deception, betrayal, being used, being abused, exploited, frustrated, and just down right p1ssed off at yourself for not recognizing bullsh1t for what it is?

How did you cope and who assisted you during that period of utter personal resentment and hatred towards your mate or ex-mate?"

I only pose these/this question becuase I feel {and I could be wrong} that there are some that need an outlet as to what to do and lack a tangible resource for comfort and support.

Why else would we/VJ have so many stories of love gone wrong?

Ponder this and answer if you can;

Do you feel there was/is a lesson to learn from your situational demise; and if so, what did YOU learn?

What did YOU do to heal?

Who assisted you/was there for you?

How are you doing now?

Did YOU honor your "emotional" self?

After honoring your emotions, have you been liberated enough not to classify all "insert nationalities/countries here" as scammers/users or whathaveyous?

Also, are you dating again and if so, is your new love home-grown?

And last but not least, are you still open to going through another visajourney?

Pleas note that this is NOT an opportunity for bashing, nor a segway to do such.

I just want others to know that someone somewhere cares and understands what they are going through.

UNO

I have been in those SHOES for months now....

mine was another LOVE STORY gone wrong...terribly wrong in my own opinion...looking back at my own relationship.

I went trough all the feelings you mentioned....i don't think i can exclude any of those out...

"when you realized that what you thought you had, you did not have, how did you over come those feelings of

bitterness, personal embarrassment, anger, distraught, deception, betrayal, being used, being abused, exploited, frustrated, and just down right p1ssed off at yourself for not recognizing bullsh1t for what it is?"

Luckily for me, i found support with my immediate family, really close friends and personal faith... even posting so i make sure it does not happen to anyone else again, if I can help it.

"

After honoring your emotions, have you been liberated enough not to classify all "insert nationalities/countries here" as scammers/users or whathaveyous?

"

Unfortunately, I cannot say i have been liberated enough not to classify....for the this reason

"that if you have just been BITTEN by a snake or mugged in a certain neighborhood, would you to try walking the same area....just to try you luck again?"

I try not to lump the ALL country or nationality in the same classification but i am over cautious or some time paranoid against a that particular country...and rightly so...because of what happen to me...is part of learning.

After said all the above,

I am in no rush to jump into any other relationship, I am in no rush to replace what i have lost....the priorities in my life have shifted and myself, my own well being "emotional and financial" take precedent over anything else around.

I hope it helps you....

What are the circumstances? Without knowing anything about your case, it's difficult to give you any meaningful advice. The sole purpose of your interview with the Consul is to help verify all the documentation you and your fiance provided as evidence of a bonafide relationship. If you said anything during your interview that didn't support that documentation or contradicted it, then you might have triggered off these precautionary measures. If you don't know already what caused the alarm, I'd recommend you call the Embassy to find out. There may be nothing you can do at this point other than review the original documentation your fiance submitted which was initially approved and make sure that all of it is correct and factual.

Just to add to the great answer above, not only it has to be a BONAFIDE relationship.....but also need to be "ELIGIBLE" for the type of VISA requested.

If it is a K1....meaning FIANCE visa....surely Either side CANNOT be currently married ..if married before, previously marriages need to proven that have been annulled or divorced.

Same is true for K3 and IR1.....too

and the best for last.....also your partner....need to be able to support you too....AFFIDAVIT of SUPPORT...

If they (embassy) have any doubt regarding the documents supplied....surely they will go through extra examination...thus delaying the case.

let's not be trying to play matchmaker with your relatives in this thread, vj isn't a dating service. keep replies constructive towards the topic.

Why not Charles....????

There are some good PLUMBERS out of work here.....

Maybe gotta back up the mod.

Purely hypothetical.... Maybe that's BS and I saw the post? Maybe the offending post was full of comments that were nothing but rude, downright trash. Maybe it would take a total moron to read Jasman's post and think a reply dissing him and dissing Claudeth would be appropriate... Just maybe the emoticons used did not even seem to suggest said individual had any intent toward joking; maybe it simply suggested moron. Poor Filipina SO! Hopefully she finds VJ and maybe gets a clue. Oh, did I call the offending poster a moron? Maybe that's an understatement. Even a plumber would know better....

This is totally funny.....

Why are you people picking on me for ......

I even darn HIGHLIGHTED the part that my humor was about.....

lLet's not be trying to play matchmaker with your relatives in this thread, vj isn't a dating service.

The humor part was meant that

"if someone want to match me with someone else" go right ahead since I am out of work .....if you understand what it is underling meaning of it....

I have no idea what was removed because I cannot see anymore.....but i can tell you IT WAS NOT my post....

Charles is doing his job as MOD.... he can remove anything as he wishes, including mine if he thinks that may be something inappropriate....

It no wonder why most of us are not POSTING anymore.....you all ready to jump on someone like a pack of wolves....

While other members post IDIOTIC comments, IDIOTIC pictures and MORONIC nonsense....be fair and pick on the other members too... for GOD sake.

What am I saying?.....

LIFE is not FAIR...why this forum should be any different.....

let's not be trying to play matchmaker with your relatives in this thread, vj isn't a dating service. keep replies constructive towards the topic.

Why not Charles....????

There are some good PLUMBERS out of work here..... :devil: :whistle:

YOUR post was not really 'constuctive towards the topic' but it can stay because charles has not decided to delete it.

1st of all...this is my FIRST POST on this topic, so I have not the slightest idea what you are talking about.

Whatever Charles removed...it is his business because he is the MOD, he is just doing is job.

But i suggest the you follow the thread carefully before accusing someone....that has nothing to do on what was removed.

I was just adding some humor to CHARLES comment.....

Not every post in this FORUM are always constructive....maybe want to read some of your OLD ones too....

So go find someone else to pick a fight...OK