I haven't filed anything yet. Was waiting on the courts in Cagayan De Oro to decide about the guardianship. I belive it is possible that we could switch up and go the adoption route if needed. The reason we didn't go the adoption at first is because of all the different requirements. I would need affidavits from my grown married children stating that they didn't object to the adoption, I would need to undergo psychological testing at a court appointed shrink, which means more trips to attend court hearings. Plus the fact that their judicial systems moves like a glacier. Plus the attorney told us that an adoption can take up to 2 years. If we went the adoption route which means he could age out during the court process. If we were successful with the adoption could my wife file for him as an unmarried adult son if he does age out? I would to thank everyone who has responded to my post.