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    advices needed please

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

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    That just sucks. It seems as thought she is not the person you thought she was, that her true colors are now showing. It's not right that she curses her kids. It's just not right. I am sure this is not life you expected when you moved to the US. Please know that not all American women are like that. She seems rather selfish and uncaring to me. She is not setting a good example at all. If I seem too harsh it's because it's not right what she's doing. She can't control the kids she has and she wants more. She has 5 already, and that includes your daughter! This must be so hard for you. And she is using your child to control you. That is just terrible. NO good parent uses their child to hurt their spouse. You need to seek advice on this from a good lawyer. Fathers do have rights you know. Then she tells you to go back to your country if you don't want to give her more kids! You say that you are concened about your daughter, but really need to decide if this is the woman you want to be with and if this is the life you want. It seems as thought she misrepresented herself to you from the beginning and that is just wrong. It could be her true colors are now showing. She is also threatening to tell immigration that you abused her! Wow!!! That is really low. It seems like she only wants to control you, for you to do what she wants. I would advise you to be careful because she can send you back to your country. She knows that and that is why she is acting the way she is. She knows that she has the power and clealy she is abusing it. You have to decide what you want for yourself and your daughter. I wish you all the best.

    How to deal with this loneliness?

    in Moving to the US and Your New Life In America

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    I truly feel for you. You husband has to try and be more understanding that you are in a strange country, you will need time to adjust. Three months is certainly not long enough for that. It's a different culture entirely. Plus you are pregnant and on bed rest. That in itself is alot to deal with. You and he need to sit down and really talk about how you feel and the two of you need to find a solution. I wish you the best and congratulations on your impending motherhood. (F) (F) (F)

    I am tired of babysitting

    in Off Topic

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    I know how you feel. Sometimes they need either a gentle reminder or a swift kick in the a**. What may seem important and urgent to us is not so for them. It is frustrating but he needs gentle reminders until he gets up and does what he has to do.
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