mohamed and trina

good one jen you are 100% correct we are all going to hell by how some religions think i guess.so what do we do to be perfect.its crazy.how one religion says we will be the only ones in heaven well.where are we going.and why only one religion in heaven i swear.

AMEN free will i swear religion should not be about fighting why is it that way.listen if you force your children to try to be as u and she or he does not agree.how you will stop that child to be your religion.you should not force it on them.let them choose.christians are wonderful people well some.and muslims are to.and there is nothing wrong with letting your child choose what he or she wants to be.i was not forced.and my family would never disown me if i was to convert.never ever.that is not a family.ok people am i right or not.our family is close.and if you disown how can you do that to flesh and blood.thats cruel.and its cruel to force a religion on someone.maybe i should leave this topic its not a good one for me i spent 2 years in this topic and now we compromised.we love both religions and we will not force it.we will guide and love our children the best we can.God does not just love one religion he loves many.not just one.please understand this.i am a christian and i love my faith.God is so good.even to my fiance who is muslim.God bless him to.and he blessed us with the choice with free will

i disagree i think its up to the children as they grow older to make their own decisions.my fiance is egyptian and it took a long time but we agreed if they wanted to convert to my religion.its their free will.you cant control children all their lives.you can only guide them.and pray for the best for them.if they choose to convert its on them.its ok.God still loves us no matter what.he will never disown his children.and i also think that if you want to marry a christian then its just love no matter what your religion is.i know about the honor thing.but we dont want to control our children .and the other muslims can do what they want .but we agreed our children will have free will.i know this may start a fight and i hope and pray it dont.i also know there is alot of people here who may agree with me.i hope i am not alone.i am just lucky to have a man who wants our life good.and fair to our children God bless you all and dont take this to heart and think i am a bad person.well we are not just want to be fair in our culture.i give and take just like him.and we compromise.have a wonderful day

wow this movie looks awesome i really would have loved to see this one.

anyone who has moved from another country esp egypt.did u have to bring transcripts and scores with you translated into english.if you want to study in usa.everyone is telling me to tell my fiance if he wants to study here he will need these things.transcripts and scores.anyone else had this problem also when i ask him to get these he says he has never heard of them.i am so confused here in usa we have this in all colleges.any advice.so does the colleges in egypt have these or not.because he says he has never even heard of them.so lets help him out anyone from egypt had the same issue

been there and done that i know how hard of a job that is.and scary to if you dont know what you are doing so sorry for your loss.and God bless

hi friends i have a question.many people come from other countries with degrees.and when they come to america do any of them go back to what they were doing.i have a fiance in egypt.he is an accountant.has a bachelors degree and been to 4 years worth of college.i wanted to ask any of you if you know how he can stay an accountant when he comes to north carolina usa.or does he have to do more schooling.i am so confused.and we dont know what classes he has to take.we dont know where to start when he comes here.but as alot of people know accountants here in usa make good money.so if he has done that for so many years now.well why not stay what u know and do best and know so much about.he also wants to have a job with computers.so friends i wanted to ask if anyone is an accountant here that was from egypt.and is now one here in usa what do u have to do to make it legal in the usa.i have asked the college where i live and believe it or not they dont even know.so is it possible for him to work here as that or what.please help any advice is helpful.thank you so much.

i agree this is barbaric.it should not happen at all.my fiance lives in egypt and this is a subject i talked alot about with him many many times.it takes everything away from the child.and another thing why should the man just enjoy the marriage and not the wome.if you know what i mean .thats not right at all.and the child has no say.i even watched videos of the women in some tribes have this done.and it changes them all together.they were doing this in a lot older age like 13.what a terrible life to violate a child that way and them thinking its ok.thats so sad its because of how they was brought up.what a shame.

you are able to check your status on line with uscis i left a link for you.on the left hand side it will say status online.

http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis if you have an application recipt number you can punch it in the box you status should come up

everytime i send money it was through something called western union,or money grams,these are pretty safe but i would not send your credit card through the mail.check with your bank.ask them about transferes.and what you have to do but again i used western union.

thank you all for your comments but i am still confused why men get to marry who they want to but the women canot.its so onesided and not so fair.what if she falls inlove with a christian man will she be condemned.u cant help who you fall in love with can you.so why be punished.may God bless you all

hi everyone sorry to post another nonsence post.well me and my fiance are having problems right now in the middle of breaking up.we were talking about having children in the future.and the hard thing for me is i cant handle the thought of if i have a boy he can marry any religion.but if i was to have a girl that she cant marry a non muslim.well please forgive me for saying i have a hard tme to believe why that is.it sounds kinda sexist.i know alot of people must believe the same thing.all i asked of him was to let our children be free.let them choose their own religion.and marry who they love weather christian,muslim,just believers of God.its turning into a battle everytime we talk about that.so today i think we broke up and its so hard for me esp after almost 3 years.why is it muslim men dont allow free will to their children.why cant they choose what they want to be.i would love my children to grow up and do their best and be happy and free.and there is alot of good muslims and christians.but when you tell your daughter you cant marry a christian that kinda sounds like we are bad.mena i am asking for comfort and friends right now since you seen my last post and i am taking it so hard.why does religion have to be so hard.and my mom and him used to be close.now she dont even know what to say to him no more.and neither do i because i dont know how o handle.i also wanted to let my future children learn both religions.thats not so bad is it.thats a wonderful thing.also my mom did hurt his feelings and mine.she said if you bring the children up in a muslim way they will go to hell.and that hurt me,and i know it did him to.she says the only way to heaven is through jesus christ.thats what we was taught.i really didnt think any religion that believed in God would go to hell.esp the muslims how wonderful and good kind hearted people they are.so tell me friends what can i do.do i say good bye or is there another way to have a common ground.please help

thank you all for you comments i am having a hard time sleeping up past my time to be asleep.so worried and nervoous with my fiance dont know what to do with this situation.esp when it comes to us planning to have children and me agreeing for them to be muslim.its going to be so hard for me to see them not agree with their mom on major religion issues.like with jesus,and believeing in 3 wifes and many many things our new issue was me and my mom we are christians some people like my fiance believe that when you go to hell that god can get you out.we believe that once you are in hell you made your choice when you was on earth that thats where you will be.see friends that what i am talking about things like that and us christians believe so strong that jesus is the son of God and it hurts me for some not to believe that.see where i am comming from friends will a relationship and a family with diffrent religions can that work.or will it be to hard.i need to settle down and calm down because one i dont want to loose him.another i really want our children to believe what i do or it will hurt me.and it will confuse and hurt them to learn both religions.but thank you so much for your comments and i will pray hard about this relationship before i go any further and then later down the raod be a divorce any advice how i can save this and how it will be fair to the both of us.its driving me insane.and the sad thing my mom is starting to be nervous for me.and we are the best of freinds we are all eachother has.i will try to sleep now i do need some comforting news.maybe God can show me the right way in how to handle this situation.God bless you all.and thank you.have a wonderful rest of the night.

hi there folks i felt i wanted to post a question to all of you.now remember i am not putting anyone down just wanted to know the truth.because i know sometimes when i post alot of people come back with so mean comments.so take this to heart if you can.i have been engaged to a muslim man for almost 3 years now.i am christian and he is muslim.religion becomes kinda hard to us.because we believe in so many diffrent things.about jesus and everything else.well folks my question to you and please be honest.does a relationship between a muslim and a christian always work out.or does it just cause problems in the end.its kinda hard talking religion to someone when they think so much diffrent then you.and it always causes a fight in the end.i dont want a relationship like that.so friends i can use your support will it get better or harder.sometimes i think it wont work due to diffrent cultures.and it kinda scares me to loose the love of my life.but alot of people say it will be hard for it to work out with diffrent religions.so friends tell me how i can make it work just spend my life not talking religion or what.because i know there is alot of experianced women here who know what i am going through.

anyone here from orlando florida i am trying to make plans to go to disney and sea world but i wanted to go about a time when my fiance gets here around april may so i wanted to know when children get out of school so i dont get the crowd.any help appreciated

i had posted a topic about original papers or copies.but i was talking about for me to send to him for his interview.do i need to send him originals of my birth certificate and original of my divorce papers.or is it ok to just send my copies to him for the interview.i dont c why they need my originals of very important papers that will be lost for his interview.but all i am talking about is my original documents for his interview.not the k-1 process please help

hi guys i have a question for the people who have had success in the k-1 visa process.the question is my fiance lives in egypt.so i wanted to know if the american sends original documents that's not the problem the problem is.i dont feel comfortable sending my original birth certificate overseas if i dont see it again it cost so much for another original.so is it just a copy of my birth certificate.and my divorce papers do i also send the originals of that.why is the copies not good enough.i would send the divorce paper the original but when it comes to my birth certificate is thhe copy not good enough please help

i have a question for some of you people who have traveled from egypt to usa.does anyone have an answer for me.my fiance will be comming here from egypt.and i wanted a good way for him to contact me at the airport when he does arrive.my first question is he has an unlocked nokia phone.can he still use that phone here in usa.and i know he has to probebly get a sim card.or do you guys suggest he just get a card to call me.i really dont know how to make his phone work here in usa.anyone have any suggestions.and maybe the card would be the cheaper way out.but if he did have a cell phone i could call him any time.and i think he may have to get a prepaid card for his phone.i am so confused just want the easiest way out.but the safest way so we can contact eachother.thank you so much

See the big smile after moodys statement..........she was JOKING! like ha ha get a room.........dayum lighten up...

see ya'll in the sandbox at 7pm. cst. There is a special session for group hugs,,,,,,come and get yours.

Jackie

We need a MENA slumber party for tenderheart. What do you think, Jackie?

sorry moody i have to wait a year to get a room

the sweetest thing u ever did.you always suprise me every day.thank u for the post.u r a wonderful man.and the love of my life.we are always so good to eachother.i love you so much more then the world.i really mean this with all my heart and soul.no one has ever treated me as good as you do.and what makes me more happy is that u spend the time to sit down and write 100 things about me wowwwwwwww.that takes time.love you always and forever my heart.

love

( trina)

congratulation faith i'm so happy for ya and inshaallah he will get the visa so soon

i think march is so awesome month for most of people here

have a nice blessed life with your love

Mohamed

kinda scary huh.he is also for abortion.him and hilary both so we will not really win.our selection pf presidents is not so good this time