We have assumed slow denial at this point due to perhaps sending too much evidence and looking too married, so we have started making wedding plans instead to cheer us up and once we get the bad news we can just press play on all the wedding plans we have made and at some point next year we will get married and file for a CR-1. If we have to wait another year we are atleast gonna try and have our dream wedding rather than feeling like this wait was for nothing.
We decided to just get the track my visa now premium so unless we get an email from them with an approval we assume we will be denied. We don’t check anything anymore and I’m visiting him right now and we are having the time of our lives. This is such a cruel process. To think there are people crossing the border on a tourist visa, suddenly getting married and then adjusting status is sickening and is an insult to people like us doing the right thing and getting penalised for it!