dancehallquana

- Call it Bad Timing...

:dance: Just got word from Jawi...is a officially a single woman again... and very thrilled!!! She apologizes for not telling you herself, but her computer is down!

Bless, Gill

YAYYYYYYY!!! OMG I was just wondering how it went for her today.. WooHoo so happy for ya JAWI!!

Well...

Not to put a damper on things but I really wanted/need to get this out...

A and I had a counseling session last night after a no contact separation (we have been living separate since last May but still in contact) for the last 30 days - sort of a last ditch attempt for him to realize the severity of it all. As much heartbreak and pain as this decision has caused me it has been decided that we will be filing for divorce Never in a million years did I think this would happen to me. After attempting to work on our marriage for almost 2 years and to still be in square 1 with little to no progress...well there is only so much one person can do. I feel like I did everything I could to save our marriage and I did it with integrity. So as much as my heart hurts I know that it was a necessary decision at this stage in everything and there is no uncertainty in the decision. I am at peace with it as hard and heartbreaking as it is. I am not going to go into too many details here on the public forum but I wanted you all to know what was happening. I am not sure what is going to happen with the whole removing of conditions...I don't even want to think about that right now. So anyways...thank you for all the love, support and prayers, I know a lot of you were rooting for our marriage to pull through. Please keep the whole situation in your prayers. It is definitely one of the worst times in my life.

I pray that you are comforted through this hard time. I really admire you for taking the steps that you have taken to ensure you were making the right decision. You will get through this trial and the other side is promised to be much better..

ok..how about I haven't been to work since Thursday....I just refuse to go be uncomfortable at a desk..mi radda tan a mi yaad..mi a go call mi doc today fi a note from work...I can't ..eveytime mi TInk mi feel betta here we go again..a mi decide now seh mi nah go tek every pill inna di book...

Hi ladies! Hope all is well on your ends

JAE - I saw this on my yahoo homepage and thought of you.

Best Cars For City Dwellers

Not sure if you live in an urban area but its a nice article still lol

Hey Marie..how u doing....how was/is Jamaica ?

I wish I knew lol. I'm trying to go down during spring break but I might use that time to work on grad school applications. But I'll most likely go summer. Sumfest and ATI cant miss me When's the next time u going? Gotta get that trip in before the little one comes

Hey Marie. Do you know the dates of ATI?

Hi! The exact dates haven't been released but its always before/after/on independence weekend. I'll keep you posted as we get nearer and things get finalized

I was thinking of going for spring break as well, if RG doesn't get to come here anyway.. MAN fares from DFW are outreageous but that is panning out to be the best time for me to get away. What is the ATI? I bet Independence Day in JA is FIYAH, that might be a good alternative for me to try one year since it is the beginning of August before school starts.

Hello everyone, I am quana (dancehallquana)

I been getting alot of good wisdom as well as laughs from VJ over the last couple of months, and just recently decided to join. My prayers are with all of you that have experienced heartache and discouragement this past week and hope that you are all encouraged and strenghened through it all.

I am not yet on a visa journey, but have been enjoying getting to know a special friend that I met in Jamaica Jully 2007. RG will be applying (for the second time around) for his visitor VISA or B2 I think?? I wanted to know if any of your SO had ever applied in the past before filing for their current VISA's. I have heard that it is pretty difficult to get approved. I know that this kind of VISA is not normally discussed here, but if anyone has any insight or experiences they would like to give, I would appreciate it.

Hola Quannie,

WELCOME WELCOME!!! Girl, I have no idea about the visitor visa thing...But like Kimkim said...nothing ventured...nothing gained!!! Don't be a stranger...come back soon!

Hi to the rest of the Fam!! I just got an email from the Embassy....Ken can go pick up the Packet 4 on Thursday!! Suh, mi call mi dyam facety man fuh tell em deh good news...han hit wat em seh!!

"Ow come heverytime yuh a sen 'hemail' his fimi rass haffi guh Town!!! Is when yuh press deh 'send ' key pon yuh keyboard...hit mussi link hup tuh mi batty... cause is really me yuh a send!!" Dyam houtta order!

Mi haffi tell em..."Den mi love, doan boddah fuh guh...han I won't boddah fi come! But jus memba...if I nuh come...yuh nuh.....come!"

Then mi git..."Arighty den suh bright han hearly mi a guh lefhout fi town pon Thursday mawning!"

Bless,

Gill

HA HA

Get him Gil, mi see him straighten up now!! LOL Congrats

Lawny...the Sienna is the only minivan I will ever buy if mi a buy one...mi have a camry..LOVE IT...trunk...HUGE...leg room...Massive....gas ....GREAT.....no complaints at al...love anything Toyota makes .. Next year though by the grace of God and baby # 2 comes..mi plan fi get the Highlander....cyan bodda wid 2 BABY inna one cyar..

Hey Quana...it is very hard for a visitor visa approval w/o strong enough ties to the country..nothing tried nothing done though...don't be discouraged..u maybe the one that gets it...

VJ a go mad..how mi end up wid a double post...

Thanks Kimmy,

Yes you are right.. he is a strong willed man and he will def not give up, he was denied last year and has reapplied w/ his new interview this Friday. I am pulling for him, but I am a little worried he may not be good candidate seeing how u have to show strong ties to JA. RG has worked the past 6 mnths in the Bahamas, he just moved back the last couple of days. He has children in JA so maybe that would be a good thing, but may not hold very much weight. I don't know if he understands that him not having long term residence in JA could be hindering him and therefore he is wasting his money. Nevertheless, I am keeping my fingers crossed for him.

Girl..betta him waste fi him dan fi yuh... mek him try just be prepared whatever comes..good or bad...

Hello everyone, I am quana (dancehallquana)

I been getting alot of good wisdom as well as laughs from VJ over the last couple of months, and just recently decided to join. My prayers are with all of you that have experienced heartache and discouragement this past week and hope that you are all encouraged and strenghened through it all.

I am not yet on a visa journey, but have been enjoying getting to know a special friend that I met in Jamaica Jully 2007. RG will be applying (for the second time around) for his visitor VISA or B2 I think?? I wanted to know if any of your SO had ever applied in the past before filing for their current VISA's. I have heard that it is pretty difficult to get approved. I know that this kind of VISA is not normally discussed here, but if anyone has any insight or experiences they would like to give, I would appreciate it.

My ex got a B2 a few years back.

He had a good job with Soctiabank, I'm sure that helped.

If he has a decent job, presents himself well, pretty sure that would make a difference.

But whatever he does,he should NOT tell them he has a girlfriend in the States.

It is pretty hard but not impossible to get the visitor's visa, but they will go over his application with a fine tooth comb!

good point !!

Tanks JAE, JG, and Tre!!! Good info fi tru!!

Kimmy ya sound like mi gyals here in TX, dey sey "Gyal ya mad?? ya betta let ya man git da VISA, and keep ya flight money in ya di bank fa Sumfest!!! LOL

Lawny...the Sienna is the only minivan I will ever buy if mi a buy one...mi have a camry..LOVE IT...trunk...HUGE...leg room...Massive....gas ....GREAT.....no complaints at al...love anything Toyota makes .. Next year though by the grace of God and baby # 2 comes..mi plan fi get the Highlander....cyan bodda wid 2 BABY inna one cyar..

Hey Quana...it is very hard for a visitor visa approval w/o strong enough ties to the country..nothing tried nothing done though...don't be discouraged..u maybe the one that gets it...

VJ a go mad..how mi end up wid a double post...

Thanks Kimmy,

Yes you are right.. he is a strong willed man and he will def not give up, he was denied last year and has reapplied w/ his new interview this Friday. I am pulling for him, but I am a little worried he may not be good candidate seeing how u have to show strong ties to JA. RG has worked the past 6 mnths in the Bahamas, he just moved back the last couple of days. He has children in JA so maybe that would be a good thing, but may not hold very much weight. I don't know if he understands that him not having long term residence in JA could be hindering him and therefore he is wasting his money. Nevertheless, I am keeping my fingers crossed for him.

Hello everyone, I am quana (dancehallquana)

I been getting alot of good wisdom as well as laughs from VJ over the last couple of months, and just recently decided to join. My prayers are with all of you that have experienced heartache and discouragement this past week and hope that you are all encouraged and strenghened through it all.

I am not yet on a visa journey, but have been enjoying getting to know a special friend that I met in Jamaica Jully 2007. RG will be applying (for the second time around) for his visitor VISA or B2 I think?? I wanted to know if any of your SO had ever applied in the past before filing for their current VISA's. I have heard that it is pretty difficult to get approved. I know that this kind of VISA is not normally discussed here, but if anyone has any insight or experiences they would like to give, I would appreciate it.

Do they have a BALD #######?

Si im down der...

Mi will tek di hairy one ova dat one hennyday!!! Gwaan chat bout di hairy ####### but look at di alternative *kissteet* Mek mi stay wid deh hairy one.

WOW!!!!

dat ####### dere look vexed nuff even pink and feverish!! Him neck nice an lang though, him git all di hard to reach places nuh?? Mi send him di vitamins ta build up him strength dem.

how yuh find we?

Lita u nah read..har and Jawi is friends...right ?

Lita, u affi go tek back "RESIDENT CHATTING QWEEN" tikkle..ahahhahaa..ole a 27 post a no notice..heheee..

mi soon tek off da pic yah...mi cyan bodda right now..

mi naa knoa Jawi, mi sey anodda lurking friend (cmon on out star!!) and I is hooked to Jawi GREAT story. Mi find dis beautiful place ca mi is a research fiend. LOL Wen mi meet mi friend from JA, RG, mi rate him so, mi ago searching pon di internet fa anyting bout Jamaican/American relationships (I know, get a life right heehee).

I have learned so much from others experiences. Your lives are confirmation of what could be and all that is possible with cross country love. All of you know, friends and families are quick to dismiss our feelings as CRAZY, so it feels good to be around those that know better.

Eeeehhhnnnn?? So, yuh search turn hup mi story? Mi baxside! Chat bout! Whaa a sumting eh. Welcome...welcome...yuh read ie frum stawt?

Well first I found VJ, then the Yardie thread (you girls are soo funny), and kept digging when I found "Stella"..Like so many others, I have been like a crack addict ever since. I don't know what I will do when u reach the end..Maybe a Part 2 is in the making ??? LOL

how yuh find we?

Lita u nah read..har and Jawi is friends...right ?

Lita, u affi go tek back "RESIDENT CHATTING QWEEN" tikkle..ahahhahaa..ole a 27 post a no notice..heheee..

mi soon tek off da pic yah...mi cyan bodda right now..

mi naa knoa Jawi, mi sey anodda lurking friend (cmon on out star!!) and I is hooked to Jawi GREAT story. Mi find dis beautiful place ca mi is a research fiend. LOL Wen mi meet mi friend from JA, RG, mi rate him so, mi ago searching pon di internet fa anyting bout Jamaican/American relationships (I know, get a life right heehee).

I have learned so much from others experiences. Your lives are confirmation of what could be and all that is possible with cross country love. All of you know, friends and families are quick to dismiss our feelings as CRAZY, so it feels good to be around those that know better.

wowowowwiiieeeee...everyday oonuh draw in more and more ppl fi come join di madness...WELCOME DANCEHALLQUANA...no mek dem bruk u out....especially..Lita, Yardie and di one Gill...

Tanks Sistern!!

mi a lurk for months now! Jawi ave me and mi friend caught up wid di story and all ya gyals ave me rolling with yah chatting..mi feel like a yardie from mi bawn and ya gyals mus be mi sistern. LOL

Wah haaa! Anutha duppy deh come out frum de lurking. mi get scared when mi see all deh duppy deh.

Welcome Dance...lets see ah wha name Gill ah give yuh.

Oh mi gyal, mi naa mean to scare ya none. Mi naa feel right joining in wen me naa ave farrin fiance or spouse, but mi cyan hold miself bek no langa!! Mi tek off mi duppy sheets fi tru. Tanks for di pure welcome everyone!

Ehhhnn?? mi vex miself if me clip di hairs dem and find mi naa ave di fat ####### but di likkle skinny ####### instead..

LOL.. I have been lurking as u can see, will give proper introductions when I get off from work, but I had to jump in here LOL

:lol:

Welcome! Glad to have you join us

Well yuh si...dat is why yuh muss feel up di ####### heveryday tuh mek sure im stay fat. If it is pure feathers dan dat no right...yuh muss watch fi dem tings...pure trickery Truss mi dat ####### dere is the best of di bunch...feathers or no feathers

AHHHH!! mi see ow it wuk now, di feathers of di cocky dem neva fool me gen!!!

wowowowwiiieeeee...everyday oonuh draw in more and more ppl fi come join di madness...WELCOME DANCEHALLQUANA...no mek dem bruk u out....especially..Lita, Yardie and di one Gill...

Tanks Sistern!!

mi a lurk for months now! Jawi ave me and mi friend caught up wid di story and all ya gyals ave me rolling with yah chatting..mi feel like a yardie from mi bawn and ya gyals mus be mi sistern. LOL

Yardie is gonna be so mad she miss hout pon dis!!

Fi real!

But mi bring mi own cocky tuh di party

Im the blackest and fattest of the bunch...alla unnoh muss jealous bad

Lawd! Dis wan hairy(feathery) #######. mi nah kno bout dis ere! Him need a good trimming!

Lita, suh wah yuh ah seh deh poor ####### hair a grow WILD!!! eh? ...Better git yuh clippers!!

If deh only ting wrong wid di ####### is a likkle extra feathers I still want im! Nuttin some clippers cyan fix. Better tuh have dat problem den deh problems dat yuh cyan fix wid clippers

Ehhhnn?? mi vex miself if me clip di hairs dem and find mi naa ave di fat ####### but di likkle skinny ####### instead..

LOL.. I have been lurking as u can see, will give proper introductions when I get off from work, but I had to jump in here LOL