Just let it go... stop trying to justify your actions, you had enough reasons for leaving your fiance in the first place,what I'm not understanding here ( it has nothing to do with respect we all get that part) how in the world you got marry with another person in such a short period of time? You already got some really good replies regarding the inmigration issue... what else do you want? if you're looking for support I hardly believe you'll find it here. Face the fact that we all have to pay the concecuences of the bad choices we made in life, now it's your turn to take responsabilities for your own actions.
Abby