Small update I am now in contact with the WI governors office to help and assist they too are baffled that it got returned with only a notice of mailing address I have looked over that document a 1000 times and everything is filled out as per USCIS instructions and multiple videos and websites so idk I've also taken in an immigration lawyer to me it's not about the money I'll make more lol but I just want to be by my wife and son I'm from Belgium so if I have to return then so be it but I've built a life here now with friends and have a close relationship with here family my parents and brother can visit whenever they want without a problem we found our dream house and plan so much more I thank you all for the advice and will keep updating with every step god bless you and and I wish you all the same luck and future too as you deserve
Tom