B&DT

Oh yeah.... so sick. Well no USA for me unfortunately. But its been a rough ride..traumatized finding out everything was all lies. Now divorce, the a**hole wont file for divorce ..letting me pay for that too

Since May my husbands behavior changed alot. Suddenly silent treatment while i was there and finding out about other women. We have spousal visa pending. I have visiting every 3 months staying for 3 weeks. I left after 5 days with my personal stuff. I was completely in shock and had a very bad feeling. We been together 2 years and married 10 months. I have temporary living in my country getting ready for GC. Only a bed and personal belongings. I have read through chat logs etc. And there is no doubt that he has been grooming me, gaslighting, silent treatment, lies..lies lies. I have paid for furniture, helped out with rent, gerting his car fixed etc. So he could get a job, keep it etc. When waiting time on i130 now said weeks.. this behavior to me in direct person. Cleary all other visits has been love bombing to keep in loop. I cant find a new place to live that i can afford in my country. Im pretty sure this whole marriage and relationship is fraud on his part for financial benefit. I am so lost and dont know what to do. My future was in US and now nothing and the place im staying told me i will have to move out in September. Can i do Vawa? Hours and hours leave little doubt about the mental and psychological abuse he put me through. Please ..i really didn't see it. I know i should have but i didn't.