It looks like ESTA will be impossible. The next step is to try to be approved for the B-2 then.
She doesn't have a job because she recently left her job. She doesn't own property because she lives in an apartment with her mother.
Is the fact that we've got through so many hurdles and spent so much money to do everything legally evidence that will help her case?
She flew here originally for $2000 so we could meet in person to meet the requirements before I could sponsor her. Then we traveled to the UK twice to follow their marriage laws. We had to live in the same county for 7 days to establish residency, then give notice to the government for the marriage. Then we each went back to our home countries, waited to be approved by the UK Home office, then returned to the UK for a week, got married and each went home again.
Going through all this and spending so much money to follow all the rules would be wasted if she tried to commit fraud on a B2. So it would be silly for her not to return to Japan. She also needs to return to Japan for her appointment for the CR1.
Our end goal is for her to be here legally, so why would we want to commit fraud on a B2?
She has also traveled to other countries including the US and returned (US, UK, China, Hong Kong).
That all seems like evidence they should consider