I'm in the same boat buddy.
It's frustrating and depressing.
Your case is probably at California processing center. The estimated time of 80% of the cases are completed and sent to the consulate office in her home country within 13.5 months.
If it wasn't for my obligations here in the U.S. I would certainly have moved to Thailand by now.
Last time I saw my fiancee was in May 2022.
If you have made it this far you are going to make it to the end.
Be strong, don't worry about the beurocratic bullshit and just wait it out.
It's complete bulshit the loops and hoops and the men in ties etc... but love WILL prevail.
You will be with your true love as I.
I filed I134 on October 26 2021.
Our wait is mutual, I understand your frustration, it is mine as well my friend.