Hello, SusieQQQ, Family, and arken,
I really so appreciate you guys taking the time to share your advice. I know it’s hard to respond effectively when my post is not forthcoming with specifics. My friend prefers that, as much as possible, I not share his info on the internet. He has good reason to believe that his wife can and might be traced. So, I refrain from stating the country name. I am honoring his request.
I will say this bc you guys deserve some explanation….
1… He had a pro bono attorney here, supposedly working on his Asylum app. This attorney did not offer help in getting his wife out or with filing for Humanitarian Parole. Unfortunately, the attorney recently left the nonprofit org that she was with. Turns out neither the attorney nor her assistant had done much work on his case. So he lost about 4 months. I do know that the attorney and the org (a very well-known reputable nonprofit org whose focus is on helping resettled refugees) were inundated with clients, many seeking help with HP apps to rescue immediate family members and extended relatives. In fact, earlier this year, the org stop accepting new HP cases. So, until we find another attorney (pro bono or one that is affordable), I have implored him to work on his statements, to answer the various questions on the asylum app. Fortunately, I have a friend who is an immigration attorney who has agreed to review the application as he/we develop it. (My attorney-friend is super busy now and so is unable to take on his case at this time.)
2… Circumstances were so dire that he was granted Humanitarian Parole AFTER being airlifted to a “lily pad” location before entering the US. His wife and child likely would’ve received HP but the tragic situation separated and stranded them into the chaos of others scrambling to evacuate. So, no, she has not filed for HP.
3… Filing for HP could take several years to process. The backlog is a hope-killer. Since early this year, there have been numerous news articles about ppl with stellar credentials and very strong proof of threats to life, who have filed for HP, but waited, waited, waited, and then were ultimately rejected. Heartbreaking. Of all the ppl applying for HP, the number of ppl who actually become a Humanitarian Parolee is extremely low %. (Now, add Ukrainians to the pool of waiting HP applicants.) Also, the $575 filing fee for each applicant is steep (in this case, it might have been 2 ppl, but now, it might be 3 ppl if the newborn needs a separate HP application, or maybe the kids can travel under mother’s HP). $1725 is a lot of money to raise (though I’m sure my church would help fundraise). I think husband may have better luck with being granted asylum….. then as a Legal Perm Resident, he can apply for Family Reunification. That’s my thinking for now. All that said, we are not ruling out applying for HP for his wife and children. It’s just not high on our list right now.
4… Then his wife won the DV lottery. What luck! So we are focusing our attention on submitting the DS-260 as soon as possible. That might be the faster route out. We want to get everything right; mistakes will delay or reject her submission. That is the reason I signed up with VisaJourney. Emailing questions to the Kentucky Consular Center is a painfully slow wait and when they do respond, it’s general, bureaucratic, generic, and doesn’t really answer my questions specifically. Your responses to my post have been more helpful! My local congressperson’s office has helped with federal agencies, including KCC, but even the response is still very general.
5… In the meantime, my friend is working his tail off. Housing, as you know, is insanely high, especially for someone working slightly above minimum wage. I am helping him navigate our local health insurance (medicaid) system, helping him find a doctor that is compatible with his cultural needs and language, etc. He is depressed, frustrated, and feeling guilty that he left his wife and children. No doubt suffering PTSD.
6… It’s a good thing he and his wife speak and write English decently. Otherwise, I would not be able to help.
So, thank you all for commenting on my post. Your comments advance my understanding.