Grummy

I've been here nearly 7 years and my accent is still enjoyed/mocked. I've just got back from a visit to my family and this time have found it harder to settle back into 'normal' life. I still sound different, will always think differently and also don't think that I'll ever quite fit in - but am OK with it now. Those that count have got used to my gross lack of Southern lady graces and those that can't get used to my straight forward personality don't stick around and we are all happy
It doesn't improve matters that I am an energy worker in the bible belt, so it's a challenge. Just console yourself with the fact that you are bringing new ideas, a different outlook and a fresh approach to some staid old fuddy duddy 'always done this way' environment. It's prolly time for a shake-up and you;re it!
I hope that you soon make some friends and reach that place where you are comfortable in your own space.

Going by what OP has said so far, it sounds like she'll be more in tune with NYC
You can walk around the streets of Manhattan and you'll see the true melting pot.
Plethora of cultures,ethnicity, and religious beliefs and no one will give you a hard glance or judge you for who you are.
Alas, the city life is certainly not for everyone but theres something special for everyone here. Come on over and visit!