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  1. thanks for helping me guys, I told my story here quickly but I'll try to explain it better for you. my husband was a sweetie until some time ago, he has never had friends before in his life, and he started a new job where he met several ( straight )guys who drank every day, and my husband got excited about those friendships and left the relationship in the background. he would never answer my calls. I know it's going to sound like I was jealous of friendships, but that's not it. he slept nights away from home. leave home for work at 4 am (he was the co-workers' driver) and get home 9-10 pm, drunk. every day. drunk, drunk, no calls, not text message. he would spend $ 700 ( im not joking, paying for drinks for his co-workers ) in 1 night, and then on the next day would ask me $300 to go out again. On Saturday and Sundays would just disappear with co-workers and leave me alone at home and would show up only in the next morning. I had Covid, I was really sick, and he did NOTHING. he did not even come home to help me. I think he was in love with one of his ( straight ) co-workers. I saw a message he sent him when he was drunk my life became hell. Over time he lost his car and started to depend on my car for work. but the damage was already done. he became angry with me for being complaining about his friendships. the case of my husband is really psychiatric, he is sweet with other people, he does everything for them, but for me he does nothing. Why did I stay with him? Look, I still love him, despite everything, and even though I knew I was the only one fighting for the relationship, I felt like things could get back to normal. After the interview, he is not taking seriously that I was denied, and said that if it's best for me to leave, I'd better leave. I'm really devastated (much more coz of my relationship) I know the wisest thing would be for me to leave the house and send him into space, but if it was easy I would have done it years ago. I don't know why they scheduled an interview for the ROC as the paperwork was very well prepared by me. Well, I honestly still don't know what to do. I hired a paralegal to help me with the paperwork, although I could do it myself but I preferred to have some help. if my case is denied again, can i still re-apply multiple times until an immigration judge deports me? worst case scenario I would like to at least go to college here before have to go overseas thank you guys
  2. Hello guys so I went to a lawyer yesterday ( $ 250 for a 30 min talk ) but a friend told me he is a good one, So he said pretty much what you guys already said, she said the "easiest" way would be to file for a divorce waiver, he said even some of my situations can be viewed as abuse he doesnt reccomend me file using the abuse waiver.... Im gonna get a divorce coz there is no point in continue this "relationship". my husband could not care less about what is happening to me. I even tried to talk to him about it, and nothing. So Im gonna file for divorce, Im going to the court house today to get the paperwork that needs to be filed. If my husband refuse to sign the papers and delay and do it, then I dont know what to do....its Florida so I read the there is a simplified divorce type that it applies to our situattion
  3. thank you! I have a 24 months letter, thats gonna expire in June 15 th. So I guess I can schedule an infopass on june 15th or before that? how long does it take to get the infopass? is it easy?
  4. thanks for the answers guys, it's great to know I have options I think this moment in my life is for me to wake up to how much this relationship can harm me. what I've been trying to lie to myself So it looks like Im applying for the new i-751 everything is "ok".. I will receive a new receipt, and after 24 months of the first GC expiration date, I book an infopass to travel and work. A divorce for me, believe it or not, is going to be very painful and I don't know how I'm going to do it. leaving home is not an option at least for the next few months. I'm going to look for a lawyer today to try to help me with a strategy, but I'll probably fill out the paperwork and send it myself, because I don't have that much money It's a very bad situation, but I'm trying to see it as a wake-up call for me to get out of this pointless relationship. thank you again!!!
  5. thank you, but if I travel CPB is going to see that my case was denied right? Im still gonna be able to come inside the country ?
  6. Thanks for the answers. I don't think my case is a case of abuse my husband was very good to me for the first 3 years together and the first 2 years of our marriage. turns out he just got sick of me, made new friends and wanted to go out drinking, having fun as a single guy. and I did not like that. he doesn't help me with anything, the only thing that makes this marriage exist yet are the feelings I have for him. I don't think he has feelings for me anymore or for anybody else. in my humble opinion he has some kind of mental health problem, something that could be a kind of autism or just sociopathy (seriously). But I put myself in this situation, when I saw the red flags I could have just walked out of this marriage, but I chose to stay coz I was afraid of suffer and of being alone. those were very difficult years. Regarding the interview, until the last moment I hoped that he would go, so I was so desperate, I just told the truth during the interview and didn't think of any strategy. Well, apparently then I'll have to apply for divorce if I want to try again. My questions are: 1- If I apply for second i-751 it automatically cancel the "other"? Or am I still can end up in front of the deportation judge? Can I get deported while I wait for the second i-751? 2- If I apply again for the i-751 will I be able to travel or will I be stuck in the country until they judge my case? this is important to me too because its been 3 years that I dont see my family I still dont know what to do and guys, Im a guy. Its a gay marriage, dont know if that changes anything
  7. I'm still shocked and after spending a few days killing myself in my thoughts, I decided to ask for help. I also wanted to ask people not to judge my relationship because I already have too many people telling me I told you so I've been married to a US citizen since 2017 and got my green card in 2018. The guy has been an (removed) to me for a long time now and I've put up with it all in silence. He had already committed all kinds of nonsense to me but I stayed there, fighting for something that didn't exist. 01 month ago we received the letter with the date of the interview for the second green card, 1 week before the interview, in an angry attack he told me that he would not go to the interview. I was scared, but honestly I didn't think he really wasn't going. as much as he seems to hate me, I pay half of everything in this house and he doesn't have the money to pay for everything. Well, he just didn't go to the interview (he stayed home sleeping) and obviously, my case was denied I know it's ridiculous for me to post this, but we're still married on paper and living together. After the interview I returned home, he was still sleeping and didn't ask me anything about the interview . Well, I don't even have much to say about this relationship, Ive been doing therapy for almost 2 years trying to get out of this....if this can be called a relationship, but well, I really don't know what to do now. I still haven't received any letter, but what about my Job? Do I have to quit my job? my understanding is that I lost my work rights can i reapply? If I reapply am I at risk of being deported at any time? I really don't know what to do. I wanted to do a lot of research beforehand because it's hard to trust lawyers too much, especially when I don't have a lot of money Thanks for your patience
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