thanks for helping me guys, I told my story here quickly but I'll try to explain it better for you.
my husband was a sweetie until some time ago, he has never had friends before in his life, and he started a new job where he met several ( straight )guys who drank every day, and my husband got excited about those friendships and left the relationship in the background. he would never answer my calls.
I know it's going to sound like I was jealous of friendships, but that's not it.
he slept nights away from home. leave home for work at 4 am (he was the co-workers' driver) and get home 9-10 pm, drunk. every day. drunk, drunk, no calls, not text message. he would spend $ 700 ( im not joking, paying for drinks for his co-workers ) in 1 night, and then on the next day would ask me $300 to go out again.
On Saturday and Sundays would just disappear with co-workers and leave me alone at home and would show up only in the next morning.
I had Covid, I was really sick, and he did NOTHING. he did not even come home to help me.
I think he was in love with one of his ( straight ) co-workers. I saw a message he sent him when he was drunk
my life became hell. Over time he lost his car and started to depend on my car for work. but the damage was already done. he became angry with me for being complaining about his friendships.
the case of my husband is really psychiatric, he is sweet with other people, he does everything for them, but for me he does nothing.
Why did I stay with him? Look, I still love him, despite everything, and even though I knew I was the only one fighting for the relationship, I felt like things could get back to normal.
After the interview, he is not taking seriously that I was denied, and said that if it's best for me to leave, I'd better leave.
I'm really devastated (much more coz of my relationship)
I know the wisest thing would be for me to leave the house and send him into space, but if it was easy I would have done it years ago.
I don't know why they scheduled an interview for the ROC as the paperwork was very well prepared by me.
Well, I honestly still don't know what to do.
I hired a paralegal to help me with the paperwork, although I could do it myself but I preferred to have some help.
if my case is denied again, can i still re-apply multiple times until an immigration judge deports me? worst case scenario I would like to at least go to college here before have to go overseas
thank you guys