First off, I am very sorry to hear about your father. I also lost my mother 2 years ago to cancer and it was tough not having my now wife with me during those times.
We recently sent an expedite request to the NVC while waiting to be DQed and we received two emails about 18 hours apart.
One email states that our expedite request is under review, and the second email states that:
"The U.S. Embassy in Manila, Philippines is willing to expedite this case when we have all fees, forms, and documents and your case is documentarily complete. If NVC determines you have paid the necessary fees, submitted the required immigrant visa application, Affidavit of Support, and supporting documents to NVC, you will receive an email that your case is documentarily complete. If you have not already done so, please pay your fees and submit Form DS-260 at https://ceac.state.gov.
Please note that only the U.S. Embassy has the ability to approve or deny expedite requests."
Does this email mean that our expedite request has been granted? We just have to wait to be DQed?