I've told him that , but he won't say anything to upset her because her husband past away 2 years ago and she had to move in with us, she uses that as a weapon against my husband, crying and making herself the victim when he confronts her and tells her to stop her #######. I have ignored it for as long as I can I don't speak to her unless I absolutely have to ,she told me I only married him for a green card and this is how she treats me in MY own house.