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I visited my Fiancé (now husband) a few times on the esta, no issues what so ever! And my sister has been visiting her boyfriend many times over the course of the past 4 years.. She always does the max of 90 days (not recommended) and she did have to go to secondary twice, but not actually because of visiting her boyfriend, they thought she came to work illegally as a seasonal worker since she always comes around the same time of the year for 90 days. Both times they took her phone but obviously couldnt find anything and she was good to go. I think with you only visiting a short period of time and having a stable job back home it should not be an issue! (as everyone above said, at the officers discretion obviously) Good luck

I came on the K1 visa, we had planned our big wedding for a little later, but to make sure we fulfilled the 90 day rule we first got legally married. Why don't you do that? we did everything in half a day! No appointments, nothing! We went to the county clerk to get our marriage license that we had to apply online before we went (just a quick online form) and that took 30 min max incl the waiting in line, then we went to a UPS store that has a notary (make sure to call before if a notary is in, we had to wait an hour for him to start his shift), just bring marriage license and ID's, they will just sign your paper, then we just went straight back to the county clerk with the signed certificate, they registered us and gave us the official marriage certificate right away, filed AOS a few days after. That was in Tennessee so not sure if all of this works the same for you and I know the UPS store is not very romantic, but you can always have an official ceremony and reception after.

you will get 4 letters (or maybe 3, can't remember) in the mail (if you applied for i-131, i-485 & i-765) and in one of those letters you will get the access code and instructions

My Husband has bank of america and was able to add me without ssn! Just for the credit card I needed a ssn so he added me later to that!