We really know each other. Even if we never met in person. I don't need to meet her to know she is the woman i want to spend the rest of my life with. We are gonna get married. Tbh, we don't care if i get or no the Green Card. If i don't, she just gonna move over here, in Italy.
We are gonna be together no matter what. We are not going to slow down. Our relationship is true and strong. And this is exactly what both of us want. Be together. Does not matter where. If USA gonna deny me a Green Card does not mean i'm not gonna be with her aniways.We will live in Italy and have an happy life.
Hello,
nice to meet you all. I'm 28 from Italy, my fiancee is 40, US Citizen.
We fall in love 3 years ago and been together ever since.
We are now making arrangements for our Wedding in Italy. Going trough getting all the necessary Apostilles on her Papers. We will Marry in January next year.
I know that after the Marriage we will be able to submit a CR-1 Application, but there are things that concern me regarding the procedure .
I feel i need to clarify our relation first.
We met Online, trough a Videogame we both played, we have been close friends for 5 months before mutual intrest started showing up.When i met her she was married. We had an Affair for a year before she decided to leave her husband.
At that time, i was Single.
We been trying our hardest to be together.
We never met in person, still. I tried last year to go visti her in December but i was denied entrance in the United States. I was on an ESTA and i admit, i was planning to overstay my welcome , 'cause i really want to be with her. The Officers came to this conclusion after finding evidence of me looking for a job on my laptop, so, this time she is gonna come over and live at my house for a couple months. We decided to get marry in the time she gonna spend here.
Both of us have jobs and a career in our respective Country.
She does not have ties with her family, didn't talk to her Parents or Brothers for years, but i have strong ties with mine. My family welcomes her with open hands, all of them met her trough Videochat or talked to her trough phone calls and give approval to our Marriage.
I love her more then anything else in the world and i would do anything to be with her, does not matter if it's gonna be in the USA or in Italy, all i want is to be with her and spend my life with her. There is a age difference, but i'm not the kind of man that's fit to be a father. I don't like kids, don't want kids and she's agree with me. She is not able to have kids, anymore. From her previous relationship she got 2 daughters, one 20 years old and the other one is 18 years old. They didn't grow up with my fiancee, as they where given to Foster Parents.
Her ex-husband was the abusive type and quite the garbage of a man.
The dude lived for 20 years off her shoulders without working. He did drink, he never been violent but had a big issue with gambling and spent most of their money that way
Ever since we met, i've been supporting her. I've sent her money to get a new house, a new car and helped her get back on her feet. I send her 400$ each month for the rent of the house she lives in ( that we hope is gonna be our house soon) to help her sustain the expenses and she did the same with me in the past. She helped me when i lost my job in 2018 and during last year pandemic, when in Italy i couldn't work due to lockdown. To put it simple: ours is a genuine relationship made of love. I really want her to be the one i spend the rest of my life with, and nobody else.
Despite this i'm concerned about Red Flags that might surround our application for the CR-1 after the Marriage.
Mostly our age gap, me getting denied entry in the USA, she leaving her Husband for me and us sending money to each other regularly in the last 3 years.
Even though we have Videochat, chat logs, text message and phone calls proving that we have been in contact/relation for over 3 years i'm afraid our Marriage might be seen as a GreenCard Marriage.
we don't care where we are gonna live and who is gonna move to be together.
If i can't go to her, she will come to me. We really just want to spend our life together.
Now, if the people in here are willing to give suggestions, what we can do to better prove our love and relationship, what would be the best course of action?
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