I have got a huge feeling of anxiety and worry about my Vawa case. After over 2 years of waiting, I received an RFE stating that I need to supply more evidence of Extreme Cruelty for my case. USCIS claim that since none of the 3rd party affidavits claim to be witness to any abuse, that they hold little to no weight.
I was never a victim of physical abuse, and all the abuse I suffered was psychological. Abandonment, apathy, and constant substance abuse by my ex wife. I attended therapy sessions for months after the breakdown of my marriage. This happened behind closed doors, in which I had to battle these demons internally; alone in my own head, thinking how the woman i love could treat my like this. I have no policr reports, no pictures of psychical injuries. I wrote, in as much detail as I could, about the incidents that have occurred during my marriage. I still suffer to this day with intimacy and self image issues, thinking that I will never be able to overcome these. I have regular thoughts of just giving up on life, thinking that none of this is even worth the continued pain, anxiety and stress that I go through everyday. I am a young, healthy man in the prime of my life. I am just feeling so lost and overwhelmed with this RFE I just received. Just as I thought I was getting my life somewhat back on track, I get a gut shot like this.
I really do not know what I am supposed to do. I just feel so overwhelmed and lost by all of this.