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Honest to God, we didn't think there was anything wrong with this. But there clearly is, so we'll make alternate arrangements. This will be my last reply. Feel free to shut down the thread.

Again, we weren't perceiving it as fraud. And the motivation for this whole thing is because my wife can't bear the thought of hurting me, and if she breaks up with my while I'm still in love with her, she will devastate me.

Does the post below refer to a completely different situation, then? Remarry under conditional green card - Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion - VisaJourney

We weren't perceiving it as a deception, but we after your feedback, we will certainly reconsider.

I'm not lying, and you're not offering constructive criticism. Like I already explained, we, knowing all the unique details of the situation, don't perceive this as fraud. However, if under the eyes of the law it is fraud, then we will certainly reconsider.

I certainly don't want to get her in trouble, and after this feedback from you all, we will certainly reconsider this plan.

If you're implying that this is all a scheme to live in the US, know that my original country has a greater standard of living. Two words: socialized medicine. If I had to pick a country to move to just for the sake of quality of living, the US wouldn't be it.

She doesn't have difficulty with new surroundings or around strangers. Asperger's is different for everyone. The issue here is, despite my best efforts to accommodate her, I keep unintentionally triggering her and it's driving her insane. I still love her and she still loves me, but at the same time, I'm driving her literally insane. Her mental condition has been on a steady decline since we started living together. She just can't handle living with someone else. Thank you for your advice.

I wouldn't call it a new love, yet. More like a potential new wife. A girl who has a crush on me and might be interested in hoking up with me. And yes, she's a USC.

I see

Look, you're assuming an awful lot of things. You don't know any of us. Okay. Thank you.

My current wife has to agree to sponsor me for 10 years at the AOS? We didn't know that Are you completely sure? I read somewhere else that the law was changed in recent years allowing the restrictions to be lifted through a second marriage.

She is, yes. Because if my wife breaks up with me while I'm still in love with her, which I am, it will be devastating for me. She's extremely nice and doesn't want to hurt me, no matter what, so she's thought up of this whole thing. I wouldn't go as far as calling it fraudulent... But I understand how USCIS will see it that way.

My wife has been having difficulty for the last 9 months or so. She has Asperger's syndrome, and is having a lot of difficulty adapting to living in close proximity with someone else. I haven't fallen in love with her friend yet, but we do have a lot in common. This is more like a long term roadmap. A lot can happen along the way. Her friend might even decide that she doesn't like me after all. We've been to marriage counseling and had several interventions with her parents, both of which have experience with this sort of thing. Married living is just being too overwhelming for her. I see. Thank you. We've filed almost a year before.

It's admittedly very unusual. I wasn't expecting to run into something like this. Yes, we're still married. This was actually my wife's idea... I want to get to know her friend a lot better before deciding anything. This is a long term plan, susceptible to changes depending on how things unfold. I do like her a lot. Traveling back is definitely an option, but it took ages to get the k1 approved the first time, including a trip to another country to get the interview done, so if we could avoid going through that again, it would be fantastic. Also, I'm not entirely sure that my wife's friend would meet the minimum income guidelines for a k1. We're all around 30.