Eternal Love

My man will earn lots more of my respect when he attempts anything, including delivering pizzas, so he won't have a big gap in his resume rather than finding excuses why he can't find jobs.
Even when he applies for another professional job later on, he still can proudly tell the interviewer "I'd rather do something to bring the extra cash to help my family with gas money, as long as the work is honest and hard work. That's what America is about."

, so many many things have said! I said I need suggestions and thank you for those who who support my cause and really have the right ideas about going through this process. So, since this a Filipino thread allow me to explain my side in the language: Una, napagtanto ko na yung iba dito ay talagang di nagbasa o walang alam sa senaryo ng pagkuha ng katulong o yaya sa Pilipinas...sadyang matalas ang pananalita na wari mo yung nagtatanong eh wala talagang kaalam-alam. Gaya ng nabanggit ko, marami akong nabasa at ako'y naguluhan kung ano ang pinakamabuti at pinakatamang gawin. Humihingi ako ng payo hindi pagkutya. Muli, Maraming Salamat sa mga nakaintndi sa aking pakay.
Una, puwedeng kumuha ng yaya sa Pilipinas sa pamamagitan ng H1B or yung mga binanggit ng iba dito na au pair. At talagang kailang namin ng yaya para para kaming makapaghanap-buhay.
Pangalawa, kaya kami kukuha ng yaya para sa baby namin ay dahil MAY PAMBAYAD kami.... common sense naman...kukuha ka ba ng katulong na walang pambayad? unless human trafficker ka.....
Pangatlo, yung yaya na kukunin namin ay yaya pa ng aking asawa at dalawa niyang kapatid sapul pa noong 1980's- naging pamilya na siya at hanggang ngayon ay skiya ang tumatao sa bahay-bakasyunan ng aking biyenan.
Pang-apat, nami-miss siya ng tatlong magkakapatid kaya gusto rin nila siyang makapunta na dito.
Talos ko po at aral ko po na ang Labor Dept ng Amerika ay hindi basta-basta nagpapahintulot ng pagkuha ng trabahador sa ibang bansa kung yaman din lang na marami ang kwalipikado dito. Kung kailangan mo talagang kumuha ay kailangan mong magpaliwanag sa Labor.
, sa madaling sabi kaya ako naglagay ng topic na ganito ay para makakuha ng iba pang ideya, ng mga karanasan para sa prosesong ito. And lastly, I posted this to Philippine thread not to be bashed or to be mistreated by a fellow-Filipino........ If you don't want my topic please save spaces for those who want to share. Thank you,

The OP just asking for suggestion given what's on his hand to have this thing possible. I know exactly how his kids feel as I grew up with a nanny too. And as a parent-to-be, the peace of mind to leave your kids with person you already know.
Yes, it's not impossible as it is not forbidden in rules but how the rules set-up makes it impossible as you need to prove eligibility.

I think it's possible to do this. You can do some research on sites like greataupair.com and care.com. What you want is to bring an "au pair" or "nanny" to the U.S. from PI. This is possible. Research on those sites how to do it. It's a work visa of some sort. I meet people all the time in my neighborhood who have au pairs from other countries, usually south/central america and the caribbean but I've heard of au pairs from Phils as well. You can click on "partners" on the greataupair.com site to find a list of other companies to work with to get an au pair brought to the U.S. One example is this company. http://www.aupairinamerica.com/
Anyway, good luck and if all else fails google it.

It was tough getting job here in Florida! I had high hopes before that I would easily land in a job since I had my master's degree back in the Phil. I arrived here when teachers are being laid off very now and then..that was what I want to do-teaching. My wife kept telling me to be patient. But being a workaholic like me just doesn't want to stay home ...... i got bored...she enrolled me to take CNA and I finished and eventually got licensed..still no adult care facility accepted me.. I am beginning to feel embarrassed, a little bit humiliated every time my wife put some amount on my checking account or going out on a date with her paying the bills. One day, I found myself working as a lot associate in one of the Home Depot store here in Central Florida. I didn't mind if it was just a minimum pay, I just want to help my wife to pay some of the bills we have since she's still paying her student loans. Then a year later, I became a cashier. It was a great a company to work with coz I gained respect which I didn't have when I was in my own country. For now, I am taking one day at a time and I will successfully be in the right job that I want.