angel2004

That is so sad. Do you know others in his country that might help him deal with the stress? I hope you can work it out

thanks i hope that we can work through this i talking to chaingang wife tonight he is from pakistan as well other then hes family that is all i know

Woah! I am shocked he would let you go when you're prego.

Now I am wondering what is section 221g?

it is where you don't have enough proof to prove ur case or marriage in boni fied

I can't believe he is just thinking about his own pain right now and not of you and the baby that need all of his support.

Very sad. If you are expecting it does not seem the right time to move there, especially if he does not care to talk to you.

I hope you have a support system with family and friends. You don't need ths selfish behavior from him now.

I would give him some time to come to his senses and if not ...........let him go ! You deserve better.

he has my family support and i don't he could care less i think

Sorry to hear your news about your husband.

Do I understand this right? Your family is supporting his decision to divorce you while you are carrying his baby?

Or am I misunderstanding what you are saying.

yes ur right my family supports him in any and everything no matter what it is

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

dear angel , if u remember i am also in same place i am waiting for my visa for 4 years now , i am also denied undersection 221g and we were waiting for noir , and i told u what to do , but ur husband seems to be selfish letting u go when u need him badly , he is not in trouble, u are also in trouble thats being unfair, he should stop being a***h**le to you , i and my wife is handling that from 4 years now i will suggest you to hire a lawyer and dont do any experiments on you any more , if u start calling senators it is useless i tried all those result is nothing hire a lawyer and start working u will get the results trust me on that

you can check my story after my denail and waiting for NOIR , i hope it will help you and motivate you and tell to ur husband stop acting like an a**h**le and try to work as team now

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=89652 check it out

my prayers are with you , and i hope ur husband will relaize he is doing wrong

i just tried to call my husband and he is not answering me ur wife works at a hospital where and in which state i would love to go and talk to her about this in person my so called husband is doing me wrong and my family is on hes side and not mine so what is ur idea on this let me know please assp

keep the baby and hang in there...this bb is your gift.......he will change his mind when your child is here

i'm due in October that more then likely that wont change hes mind

I can't believe he is just thinking about his own pain right now and not of you and the baby that need all of his support.

Very sad. If you are expecting it does not seem the right time to move there, especially if he does not care to talk to you.

I hope you have a support system with family and friends. You don't need ths selfish behavior from him now.

I would give him some time to come to his senses and if not ...........let him go ! You deserve better.

he has my family support and i don't he could care less i think

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

dear angel , if u remember i am also in same place i am waiting for my visa for 4 years now , i am also denied undersection 221g and we were waiting for noir , and i told u what to do , but ur husband seems to be selfish letting u go when u need him badly , he is not in trouble, u are also in trouble thats being unfair, he should stop being a***h**le to you , i and my wife is handling that from 4 years now i will suggest you to hire a lawyer and dont do any experiments on you any more , if u start calling senators it is useless i tried all those result is nothing hire a lawyer and start working u will get the results trust me on that

you can check my story after my denail and waiting for NOIR , i hope it will help you and motivate you and tell to ur husband stop acting like an a**h**le and try to work as team now

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=89652 check it out

my prayers are with you , and i hope ur husband will relaize he is doing wrong

i just tried to call my husband and he is not answering me ur wife works at a hospital where and in which state i would love to go and talk to her about this in person my so called husband is doing me wrong and my family is on hes side and not mine so what is ur idea on this let me know please assp

I am sorry for your husbands decision to end the relationship.

I know the wait is very hard, I have not seen my fiance in almost a year and a half.

It takes courage and commitment to see this through to the end.

Sometimes you will get a NOIR letter and sometimes you don't. It takes a very long time if you do get one. If the case is closed out you can start filling again. Ask your senator or congressman for an inquiry. Ask VJ member Chiquita for help in what step to take next.

Maybe it will be possible for you to move to him during the wait, you may have to compromise and show him it is important to you to wait it out.

If , after more discussion, he still wants to end it then my advice is to let him go.

If someone says he wants to leave you.............let him go !

he wont talk to me right now so i don't know where i stand with him i think the other thing i can do is wait or what would u to suggest

i just got back from Pakistan yesterday and my husband has decide to call hes visa off and call it quite between me and him. He can't handle the stress of the visa or the process of how long it is taken he was denied back in may of this year he is wanting this divorce because he thinks that there will never be an end to all this drama. What can i do to make him stay strong until we get the noir and wait for there answer to us if anyone has any suggestions on this matter then please let me know

thanks

angel2004

I am so sorry to hear about your heartache. If he felt like that, why didn't he discuss it with you, while you was still there

Try and talk to him and just be positive with him and hopefully he won't want to get a divorce. I know it is a long process and very emotionally draining on a person and sometimes the relationship, but we have to stay strong. Just talk to him and be positive and tell him to pray to ALMIGHTY ALLAH THAT YOU TWO WILL BE TOGETHER AND SOON insha allaah.

why was he denied and what have you done up to this point with your process??

Hang in there Angel

Aisha

he was denied under 221 (g) i'm going to have hes child very soon i'm due in october they wont give me any information on hes case what would u suggest me to move to pakistan and be with him to talk things over and how can i get information on hes case thanks

angel

i just got back from Pakistan yesterday and my husband has decide to call hes visa off and call it quite between me and him. He can't handle the stress of the visa or the process of how long it is taken he was denied back in may of this year he is wanting this divorce because he thinks that there will never be an end to all this drama. What can i do to make him stay strong until we get the noir and wait for there answer to us if anyone has any suggestions on this matter then please let me know

thanks

angel2004

i have a question we found out that my husbands visa is still in teh embassy and were hireing a lawyer for this. Will a laywer help in this problem? Does anyone know a laywer that is a good immgration laywer firm or attoney? If so thanks for all advice

angel

My husbands case was denied in may but i have a question i'm not sure about i have a family matter i have to deal with and i may have to move out of the state i'm living in to go help with the family problem would that hurt my husband visa and how could i go about changeing the address for the noir? if anyone has any experence with this please let me know

for how much time do u need to go to resolve the family problem ?

moreover , if u are the petitioner i dont think that will harm your husbands case

i would really wish some senior member can tell more about this .

i'm unsure on how long it is going to take with the family problem but if anyone can give me advice on this it would be helpful and thanks in advance

My husbands case was denied in may but i have a question i'm not sure about i have a family matter i have to deal with and i may have to move out of the state i'm living in to go help with the family problem would that hurt my husband visa and how could i go about changeing the address for the noir? if anyone has any experence with this please let me know

there is a lot of information in the waiver/AP section, search for members

Kiya and Chiquitas topics.

ok thanks

i have a question about how long does it take to get the noir my husband was denied in may, me and him both are wanting to know does anyone know what kind of proof we need and ect.

hey everyone i'm new here, my husbands visa was denied at he's interview and there sending the noir can anyone give me an idea on how long it will take for me to get it and what do they need for the noir as far as proof he was denied under 221(g), the second question is what is 221(g) any advise would be very helpful

awe.. sorry to hear that? but is ur hubby was denied at the same time of his interview?..

yes he was he has a refusal letter and i don't know why they denied he's visa he had all proof phone records emails im the only thing is i couldn't be there for he's interview

i am also denied and i did some mistakes and now i am trying to over come my mistakes ?

when u were married ?

any kids ?

how many times u have visited ur husband ?

go and visit ur husband dont wait for noir it will take 5 to 6 months to come to you i am deneied 2 1/2 months ago and still we havent got any noir go and visit ur husband and be with him for atlest 5 to 6 months coz after denial this is the first thing they will ask in ur noir contact good immigration attoreny , i am also working on my NOIR and trying to get all kinds of proof from A to Z family interaction and other stuff like that are important

if u need some more info feel free to pm me

i'm pregant now with he's child i have visted my husband 2 times a year i'm due in october we was married in 2004 we have one child and our 2 child on the way.

hey everyone i'm new here, my husbands visa was denied at he's interview and there sending the noir can anyone give me an idea on how long it will take for me to get it and what do they need for the noir as far as proof he was denied under 221(g), the second question is what is 221(g) any advise would be very helpful

awe.. sorry to hear that? but is ur hubby was denied at the same time of his interview?..

yes he was he has a refusal letter and i don't know why they denied he's visa he had all proof phone records emails im the only thing is i couldn't be there for he's interview

Again which consulate? Your profile lacks details which can help answer your question with some accuracy.

Timeline doesn't help either: http://www.visajourney.com/timeline/profile.php?id=35289

ISLAMABAD, PAK

sorry to hear that i am also being screwed by islamabad pakistan i think ur husband was denied by same woman the one that denied me she dont talk too much all she does is to send case back thats it , the best thing for you is to vist ur husband again after denial , no matter how many visits u have done at least spent like 5 to 6 weeks there and then go back and wait for NOIR i was also married in 2004 and got screwed in march 28 2007 , and now i and my wife are waiting for NOIR , try to get all details u have enough time to get all proof , and on upcoming interivew be with ur husband and dont take any chancess, she denied me by saying " that ur uable to prove that ur relationship with the petetioner is not solely for immigration to united states " and my marrige was internet base i think that can be one reason plus one other thing i havet seen my wife for like 2 1/2 years but i know where i was screwed and u need to find out the actual reasons why he was denied try to contact senator and involve them , i hope u will overcome this problem soon

God bless us all

Amin

what kind of proof would me and my husband need? My husbands interview was may 14 2007 and thank you for your advice

hey everyone i'm new here, my husbands visa was denied at he's interview and there sending the noir can anyone give me an idea on how long it will take for me to get it and what do they need for the noir as far as proof he was denied under 221(g), the second question is what is 221(g) any advise would be very helpful

awe.. sorry to hear that? but is ur hubby was denied at the same time of his interview?..

yes he was he has a refusal letter and i don't know why they denied he's visa he had all proof phone records emails im the only thing is i couldn't be there for he's interview

i am also denied and i did some mistakes and now i am trying to over come my mistakes ?

when u were married ?

any kids ?

how many times u have visited ur husband ?

go and visit ur husband dont wait for noir it will take 5 to 6 months to come to you i am deneied 2 1/2 months ago and still we havent got any noir go and visit ur husband and be with him for atlest 5 to 6 months coz after denial this is the first thing they will ask in ur noir contact good immigration attoreny , i am also working on my NOIR and trying to get all kinds of proof from A to Z family interaction and other stuff like that are important

if u need some more info feel free to pm me

i'm pregant now with he's child i have visted my husband 2 times a year i'm due in october we was married in 2004 we have one child and our 2 child on the way.

hey everyone i'm new here, my husbands visa was denied at he's interview and there sending the noir can anyone give me an idea on how long it will take for me to get it and what do they need for the noir as far as proof he was denied under 221(g), the second question is what is 221(g) any advise would be very helpful

awe.. sorry to hear that? but is ur hubby was denied at the same time of his interview?..

yes he was he has a refusal letter and i don't know why they denied he's visa he had all proof phone records emails im the only thing is i couldn't be there for he's interview

Again which consulate? Your profile lacks details which can help answer your question with some accuracy.

Timeline doesn't help either: http://www.visajourney.com/timeline/profile.php?id=35289

ISLAMABAD, PAK

hey everyone i'm new here, my husbands visa was denied at he's interview and there sending the noir can anyone give me an idea on how long it will take for me to get it and what do they need for the noir as far as proof he was denied under 221(g), the second question is what is 221(g) any advise would be very helpful

awe.. sorry to hear that? but is ur hubby was denied at the same time of his interview?..

yes he was he has a refusal letter and i don't know why they denied he's visa he had all proof phone records emails im the only thing is i couldn't be there for he's interview

hey everyone i'm new here, my husbands visa was denied at he's interview and there sending the noir can anyone give me an idea on how long it will take for me to get it and what do they need for the noir as far as proof he was denied under 221(g), the second question is what is 221(g) any advise would be very helpful