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Ken & Marife

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  1. My daughter just got her medical in st lukes she was immunized on the second day,until they went to the releasing they ask again questions if she was bullied,ask her if she committed suicide and if the doctor ask her to go to room no.8 my daughter said no ...they just told her to do immunization ...now they did not release her papers and wait for their call . I really don't know what's going on! Is anybody here has the same experience like this?

  2. IS ur son on a K1 follow to join? if so u can go ahead and get him if u applied for him as follow to join. If not there is another quickest way to get ur son here. I had two kids that came here in 2010.Have ur USC husband file for an I130 for ur son . the process will take about 6 months.

    Hi..my daughter recieved her packet today...what will we do next?..it has nvc number on it and beneficiary number...how long it takes to wait for her interview ?
  3. she can get it in 2 weeks or in a month, be sure she has an appointment already.

    Does she need to go for Her appointment ? how long it takes to wait after appointment?

  4. Hey Guys!

    my daughter was approved last March 15 2012...until now she dont have passport yet, how many months it takes to get passport in the philippines , and how many months to wait for the embassy to send the medical and interview appointment? I need some help please!

  5. Hey Guys ! any idia how long it takes to get passport in the philippines?my daughter was approved March 15 2012 until now she don't have passport yet and I think in 2 months she will go for her medical and interview.

  6. I brought a girl here who I love very much and love her family on a k-1 Visa. But she seems to always have a negative attitude since she has gotten here. Everything is about her. All I here is me me me I I I. She seems to think the world revolves around her and that everyone else is her to serve her. My family has been very nice and loving and accepting to her, But in return she is very rude and ungrateful to everything. I have helped her family so much and done so much for her and now I am full of sadness and regret. Her family is so nice and very grateful, they advise her all the time to not be jealous and to be nice and try to listen to me and do what I advise her since she is much younger.

    There are many good times but then more and more these times that just pop up with her having a bad attitude and is rude to my family. She says things like no one likes her she misses her family that my family is not her family that I don't love her and care about her. I just don't understand how she could ever say this or think it after all I have done for her and her family and my family has done for her. She just wants to get up eat, play on Facebook games talk to her friends take long naps eat again and sleep. Between going to Disney and all the other fun things we have done for her. She has bad attitude about cleaning or doing anything to help out. She does not want to better her English or study in college. Which was all agreed to before moving to the USA.

    I just don't know what to do. I feel so heart broken. I don't know how I managed to fall in love with the only Filipina who refuses to do anything by herself and does not want to do anything to better her life or to even help be in a partnership in marriage. I just wish she could take her family's advice and things would be so much better. I had to take off time from work to go to manila to bring her home because she could not even do her medical and interview or anything on her own. Everyone has had to do everything for her. When I was in the Philippines I felt she loved me and I was so happy and did not mind doing so many extra things for her and her family. But now it has taken a toll and when she is rude to my family I just feel hurt and regret.

    I am desperate for any advice if there is anything that can be done to fix this, at times she acts very happy and loving and just says everything is a big misunderstanding and I do not understand her. But she either does not understand how much she hurts be or does not care when she acts this way. At this point I am very close to giving up and sending her back to the Philippines.

    I wish you can still hold on to Her...maybe she has problem regarding her PMS watch and observe her closely...it was my husband problems too until now.If I have PMS everything around me is not good including the face of my husband but after that period its back to normal and He told me that He can't find another woman like me except for that cute period that me and I hated. :thumbs: you just need to get use to it.
  7. Does the issue of sending money home (or how much you send) cause tension between you and your spouse? If so, how have you tried to resolve it?

    What rules do you and your spouse follow regarding remittances (e.g. money only comes from Filipino spouse's pay)?

    How do you determine the amount of money you send back to family in Philippines?

    How do you distinguish legitimate needs vs. "nice to have"s?

    How do you handle emergencies (real and imagined) that come up?

    Have you ever cut any family members off financially? If so, why and for how long?

  8. Well guys, I've married both Ilocana and Visayas, I must admit, my current wife is from Visayas and she is most pleasant and loving in every way imaginable. I would not trade in my little lady from Visayas for nothing in this world.

    When I was stationed in Olongapo in the late 80's and early 90's, the Ilocano ladies were just as desperate to land a young American man as any other lady from any other part of the country. They all wanted that American dream.

    Everyone will have their own opinion, but I've seen it and lived in it.

  9. A young lady in the Philippines was married to a filipino man that verbally and physically tortured her. During the time of their wedding, she used her childhood given name for the marriage certificate. Through rumors, she heard that her name was incorrect. Upon requesting and receiving her Birth Certificate 2 years ago, she discovered that her real name is in fact different than listed on her marriage certificate. Are there legal grounds to assume that her marriage is considered null and void due to this technicality, or should I say this huge error?

    I know she needs a lawyer, just wondering if anyone here has had a similar situation and has knowledge of possible outcomes or of the current law in such situations.

    She now lives far from him, her main question is if she needs to apply for annulment to pursue possible Fiance Visa or can she proceed with the name on her Birth Certificate?

    Also note, according to her cenomar, she is single, but that is according to the name on her Birth Certificate.

    I will let the wife look at this one when she comes home. Stay tuned. This one might interest her.

    I hope you don't mind, but I am curious when you said "childhood name". Did you mean nick name or pet name? Can you be specific about this? Thanks.

    Rocky, the wife

    Thanks for all the replies, I did a little research of my own since posting this and according to Philippine law, Article 35, sentence 5. there is possible grounds for "Null and Void from the beginning" due to identity issues. However, it is for the courts to decide. As far as I know, she used her nick name, which at the time she thought to be her real name.

    Ken & Marife

  10. A young lady in the Philippines was married to a filipino man that verbally and physically tortured her. During the time of their wedding, she used her childhood given name for the marriage certificate. Through rumors, she heard that her name was incorrect. Upon requesting and receiving her Birth Certificate 2 years ago, she discovered that her real name is in fact different than listed on her marriage certificate. Are there legal grounds to assume that her marriage is considered null and void due to this technicality, or should I say this huge error?

    I know she needs a lawyer, just wondering if anyone here has had a similar situation and has knowledge of possible outcomes or of the current law in such situations.

    She now lives far from him, her main question is if she needs to apply for annulment to pursue possible Fiance Visa or can she proceed with the name on her Birth Certificate?

    Also note, according to her cenomar, she is single, but that is according to the name on her Birth Certificate.

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