It seems the biggest issue is that we don’t have many comingled finances, such as bank account or joint ownership of anything because I bought my house and car before we were married, we lived in separate countries for the first year we were married, and the whole time he’s been in the US, he’s not been working because…he’s not supposed to?? He’s the beneficiary to every insurance and financial asset I have, he’s on my health insurance, he’s a driver on my car insurance, and we provided all that evidence already as well as photos from the last 15 years we’ve been in a relationship, letters of affidavits from friends, family, and coworkers. We filed taxes as married filing separate because he does not have a SSN or ITIN and isn’t earning any income anyway, I own all our finances right now. I even brought additional letters and things like birthday and holiday cards addressed to both of us and the officer didn’t care to even look at those, he just said they were secondary and waived me off.
It’s been a day. 😔