First let me thank everyone who intended to help on here and not just write down their opinionated junk.
Yes, we did it. I flew to my husband and fought our case. I did it my way, did not believe lawyers (at least not what there solution for our case was) and just did that what made most sense to me. We both wrote them a declaration letter, I went to the embassy, made an appointment, walked in and handed our declaration letter in person. I asked them a few questions and left. They accepted to take it as supporting evidence and confirmed to me that a Senior Consular Officer would read the file I submitted. 40 days later they call us and tell my husband to drop off his passport. Three weeks later we received it via UPS and now we are hope together. Just celebrated our one month in the US together and I can tell you all not to get intimidated by Administration. Administration can get intimidated as well if you do it the right and proper way. Besides, administration law was formed to serve us, right?!
If you need more specific info on how I did it (all on our own), feel free to ask specific questions and I would be happy to share and help where I can.
Praying for all of you who are waiting. It is better to wait than to give up.
Blessings
