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9 minutes ago, EandH0904 said:

Have you checked with the rental company? She would need their permission to change the locks (it is their property after all) and have a good reason why you are off the lease. I would phone first thing Monday and talk to a manager about how this was allowed to legally happen.  If she is claiming abuse I am assuming she has no evidence to prove these claims. 

 

Maybe they will help you get your personal belongings if not get the police to assist you and let the rental company know you will be seeking legal action for illegal eviction. If you did nothing wrong they can not ask you to leave the next day and should not participate on your wife's behalf either

I will do this on Monday, thank you. I did leave some stuff behind (clothes, books, etc)

8 minutes ago, Cryssiekins said:

I didn’t mean for my last post to sound

accusatory in any way.  Sounds like you have some solid evidence of good faith, so that’s a positive for you!!   

 

I would definitely consult with a divorce attorney as soon as you can, to ensure you are protected. 

 

I’m sorry you’re going through this after making a suggestion for counseling. 

No worries. I know this sounds odd, and I can't explain her behaviour. I have had to come to terms with that, but explaining it to USCIS could have complications. This is why I was thinking that I might need to move back in with her for a few months to show that I lived with her longer.

I was gone for one night, informed her where I was staying, and the locks were changed the next morning. If you specifics of it, she told me she was going on a date with someone else that night. I couldn't handle being inside that apartment knowing that, and having no idea what time (if at all) she was coming home.

Yeah, I took all those documents before I left and they are in my possession, which the exception of copies of the joint bank accounts and utilities, but I do have access to them online.

I also requested on numerous times that we attempt counseling, which she flat out refused (and that has been saved in as it was said multiple times, including via texts)

We were together for 4.5 years (1.5 of which was when were engaged) prior to the marriage, and I have a lot of supporting documents (plane tickets, photos of holidays/ wedding) along with the joint bank account, the copy of the joint rental agreement (which I did not consent to be removed from recently), and I have requested close friends to sign affidavits stating that it was a genuine relationship and we often went places together prior to the last couple of months when it nose-dived. I also have a copy of the most recently filed joint tax from last year.

If I'm the one that initiates divorce proceedings, will that impact my case to remove conditions on the green card?

Thanks for the response Aaron. I'm happy I won't have to move back in with her.

Good morning.

I am encountering a situation and seem somewhat confused as to what to do. After a K1 visa approval, I was married in late June of 2018. In December, my adjustment of status was approved, and a conditional green card was issued. 2 weeks ago I began working, but after months of emotional abuse (cheating, threats to call the police, encouragement to kill myself), I couldn't take it anymore and on Tuesday of last week, I packed my things and went to a hotel (where I currently am). The next morning, I was informed by her that she changed the locks, and yesterday, she told me I was removed from the rental agreement.

Now I have no idea at this point if I want to stay in the US long term, as I came here to marry her. In the short term I have no issues finding my own place and rebuilding my savings (I emptied my savings when we got married to wipe out a lot of her debt), but if I do want to stay long-term, what would be my best course of action? I know I will have to file a waiver, but will I have to move back in with her for a while? What are my rights under the affidavit of support?

 

Thank you

Hello everyone,

I'm a long time visitor of these forums, and have found so much useful information here since before I even applied for my K1 visa, but I do apologise in advance if this question has been answered. I am currently in the United States, already married to my petitioning USC, and we just received our appointment date for my adjustment interview. On the letter, it states that it is a requirement that I bring my completed I-693 form. Now I was always under the impression that because I came over on the K1 (which has a mandatory physical), that this was waved. I have all my vaccinations and TB x-ray documented, along with the disk that I was required to bring with me upon entry into the United States, so is this exam still required? I would like to avoid it, because with only one income (I haven't received my EAD, which might sound surprising considering that our interview is within 3 weeks) I would like to avoid any unnecessary fees, but also I don't want to risk my application by not having the required documentation. I have already scheduled an appointment with a certified physician for this week, and my exams in Australia were done in June of 2018.

Any advice would be appreciated and I hope everyone reading has a fantastic day