Jeff1980

Thank you for all of your advice...
 
It's difficult to play devil's advocate right now, but I'll try..
 
She is a very independent woman, so going alone even in an unfamiliar place is not entirely out of character.
 
When I asked her if I could just stay in VN to wait for her while she does things alone with friends, she said her family would scold her and ask why I'm not with her.  That may be an SE Asian thing, or at least Vietnam, so I'm not going to question why they would scold her. I think family is just like that over there, usually.
 
I asked why she was ok with me picking her up earlier (based on a previous conversation), and not now.  She said as the time got closer, she got sadder and sadder.  I'll buy this as a possibility.  Not completely sold on it, but that's my problem.
 
As to the more suspicious things... I would be surprised if there was a special someone that I didn't know about, but it's not out of the realm of possibility.  She was very cautious about publicly liking and replying to facebook posts from me, which she said was because she feared she would get teased, and that she never did that with other boyfriends before me... ok.
 
I'll take a look at everything and go from there.  Thank you for y'alls support.  

Thank you for all of your advice...
 
It's difficult to play devil's advocate right now, but I'll try..
 
She is a very independent woman, so going alone even in an unfamiliar place is not entirely out of character.
 
When I asked her if I could just stay in VN to wait for her while she does things alone with friends, she said her family would scold her and ask why I'm not with her.  That may be an SE Asian thing, or at least Vietnam, so I'm not going to question why they would scold her. I think family is just like that over there, usually.
 
I asked why she was ok with me picking her up earlier (based on a previous conversation), and not now.  She said as the time got closer, she got sadder and sadder.  I'll buy this as a possibility.  Not completely sold on it, but that's my problem.
 
As to the more suspicious things... I would be surprised if there was a special someone that I didn't know about, but it's not out of the realm of possibility.  She was very cautious about publicly liking and replying to facebook posts from me, which she said was because she feared she would get teased, and that she never did that with other boyfriends before me... ok.
 
I'll take a look at everything and go from there.  Thank you for y'alls support.