JuTu

Hi there. Im a Vietnamese myself and to be honest, most Viet families don't want the kids to married other races in general. They would love to see a "real" responsible man where he can makes decisions by himself. And the girl, I think she's kinda in between. She likes your son but in a way, she's probably scare of her family approval. She's only 20, no residency, have to live and work for uncle. Her uncle probably doesn't pay her. I know most Viet do that. They take care of the nieces and nephews, in return the young kids have to work for them for free.  And another thing in Viet culture is that; they dont like prenups. They dont like the guy is keeping the money. The wife is the one who keeps all the money and properties. Thats the number one reason why most Viets dont like their daughters to married an American. I dont think this girl is trying to sham your son for a green card. She doesn't have the freedom to choose what she want to do for her as yet. She needs approvals, she can't really tell her uncle she's in love with your son because that can lead to "kicking her out of the house" and the uncle will call her parents in Vietnam to tell them she's out of control and dishonor to the family. I hope it can work out for your son and her. 

My status " ready to schedule an interview since 3/23/2017 Seattle field office and I still have not get an interview date as of today. So it can take a while.