Islams Wife

7 minutes ago, Roel said:

 

People who want their loved ones to move to the US with them. I guess they are all crazy people.

 

Why they can't move to the foreign countries during the process? Well, maybe because they need JOBS and money to finance the process and prove they can support the immigrant.

Sorry my marrige is a PROCESS

your only object was a ticket for him to USA.

5 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

There's no magic solutions, you might not like the answers, however this does not have to be a tragic story where you end up dying in each other's arms.  Sit down and set a logical plan. 

Ok thank you your answer's are fine but some people they answer with a cruel way in this forum 

Our lives our choice....

You willing to marry a man and leave him for 2 years in this messed up world?

Risk travel bans?  Risk ban lists?  

This would mean never being together again.

Im not speaking about military. ...

But other than that who in their right mind marrys and stays apart and sits in another country???

Why you didnt move in with him during your wait?

Or didnt he invite you

Iam 43 years he is 37 years old

For going throw the procces i can not stay without my husband iam sick i wanted just to know if their is a fast way to get him with me

Such great advice.....

I should run back to the states and sit in my comfortable home while my husband is homeless.

We knew the sacrifice when we married of losing our families.

Do you  call it love just thinking of myself and leaving him alone???

I call that being selfish.

I dont abandon my partner!

I was hoping to find someone that experienced something on this type of problem before and may be able to give advice.

Being harsh is fine....beung rude is another.

If a couple gives  up on everything and walks away from all they have to be together its obvious material things dont matter to them, just being together is all they want.

Of course this isnt a Disney movie, this is real life. And we both walked away just to be with eachother. Life is too short to be apart.

And as for this comment

 ""You either get a grip on your life or you should find some mental health help.""

sorry your life is so bad someone wont risk everything for you. Hope things get better for you someday...Dunno 

We have both tried to find jobs, no work permits stop this quickly.

The God will guide us in our journey and things will be fine. 

I am a US citizen. My husband is from Algeria. We were married in May 2017 against our families. Religious and racial backgrounds  have caused us both to lose our families. 

We will not stay apart, this is not a option. 

I do not meet the sponcer guidelines and have no one who will speak to me to help me...so we have not filed anything.

We lived in Algeria together a few months till things got so bad we left for my safety. We are now in Turkey living in a cheap hotel with my cats, who are US CITIZENS  also with passports.

We do not mind living in another country, this isnt a issue for  us. 

Problem  is....we have used up all our money, we saved to come here,  rent a house, apply for residency and stay. But we ran into snags  along the way, renting in Turkey is expensive, they ask for many months in advance, security deposit, commission ect.,  No home...no job...no job...no money.

I have a home in USA. But I'm in Turkey and in two days we will be homeless living on the street...

We can deal with this too....

Main problem  is I am in kidney failure, this stress is making me sick. I need medical care back with my doctors who know my condition. Im in pain and getting worse.

Any advice is appreciated. ..

Please do not tell me to leave my husband....cause I wont.

I would rather die on the streets in his arms than for us to be apart.

Each other is all both of us have. ...

Thank you