Hello Californiansunset,
Yes, you're totally right, being upset doesn't let you see over the tip of your nose sometimes! And you re also right when you said I should consider myself lucky, the rough part is already done, and I'm finally happy living together my husband .
I appreciate your comment, I'm Alone for now, no many friends yet, and you have ring a bell i needed to hear, :-) Feel much better now. Wish you a serene evening! :-)